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43 Syracuse, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 5:58am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Other but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please note: I am not single. If this is a problem, I am sorry, but I would rather not mislead someone. I'm in an open but solid marriage with a wonderful woman. Please feel free to ask me about it.

I’m a 41 year old academic professional guy, teaching in Syracuse. I have an MA in Language Arts. I’m also a fencing coach. I workout about three times a week, I lift weights, run, and fence regularly. I read a lot and teach literature and writing.

I'm looking to make friends, both with and without benefits. I like variety, coffee, girls and life itself.

ask me if you want to know more.

I am educated, athletic, and smiling
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm considering making a short movie. I have no real financing, and no film experience beyond acting, and no camera. I do, however have an idea. It's fun, sexy and kinky. It involves an ice cream cone. I'm certain it would not be safe for work or kids. If you are curious, ask me about it some time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making love. OK that was too direct. I’m a very good swordsman, a good listener, teacher and friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, my eyes and my sense of humor. A lot of folks like my tattoosas well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hemingway first, but I read all the classics, I also like science fiction quite a bit. I like movies, but don’t get enough time to see all the ones I would like to see. As for food, I like spicy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wine, Women and Song… oh yeah, I need three more.


Good books


The smell of the morning air after a stormy night
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wine, Women and Song…

well....Women anyway.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask and you may find out.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are not trying to sell something. I can't stress that enough.

Seriously, I'm interested in meeting folks for friendship etc. who knows what can happen. Let's get lunch and talk about it.