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40 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:47pm
White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Irish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
This profile is NOT me.

This profile describes me.

Without further ado...
I am a freewheeling, fun, caring, creative, dancing, singing, piano playing, person. I have so many interests and projects I sometimes lose track! :)

I've just recently gotten into indoor bouldering. I really love it! I'm dusting off my sewing machine these days too. There's just so much to do!

I love to ride my bike, work on music, think about new ideas for Burning Man, hang out at coffee houses, people watch, write in my journal, read, and meet new people.

I have a wonderful wife and yes, we are Non-Monogamous. She has an awesome girlfriend and boyfriend.
I'm looking for friends for hanging out and hopefully more. ;)

I am Musical, Adventurous, and Freethinking
What I’m doing with my life
I am attending college, aiming for my Masters. I'll be a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner when this matriculation journey ends. :)
As I learn more, I acquire new interests in different possible specializations. I love learning!
I'm also learning ASL. I just finished my 2nd term so I'm pretty new but I sure do love Deaf Culture!
To supplement our income, I work two days a week as an armed courier.
I’m really good at
Singing, Playing the piano, Writing songs and poems, Making chai tea lattes, Improv Cooking, Dancing, Urban and Wilderness Survival, Thrift shopping, IDPA, Snowboarding, Road trips, Practicing sewing on my machine, Learning new things. I just got Adult/Infant CPR, First Aid and AED certified! :)
The first things people usually notice about me
People think I look tough at first, but I'm quite friendly, personable, and very in-touch with my inner femininity. I've been told I am a good mix of both masculine and feminine.
I'm also growing a que. It's the hairstyle with a braid in the back and shaved everywhere else. ( people definitely notice it )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A few of my favorite writers are: Mark Spragg, Charles De Lint, Tolkien, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Khalil Gibran...

I love music! Some of my favorite artists are: Ryan Adams, Tom Waits, Elbow, Doves, Air, Zero 7, Sia, Ray LaMontagne, Death Cab For Cutie, Imogen Heap, Glen Hansard, Jeff Buckley, Midlake, Leonard Cohen, Nick Cave, Cities, People in Planes, Lana Del Ray, The Civil Wars, The National, Eric Whitacre...
The six things I could never do without
A piano nearby

Good hugs

Chance meetings

Knowing the mountains are out there waiting for me to find their hidden beautiful places.

Strangers who slip from the masses to selflessly help, and then slip back into anonymity

The connection my music creates that bridges the distance between others and myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music, Bohemians, Artists, Lovers, Living life to the fullest.
I want to cultivate a creative, spontaneous, open, giving, beauty into my life, and the lives of those around me. :)
Irish Gaelic <----- I'm fascinated by the language.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting at a coffee house, going out with friends, staying in or hanging out with my wife and two young daughters.

Lately I've been staying in on Friday nights. I work Friday and Saturday about 12 to 14 hours each day, so those days are shot for social escapades.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not going to close myself off from any type of experience. There are so many wonderful and difficult things to learn from each other. :)
I am a caring and compassionate person who believes in truth, compassion, beauty, joy, empathy and respect.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are fun, creative, open minded and just love being here in the moment! :)
Meeting interesting new people is awesome and making new friends is even better!
So many new adventures await!