I think being honest, open, and transparent is incredibly important in a relationship. Communication is key on both sides. I'm not a huge fan of smalltalk/chit chat. If we're gonna talk, it's gonna be fun... not "how long have you lived here, herp de derp". I'm looking for a longterm, committed girlfriend- not hosting a gameshow.
I definitely consider myself introverted and geeky (in the good way). I'd way rather stay in and binge watch TV or Netflix, play a video game, read, or go for a walk while listening to music or podcasts most nights than go out. When it comes to socializing, it's really more about the company than what we're doing, for me. I can make anything fun.