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25 Brooklyn, NY Man, Genderqueer

Man, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 6:26am
Queer, Demisexual, Heteroflexible
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Atheism and laughing about it
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
There's such a thing as too much immediate sincerity and honesty, OKC.

Entropic fellow with a penchant for doing stupid things. Philistine of Ontology. Sometimes completely unaware of my own hedonism and self involvement. Completely full of shit sometimes.

INFP. Grey Romantic. Polyamorous. Your average gender neutral queer bot that read Judith Butler once.

Clueless beneficiaries of hegemony and privilege, shamers of sexual expression and spectral exploration, stringent adherants to homogenous living, transphobic, homophobic, racist, classist, ableist, jingoistic, mysoginistic reprobates need not read any further.

Misanthropes, go right ahead.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I like to wake up every morning divorced from any pretext of having an entrenched persona or identity, and see where I find myself within my own personal spectrum.

Writing and working, outlining a sci-fi I hope to write one day. Organizing way too much shit. Currently in a court case over an arrest during the Eric Garner Memorial March.

I'm a nanny and a writer.

I overextend myself a lot, running from one social engagement to another until I inevitably implode in on myself. Whether it's volunteering, organizing, doing projects, or just checking in on a friend, I seem to always keep myself busy. Probably a pathological busy body on the run from some repressed memory.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Giving a dollar to those who ask.
Mansplaining Anarchism
Rolling 20s, passing tests
Loving my friend, Emma the Labrador
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty fucking hyper.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like anything that unravels what I used to think I liked.

Music: Andrew Jackson Jihad, Don Caballero, Joy Division, Magnetic Fields, Django Reinhardt, Arcade Fire, My Bloody Valentine, The Chemical Brothers, Ponytail, Wild Nothing, Gang of Four, Burzum, Talking Heads, Miles Davis, Slowdive, Beast Milk, Mogwai, Death, The Drums, Paul Baribeau, Lemuria, The Sound, Electric Wizard, Light Asylum, Nachtmystium, Battles, Leftover Crack, Sufjan Stevens, Twin Steps, Astrud Gilberto, The Band, Screaming Females, Architecture in Helsinki, Bibio, Jay Reatard, Clark, Tycho, Against Me!, The War on Drugs, Women, Descendants, Ghost Mice, Nana Grizol... Whole mess of stuff.

VIDEOGAMES: Mass Effect trilogy, Braid, The Darkness, The Secret of Monkey Island, Bioshock, Hotline Miami, The Wolf Among Us, To The Moon, Limbo, Super Mario 3, Dragon Age, StarFox 64, Gone Home, Baldur's Gate, The Elder Scrolls series, Fallout, Amnesia: The Dark Descent, Deus Ex, Half Life 2, Bastion,

Movies/TV: 12 Angry Men, Children's Hour, Black Power Mixtape, The Apartment, Alien, Aliens, 28 Days Later, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Squidbillies, Archer, Tim and Eric, Inside Job, Venture Bros., Frisky Dingo, I Am, Peep Show, Miss Representation, Boston Legal, Mr. Show, Inside Job, Lord of the Rings, Space Dandy, The Mist, The Excorcist, Star Trek, Pervert's Guide To Ideology, Event Horizon The House I Live In, Star Wars, Scent of a Woman, Re-Animator, Magnolia, Moon, Network, Play it Again Sam, Dawn of the Dead, Eraserhead

Books/comics/poetry: Blankets, Hegemony or Survival,, Eating Animals, Cairo, 1984, Gaunt's Ghosts, Whisperer in Darkness, Yevgenny Yevtushenko, Slaughterhouse 5, Fortune of Feminism, Homage to Catalonia, Goliath: Life and Loving in Greater Israel, Stephen King: On Writing, The Grace That keeps This World, The New Jim Crow, A Scanner Darkly, The Maze Runer, Omnivore's Dilemma, The Ethical Slut, Leviathan Wakes, The Bell Jar, Are Prisons Obsolete?, Brave New World, Marvel: Civil War, Lost in the Funhouse, Hitch Hikers Guide to the Galaxy, The Hobbit, Quoting the Bible, Habibi, Jimmy Corrigan, Flight series
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How seemingly unimaginative, subservient, and linear I am by filling in all these sections accordingly without any deviation. Geeze.

YPJ Badasses.

How I struggle to participate in this system that benefits those that don't think beyond dominant, oppressive paradigms, but still do it anyway? Ugh.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

Throwing my arms wide in the street to this, caught in painful, sobering self realization. Screaming to the uncaring sky above.
You should message me if
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Looking for musicians to start a band. Gimme a shout.