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54 Dallas, TX Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 16
Black, Native American
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Working on University
Has kids and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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07/2015 - I am still a woman of substance and continue to look for honesty; but I am done. There is no one on this site looking for someone like me. Neither I nor my profile have changed. What has changed is the level of exposure. if you want to know me, you have to meet me. My 5th anniversary of joining OKCupid is almost here and I will leave this site permanently as it has yielded very few first dates, two second dates and no conversations longer than a week. I am, apparently, not what you're looking for as a date or a friend. You may be new to this site, but I'm not and 5 Years without meeting anyone serious about getting to know each other and seeing where it goes is long enough. I can't say ,90% of the people I've conversed with out here are real because I've only met 30 people in 5 years. If you don't think I'm real, that's too bad. In 10 days, I'm gone. I can still wish you all the very best in your search!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Be prepared to meet someone who is busy, but willing to make and invest time for someone willing to make and invest their time to meet halfway between our lives.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living independently - you can find out the rest in person.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The first thing is usually I'm smiling. The next is I'm usually plotting ways to make them smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: for entertainment - Anything Dean Koontz and others in that genre, Eckhart Tolle, Pencil Puzzles & Word Games
Movies: Anything with a good story, music that rocks and great cinematography (Think Somewhere in Time, Gladiator, The Bodyguard, Matrix, Avatar, 47 Ronin, and Maleficent)
Shows: I enjoy crime drama - I leave drama to the professionals and out of my life.
Music: My favorites are too eclectic to list. a better question is what type of music is not my favorite - it's a much shorter list.
Food: I can find something heart healthy in every restaurant or limit the times i consume what is not considered such.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
You'll have to meet me for coffee to find out the rest.
The love of my color-point. Siamese, Shadow
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The contemplation of Eagles lyrics and being prepared for what the future may hold. I believe I'm still here to help others ... maybe even you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up on backgammon, sudoku strategies and studying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sex is very important and I PREFER to do it solo than to engage in uncommitted casual relations.

P.S.: If most of your conversation centers on sex, you have already turned me off. There is way more for you to learn about me and, I hope, for me to learn about you. After reading a recent article, it makes more sense to date more than one person; so, I'll give that a chance.
You should message me if
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You think honesty, passion, compassion, laughter, and trust are things you bring to the table and expect when you get there!

It seems I'm not attractive to those I'm attracted to - It's all good. I can still wish you all the best in your search!