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ButterflyDwah

30 Ayer, MA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a southern girl at heart mixed with the Boston Attidute and the laid back hippy from San Francisco.

I was born in Austin and lived there for 4 years till my parents split, then was moved to Boston and spend most of my life growing up. I grew up 90% in Boston.

I am a really laid back person, kinda silly, corky, always sees the glass half full, very open minded. I am an easy going low maintance person except if you ask me what I want to do, and then it take a little while to come up with an answer. I have really gotten to love cooking I mean love cooking like I love photography/ and air. I will get an idea of a recipie in my head when I am going to bed and will think about it till I make it. I laugh at myself all the time and the small things in life that I can't always control. I try to go to the gym 4-5 days a week to work through lifes stress, and to be just healthy.

I am often singing in my car pretending I am famouse! as I drive to work or when ever in my car. I like to sing, how good I am not sure. From time to time when I am food shopping or at a pharmacy waiting for my perscription to be filled, I forget where I am and get really into whats being played and go at it like when I am in my car... to find people staring at me.. I did the a month ago to "baby baby" by Britney Spears! hehe oops...I did it again lol.

I am the type of person who is very independent if no one is around to do things like go and see a movie, go and watch opera, go to a sports bar to cheer on a team and make friends with who is around me for that moment I am often with myself. I would always love your company too.

I am amzing.. I am beautiful.. I am young bodied.. old soul... willing to grow with a life with the right person. I laugh all the time. I want to laugh with you, have fun with you, have deep silly conversations with you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I am getting ready to move from the suberbs of Boston to Ayre Ma... a nice slower pace of living.. more affordable... and relaxing... less traffic.... I hate moving but this location feels right for some reason....

I am currently an event photographer and trying to get enough work from it where I can do it full time and quit my other job which is selling furniture/decorating advise which is a lot of fun (but not my dream to be doing retail all my life). But I have more fun doing photography almost like its not work.

I am also starting trying to get into home staging... which would be fun and nice for it caters to my design expereince.. and sales experience... and sine I am accustomed to moving every year... I have experience in the process of a new place.. new options of decorating..

I am trying so hard to get in a place where I can afford to live alone...till then I live with roommates... and get by with my jobs that I have even though its not my dream to be selling furniture my whole life..while I make my photography dream into a full time thing other than the work i get from here to there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-I am really good at reading people... playing the flute... dancing...my favorite is tango but can go to any tune as long as I have a good lead.
-I am good cooking.. love cooking...and like to experiementing too changing recipies to be my own.
- I am decent at Pool an Tennis.
- I amuse myself by kayaking.. and seeing if i can make the kayak move the direction I want..
- I love to do kareokee (I think my voice is good eoungh)
- I am okay at poker for pennies :)
- I can throw a baseball and a frisbee

There's so much more but I don't want to seem "cocky".... something to look forward too my inner talents!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
First thing people notice about me is my smile, eyes, and my worldy accent, openess, and since of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite books sad but true so far: the twilight series, and Hunger Games. I love books by Jodi Picoult- the drama gets me all the time. Books about psychology, Books about different ways of seeing government. "The Things They Carried" by Tim O'Brian, "Speak", "The Power of Now", the Twilight Series (including the movies), "Tuesdays With Morrie".

Shows: I'm a sucker for Greys Anatomy, 60 seconds. Revolution, Bones, Body of Proof..The B in apt 23, Revolution, Hannible, Chicogo Fire, True Blood, Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Prison Break, Dracula, Dexter, Tudors...always looking for new things! Documentries are facinating!

Music: Rap, Classical, Rock, Some metal like System of the Down, Opera, Blues, Folk, Some country..an it goes on.. even rap from a foreign language I don't understand.

Food: Indian, Mexican, Italian, Thai, Chinese, Vietviemise..fish only if I cook it..mediterian.. I'll almost try something once..

Movies: Sports, Drama, Thrillers, Chick Flicks, Fantasy, Historical.. Comedy is tricky...( black comedy- When really bad things happen)
- Good Will Hunting, The Departed, Chocolate, Sings, V for Vendeta, Clerks, Superman Returns (and all the old ones with Christopher Reeives), 42, 28 days later, Wallie, Green Mile, 500, God Father Serices, There Just not Into You, The Note Book...Beautiful Mind, American Bueaty, Allian Series, Gladiator, Lord of the Rings, Cinderella Man, Inception, Blood Diamond, Donni Darko, The Kids are All Right, The Help ( and I could keep going... so i'll stop)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Camera/ art/my flute
2. Music of all forms even from the wind rustling in the leaves
3. Sunshine/4 seasons
4. my bed that feels like a cloud which makes getting up always impossibe!
5. I could be poor as hell but All I would need to feel rich is a huge old fashioned bath tub to soak in with bubbles and wine and candles.
6.sleep/air

( I am not including friends and family only because they are a given- I'd be a lost with out them)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make the world the better place even if I don't have the money to help the people who are legit homeless not cause of drugs.

How many people would be saved of starvation if all food establishments donated the left over food to starving people all over the world and this country.

What people would do if all their smart phones died all of a sudden.. and facebook got shut down no warming... would it cause mass panic? Would people actually look up as they are walking, look into a persons eyes while eating dinner/catching up? Would humans be better able to be better at being friends? Would people be more active when the weather is nice instead of looking at their emails ever sec even at a nice park? I wounder.

If Men have forgotten how to talk to women that aren't face to face... with out the sex talk before meeting them. I ask you this... before you think I am a prude: before online dating.. and you had to go to bars/cafes.. what would you spend more time talking about to someone you were attracted too... A.- sex drive, last time getting laid, B. Trying to find out who they are.. if you can make them laugh... and get their phone number for an actually date where you act like a true gentalmen?
I think about where are all the real men out there whether online.. or in person who get this! If you do.... pleaseee let me know!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am cooking up something really yummy and then watching a movie with a glass of wine. I could be dancing either tango, swing, or at some club. I could be at a cute blues club or a bar that has live music. I could even be just out with my guy friends venting about the week that I just lived threw. I might be at a cafe reading a deep or fun book with coffee or hot chocolate (depending on how late it is). If there is a good sports game I could be at a bar cheeris on the Boston teams with the fans.
I could be with my girl freinds at someone's place drinking wine.. and talking about all the funny dates we have recently had, or guy stuff that our guy friends don't want to hear about or get. Or we are just laughing about life.

When its warm out either summer/spring weather ( and I know we can have those temps all year round) I could be walking around the Boston Common for a nice stroll. I could be watching Shakesphere at the common. I could be seeing some nice live classical music at the hatch shell/Esplenad. I might even be on a dock looking at the stars and listening to the bugs doing some writing.

You never know... I am up for anything!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-I have not upgraded my phone. I don't have smart phone of any kind, or a Iphone. My phone doesn't even have games. I do this for I don't work/email to follow me.
-As long as I have lived in MA I have never been to a red sox game... very very sad!
- My spelling sucks for I am a bit dislexic
-I am a morning person... a talker... Sometimes i sleep walk....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to give me a chance and see I am that "one of a kind" lady like myself.. someone you have been searching for like the "needle in the hay stack".. that fit you want and desire.. and I sound like that fit as a women, a best friend, A partner in crime. You know how to be a man, a gentlemen with Chiverly.... No sleeping sex, no oral even just a nice make out session, cuddle even on date one no matter how temping. A man who wants a women and is ready for something real, and EXCLUSIVE.

If you can handle this...and are a real man that doesn't play games... doesn't want something causual than let me know... I have been waiting for a long time...and I know your worth the wait... I sure am.. for you!

and please be a gentalman who can refraine from any sexual talk content.. I want to keep this pj.

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