I am a women, I am an artist who loves all forms can do many forms. I am a dancer of feelings and love tango. I am intense yet calm quite goofy and fun. I am a passionate person who cares for justice but understands balance in all things. I am a poet of my deepest emotions and feelings thats where the deepest truths come out. I am a libra/Taurus I am the besets of friends, the worst of enemies. I am loving and caring and want nothing more then to be loved, and have someone to love.

I am 28, I have problems like everyone else....that I have to deal with on a day to day basis but I don't let them define me.

In a man he will:

- Be honest but not harsh in a cruel way- supportive
- Always tell me whats on his mind even if its a hard topic and it might hurt my feelings.
- He will want sex more than 1,2 a week and be willing to wait more than 5 dates before i give that self up... and be willing to be tested for all the sexual diseases that are out there.. as I get checked every year even though I always use condoms
- He will not ever stop wanting to kiss me, make out with me even when the sex happens..(making out is a turn on I need it and crave it with someone who cares for me the way sex is needed)
- He will be open mined in and allow us to disagree in things and not be hurtful and insulting.
-He wont make me feel guilty for not being able to pay in things when I can't afford it.
-He doesn't play games...keep things going even if he isn't into the relationship..he will be open and honest... No misleading.
- He wont get jealousy if I have guy friends and hang out with them.
-He wont think its weird that I go out alone and do things alone like watching sport games at a bar... seeing music alone- if anything he will come.. but understand that independent part of my life.
-He will be a good listener, and able to admit when he's wrong and say he's sorry if he's been an ass.
-He will think I’m sexy if I'm sick as a dog and wearing all sweats with a bright red nose.
-He will go dancing with me..and if not.. wont get mad when I go dancing with other men just for the pure reason to dance...not to get laid...or take anyone home..the act of dancing.
-He will want to snuggle and hold me while we sleep in bed... even if I snore a little..
- He will let me rant and bitch about my bad days...
- He will get me roses/flowers.... on any given random day...
___he will be my best friend.... my equal... partner in crime...

if anyone like that is out there... please let me know...

I am currently an event photographer and trying to get enough work from it where I can do it full time and quit my other job which is selling furniture/decorating advise which is a lot of fun. But I have more fun doing photography almost like its not work.

I am living every moment to the fullest for I have had too many close calls growing up with bad asthma(now much better) so I really respect air and the day to day moment of being in the present.

-I am really good at reading people... playing the flute... dancing...my favorite is tango but can go to any tune as long as I have a good lead.
-I am good at communication and talking about the hard stuff... and of course the fun too! and seeing both sides of everything! I am a great listener and advise giver.
-I am good at admitting I am not perfect at everything even though I wish I was!
-I am ready for new challenges that come every day.
-I am good cooking.. love cooking...and like to experience with fish mostly.
-I am good at laughing at myself which I do a lot... cause life is short.. sometimes I can take myself too seriously but I learn to laugh the small stuff off.

First thing people notice about me is my smile, eyes, and my worldy accent, openess, and since of humor.

My favorite books sad but true so far: the twilight series, and Hunger Games. I love books by Jodi Picoult- the drama gets me all the time. Books about psychology, Books about different ways of seeing government.

Shows: I'm a sucker for Greys Anatomy, Private Practice. I love too 20/20 and 60 seconds. Revolution, Bones, Body of Proof..

Music: Rap, Classical, Rock, Some metal like System of the Down, Opera, Blues, Folk, Some country..an it goes on.. even rap from a foreign language I don't understand.

Food: Indian, Mexican, Italian, Thai, Chinese, Vietviemise..fish only if I cook it..

Movies: Sports, Drama, Thrillers, Chick Flicks, Fantasy, Historical.. Comedy is tricky...( black comedy- When really bad things happen)

1. My Camera/ art
2. Music of all forms even from the wind rustling in the leaves
3. Sunshine
4. seasons
5. I could be poor as hell but All I would need to feel rich is a huge old fashioned bath tub to soak in with bubbles and wine and candles.
6. Friends/family

How to make the world the better place even if I don't have the money to help the people who are legit homeless not cause of drugs..How to live life to the fullest every day. Also- How to be completely present in each day with no thought of the day next and the past day.

if its the winter and cool out- I am all about spending a night inside on the couch near a fire or not... watching a movie with wine or a good beer... finishing it in bed with a good book before I pass out..unless my mind gets me thinking about about annoying thought provoking questions.
During the summer the same unless there's a great free show going on in the Boston Common or Garden.. or at TangleWood... I am really up for anything... Saturdays I'm all in... after recovering from the week.

As Open as I am.. I am really shy... in big groups. I don't care what my socks look like.. if they match.. or not.. People take life too seriously sometimes.. and thats my way of laughing at myself.. when I look down.
I am scared of heights! and As you can tell My spelling stinks,,,,, a bit of dyslexic/ and being super artistic... please don't judge to hard! :)
- I talk a lot when I am nervous...and can make an easy answer be like an essay
- I take long showers
- My socks almost never match and that's okay... makes me laugh when I am having a bad day all I have to do is look down.

I sound interesting, something different than a person you might talk to at the bar or anywhere.. if you can relate to what I have written so far... Pleaes let me know!