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35 Bronx, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body type
A little extra
Masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(+100 points if you know what my username refers to....)

I am 5-11!!!!! ( You may not be able to tell from my pictures but I am indeed that height)

(back to our regularly scheduled program)

(wait one more thing to say since I have your attention.... I joined a free dating site not looking for my "soulmate". Personally I don't believe in fairytales. I am looking for ladies I can vibe with, stimulate on a mental level, and learn more about myself as I converse with them...If I vibe with someone and it leads to something spectacular I will not fight it. In this day and age online dating is mainly done out of convenience NOT necessity..)

(exhaling now that's off my chest)

Breaking News!!!!!!

I love me A LOT!!!!! I realize how strong I am mentally through all the trials and tribulations I have gone through in my brief 35 years on this planet. I exude self esteem. If you are a lady that lacks in the confidence and or self esteem department we probably won't click...

(Why is there an extraordinary amount of sexual questions when filling out the questionnaire? I am very much interested how you and I match up on the logical and mathematical questions.... yes I'm serious!!!)

Thank you for visiting my page and potentially reading my profile.... (not just admiring my modelesque pics??? wink) Well I will be SURE to make it worth your while

I would describe myself as a passionate, articulate, and confident person that LOVES life and that doesn't take himself too seriously....

I tend to be spontaneous as I am a calculated risk taker and vibe best with ladies who are the same way

I have a weakness for pretty smiles and pretty feet (yes I said pretty feet)...

I am not photogenic at all...In fact I find taking an abnormal amount of pictures of oneself to be VERY narcissistic... but in this visual age that we live, no one will give you the time of day if they don't like your pics....( I look and smell wayyyyy better in person)

"Intelligence is VERY sexy"

If you are interested/ intrigued by me leave a note or as I anticipate knowing you....

"The brave don't live forever but the cautious don't live at all..."

(Everything you read here about me is 100% real. I am 35 years old and am too grown to lie to you, catfish you, or to misrepresent myself on a free dating site....) it is NOT that serious.....

"Opinions don't change facts"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living each day and truly appreciating the blessing that each new day wise I am a school teacher employed by the Department of Education
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Creative
Holding an intelligent conversation
Making you smile
Being and thinking positively
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Why don't you tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
President John F. Kennedy is (in my opinion) one of the greatest leaders and most fascinating people this country has ever known. I am obsessed with all things JFK

I am also obsessed with all things dealing with World War II

Finding Nemo is my favorite film

I am a Netflix junkie

I love reggae, reggaeton, pop, bachata, soca, some rap....even less R&B....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My faith/perseverance
Struggle/ resistance
Optimism/ hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways that I can be a better person
Mixed Martial Arts
Random things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Visiting my mom and sisters
Enjoying my own company
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
* I really really like the Bronx (really I do!!!!)

* I actually read your profile

* I am going bald and some days it's easier to
accept than others
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
* If you think I'm cute
* If I intrigue you
* If I look familiar
* If you are up for an intelligent conversation
* If you damn well feel like it