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36 Utrecht, Netherlands Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 18
Open relationship
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Was born, now living, will probably die.

In der Beschränkung zeigt sich der Meister (Goethe 1802)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Now that's a tough one. Trying to find a way to make a living with the things I like to do. Did try the consulting thing for a bit, but although the money was good, the work was far from gratifying. So now back to my old career. Which isn't half bad, seeing as I get to split it between a part where I work at the highest level possible and a part where I get to develop my own business. A bit cryptic perhaps, but I will explain if asked.
No compromises regarding quality!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... most things I try my hand at?
Too full of myself? In that case: being an open book that one never finishes reading...
Again a bit pretentious, but what can one expect from a sentence/section that starts with "I'm really good at..."?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The list would be overlong (bookcases line my walls and not just for aesthetic value: Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett, Charles Stross, Tolkien, Robin Hobb, Douglas Adams, Robert Heinlein and lots and lots more) and I never say 'no' to an interesting story told in (movie)theaters or on TV.
If you want to see the list: ask me for my Goodreads account.

Food: Anything goes, but when it comes to meat preferably something that has had a nice life and a quick end to it

Note: very best series ever is Jim Henson's The Storyteller.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air to breathe
A house to live in
Food in my belly
... ooooh, you mean things I really like. Nothing specific really. "Home is where I hang my hat" and all that jazz.
Do a lot of stuff (ballroom dancing, cycling, field-hockey, hunting) but am not a fundamentalist about any of them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything that comes to mind... No really, everything!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either reading a book, working, watching a movie or out with friends.
Really, there's no such thing as a typical Friday night. I'd go mad if there was.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nothing at the moment. Let me dwell on it...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are an interesting person (and confident enough to admit it) and openminded to boot (luckily those two things usually go hand in hand).
It always helps if you love to read (and hope to see lots of interesting books when you enter a new house), have an active imagination and/or consider yourself a bit of a nerd with some sex-appeal ;-)
I recently found out this is called 'sapiosexuality'.