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40 F Mountain View, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:43pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am kind, considerate, mature, intelligent and believe in being respectful and compassion to everyone that crosses my path. I love to listen to my older generation, enjoy conversations with kids over adults. That comes with playful and energetic. I am looking for an unusual person who has a strong desire and the stamina to build a great friendship and at least has thought about looking to build something more meaningful and long term. I do have an upper age limit for a reason so no sugar daddy's please:)
What I’m doing with my life
My life is like any other. Enjoying juggling my career, my hobbies and spending time with my friends that constitute my family here in the US. I enjoy my own space a little too much, love and respect the woman I have become, it would be exciting to have someone in my life who is also happy with themselves and looking for someone special to to show up to share the journey.
I’m really good at
Listening, keeping my composure, crafting playful moments, singing, dancing, golf, dreaming, thinking of others, wooing your parents...
But most of all....being there
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes, that my looks don't match my occupation, my accent
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
English patient, Crash, Bridesmaids, Forces of Nature, The Matrix, Hangover, Bond movies, Braveheart (of course), Finding Forrestor, Heat, War of the Roses, Heat, The Great Gatsby, Ice Age, Train spotting, Kill Bill, The Pianist, Under a Tuscan Sun, Vikings, Mr and Mrs Smith, Nikita :)
Broadway shows, plays, Opera, Ballet: Chicago, West Side Story, Cats, Phantom of the Opera, Les Miserables, Romeo and Julliet, Don Giovanni, Tosca, Madama Butterfly, Aida, La Traviata.
The six things I could never do without
Forgiveness, my family, caffeine, sleep, heels and running shoes, and laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to stop myself aging and improving my golf game:)
On a typical Friday night I am
With friends or just shaking of my work week at home with a nice glass of wine or a workout.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 31–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You think you have the maturity and desire to embark on a friendship and not afraid of the possibility of it becoming meaningful. You are at that juncture in your life where you just want to be invest your time with one special girl. Please don't approach me the same way you would approach a girl in a club or bar, I am not looking for a short term fling. I like affection so if you are cold and would rather run 25 miles than show some affection or warmth best we don't meet:) We all show how we care in different ways. It is just a matter of figuring out each others style and using that knowledge to show the other that you care the way they need it, even if differs from what you need yourself ( if that makes sense). I also like and appreciate some space so approach me if you have a healthy sense of that. Lastly, the ability to make me smile or laugh is going to be a true plus in my imaginary book of adorable male traits.