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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 2
White, Other
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Two-year college
Has kids and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Irish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This profile is NOT me.

This profile describes me.

I've just recently gotten into indoor bouldering. I really love it! I'm dusting off my sewing machine these days too.
I also volunteer a few times a week at Sycamore Lane Theraputic Riding Center.

I love to work on music, hang out at coffee houses, people watch, write in my journal, read, and meet new people.

I have a wonderful wife and we are non-monogamous. She has an awesome girlfriend and boyfriend.
I'm looking for friends for hanging out and hopefully more. ;)

I am Musical, Adventurous, and Freethinking
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am attending college, aiming for my Masters. I'll be a Nurse Practitioner when this journey ends. :)
As I learn more, I acquire new interests in different possible specializations. I love learning!

Update 4/7/15
I just got a volunteering position in the ED at Providence Portland Medical Center. I'm really excited about this! I start in May!

I'm learning ASL. I love Deaf Culture.

To supplement our income, I work four days a week for an armored courier company.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing the piano, Writing songs and poems, Making chai tea lattes, Improv Cooking, Rangering at Burning Man, Dancing, Urban and Wilderness Survival, Thrift shopping, IDPA, Snowboarding, Road trips, Practicing sewing on my machine, Learning new things. I am Adult/Infant CPR, First Aid and AED certified! :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People think I look tough at first, but I'm quite friendly and personable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A few of my favorite writers are: Mark Spragg, Charles De Lint, Tolkien, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Khalil Gibran...

I love music! Some of my favorite artists are: Ryan Adams, Tom Waits, Elbow, Doves, Air, Zero 7, Sia, Ray LaMontagne, Death Cab For Cutie, Imogen Heap, Glen Hansard, Jeff Buckley, Midlake, Leonard Cohen, Nick Cave, Cities, People in Planes, Lana Del Ray, The Civil Wars, The National, Eric Whitacre...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A piano nearby

Good hugs

Chance meetings

Knowing the mountains are out there waiting for me to find their hidden beautiful places.

Strangers who slip from the masses to selflessly help, and then slip back into anonymity

The connection my music creates that bridges the distance between others and myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living life to the fullest.
I want to cultivate creative, spontaneous, open, giving, beauty into my life, and the lives of those around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at a coffee house, going out with friends, staying in or hanging out with my wife and two young daughters.

Lately I've been staying in on Friday nights. I workTuesday thru Friday, about 12 to 14 hours each day, so those days are tough for social escapades.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not going to close myself off from any type of experience. There are so many wonderful and difficult things to learn from each other. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are fun, creative, open minded and just love being here in the moment! :)
Meeting interesting new people is awesome and making new friends is even better!
So many new adventures await!