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31 Ayer, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Buddhism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a southern girl at heart mixed with the Boston Attidute and the laid back hippy from San Francisco.

I was born in Austin and lived there for 4 years till my parents split, then was moved to Boston and spend most of my life growing up. I grew up 90% in Boston.

I am amzing.. I am beautiful.. I am young bodied.. old soul. I laugh all the time. I want to laugh with you, have fun with you, have deep silly conversations with you. I am a really laid back person, kinda silly, corky, always sees the glass half full, very open minded. I am an easy going low maintance person.

I am often singing in my car were ever i am headed. I like to sing, how good I am not sure. From time to time when I am food shopping or were ever theres a good song on.

I am the type of person who is very independent if no one is around to do things like go and see a movie, go and watch opera, go to a sports bar to cheer on a team and make friends with who is around me for that moment I am often with myself. I would always love your company too.

I have really gotten to love cooking I mean love cooking. I really enjoy walking in nature taking photos with my camera...or just soaking up the peace if it all. I enjoy reading books at cafes with good coffee at hand. I really love going to Maine to visit my to just get away once every other month. I like exploring little towns new places... as day trips..would love your company.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently an event photographer and trying to get enough work from it where I can do it full time and quit my other job which is selling furniture/decorating advise which is a lot of fun (but not my dream to be doing retail all my life).

But I have more fun doing photography almost like its not work.

I am a bit out of shape, i had a little mid-life crisis a year fine now just really focussing on getting healthy.

I run 3-4 miles 2 days a week either outside, when its nice or the gym were i add in the bike as well. I also do kick boxing a few days a week. Its important for me to excersise for aside from the physical health part, it keeps me centered, relaxed, stress free..for the most all of the above.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-I am really good at reading people... playing the flute... favorite is tango but can go to any tune as long as I have a good lead.
-I am good cooking.. love cooking...and like to experiementing too changing recipies to be my own.
- I am decent at Pool an Tennis.
- I amuse myself by kayaking.. and seeing if i can make the kayak move the direction I want..
- I love to do kareokee (I think my voice is good eoungh)
- I am okay at poker for pennies :)
- I can throw a baseball and a frisbee
- advise..making people laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
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First thing people notice about me is my smile, eyes, and my worldy accent, openess, and since of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books sad but true so far: the twilight series, and Hunger Games. I love books by Jodi Picoult- the drama gets me all the time. Books about psychology, Books about different ways of seeing government. "The Things They Carried" by Tim O'Brian, "Speak", "The Power of Now", the Twilight Series (including the movies), "Tuesdays With Morrie".

Shows: I'm a sucker for Greys Anatomy, Revolution, Bones, Body of Proof..The B in apt 23, Revolution, Hannible, Chicogo Fire, True Blood, Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Prison Break, Dracula, Dexter, Tudors...always looking for new things! Documentries are facinating!

Music: Rap, Classical, Rock, Some metal like System of the Down, Opera, Blues, Folk, Some it goes on.. even rap from a foreign language I don't understand.

Food: Indian, Mexican, Italian, Thai, Chinese, only if I cook it..mediterian.. I'll almost try something once..

Movies: Sports, Drama, Thrillers, Chick Flicks, Fantasy, Historical.. Comedy is tricky...( black comedy- When really bad things happen)
- Good Will Hunting, The Departed, Chocolate, Signs, V for Vendeta, Clerks, Superman Returns (and all the old ones with Christopher Reeives), 42, 28 days later, Wallie, Green Mile, 500, God Father Serices, There Just not Into You, The Note Book...Beautiful Mind, American Bueaty, Allian Series, Gladiator, Lord of the Rings, Cinderella Man, Inception, Blood Diamond, Donni Darko, The Kids are All Right, The Help ( and I could keep going... so i'll stop)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Camera/ art/my flute
2. Music of all forms even from the wind rustling in the leaves
3. Sunshine/4 seasons
4. my bed that feels like a cloud which makes getting up always impossibe!
5. I could be poor as hell but All I would need to feel rich is a huge old fashioned bath tub to soak in with bubbles and wine and candles.

( I am not including friends and family only because they are a given- I'd be a lost with out them)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What people would do if all their smart phones died all of a sudden.. and facebook got shut down no warming... would it cause mass panic? Would people actually look up as they are walking, look into a persons eyes while eating dinner/catching up? Would humans be better able to be better at being friends? Would people be more active when the weather is nice instead of looking at their emails ever sec even at a nice park? I wounder.

If a man can treat me as well as i treat them.,,..often i find im giving more to men who are able to give back to me..,,

As a girlfriend i do all of the above:
-Back messages
-Very loyal, interested in ones v everyday lives
-Understands when you want space to be with yourself or the guys
-Unconditionally supportive of all things/bad days, past stuff...internal stuff....needing to vent..
-Crazy will do cheesy acts to show love
-Able to communicate feelings....
-Rarely ever late
-Drive if you can't....
I am an amazing girlfriend..,,,is there anyone who's able to show me the same i nuts for wanting this from you?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am cooking up something really yummy and then watching a movie with a glass of wine. I could be dancing either tango, swing, or at some club. I could be at a cute blues club or a bar that has live music. I could even be just out with my guy friends venting about the week that I just lived threw. I might be at a cafe reading a deep or fun book with coffee or hot chocolate (depending on how late it is). If there is a good sports game I could be at a bar cheeris on the Boston teams with the fans.
I could be with my girl freinds at someone's place drinking wine.. and talking about all the funny dates we have recently had, or guy stuff that our guy friends don't want to hear about or get. Or we are just laughing about life.

When its warm out either summer/spring weather ( and I know we can have those temps all year round) I could be walking around the Boston Common for a nice stroll. I could be watching Shakesphere at the common. I could be seeing some nice live classical music at the hatch shell/Esplenad. I might even be on a dock looking at the stars and listening to the bugs doing some writing.

You never know... I am up for anything!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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-As long as I have lived in MA I have never been to a red sox game... very very sad!
- My spelling sucks for I am a bit dislexic
-I am a morning person... a talker... Sometimes i sleep walk....
You should message me if
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Let me ask you something.... A real honest question..

-Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years -from now??

-If you have no clue, no dreams of a career,...
Not interested in having a family...Im not interested.

Please understand that I am not going to your home for the first date.
I'd like dinner, coffee, do fun things together the first few times we see each other (hoping you like me after date one an cant wait to see me again)😀☺😊
I am a women that likes to get to know someone for a while before sleeping with them. I am not talking 2 months of waiting.. I am talking about when exclusive after 3-4 dates. If you can't handle that.... than I am not for you.

I want way more than just sex. I've done the dating thing too long an would like to gave a reason to erase this profile. I have unfortuanitly done the "one night stand" thing a few times and I am never ever doing that again.

I am only interested in getting involved in something serious an long term. I hope you are too, and your ready for something real and fun.

I dont get notified if you like if you do please say hi.