01/2016 - I am still a woman of substance and continue to look for honesty. I left this site for 6 months and a friend convinced me to come back. I hope the suggestion proves fruitful. I'll save you some time - you can't get to know me online. Meet me for coffee/tea or a meal. If that feels too much like an interview, then come prepared to invest yourself in the conversation and perhaps it will seem less so. Looking for a hook-up, keep looking - and contact me when/if we can talk to each other like real people - not just a P and V. If we don't connect, I can still wish you all the very best in your search!
What I’m doing with my life
Be prepared to meet someone who is busy, but willing to make and invest time for someone willing to make and invest their time to meet halfway between our lives.
I’m really good at
Living independently - you can find out the rest in person.
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing is usually I'm smiling. The next is I'm usually
plotting ways to make them smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: for entertainment - Anything Dean Koontz and others in that genre, Eckhart Tolle, Pencil Puzzles & Word Games
Movies: Anything with a good story, music that rocks and great cinematography (Think Somewhere in Time, Gladiator, The Bodyguard, Matrix, Avatar, 47 Ronin, and Maleficent)
Shows: I enjoy crime drama - I leave drama to the professionals and out of my life.
Music: My favorites are too eclectic to list. a better question is what type of music is not my favorite - it's a much shorter list.
Food: I can find something heart healthy in every restaurant or limit the times i consume what is not considered such.
The six things I could never do without
You'll have to meet me for coffee to find out the rest.
The love of my color-point. Siamese, Shadow
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The contemplation of Eagles lyrics and being prepared for what the future may hold. I believe I'm still here to help others ... maybe even you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Catching up on backgammon, sudoku strategies and studying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sex is very important and I PREFER to do it solo than to engage in uncommitted casual relations.
P.S.: If most of your conversation centers on sex, you have already turned me off. There is way more for you to learn about me and, I hope, for me to learn about you. After reading a recent article, it makes more sense to date more than one person; so, I'll give that a chance - again.
You should message me if
You think honesty, passion, compassion, laughter, and trust are things you bring to the table and expect when you get there!
It seems I'm not attractive to those I'm attracted to - It's all good. I can still wish you all the best in your search!