I am an independent, financially secure woman who loves riding
motorcycles, good music, good food, and great sex. I was married
for 15 years but for the last year and a half I have been exploring
every opportunity to play, flirt, make friends, and have a good
time as many ways as I can. I am not looking for any type of
relationship other than friendship: my ideal person is a drinking
buddy who rides motorcycles and knows how to handle an adventurous
To avoid wasting your time (and mine!) my ideal guy is a tall (at
least taller than me!) white man, preferably with a motorcycle. I
don't date black guys and I never, ever, ever bring people to my
house so please don't ask.
What I’m doing with my life
I like to tell people that I'm thoroughly enjoying my midlife
crisis! I am having the time of my life exploring new things and
meeting new people. On a more serious note I am working on my
doctorate at UNCC and have a great job that I love.
I’m really good at
Making my own fun, laughing loud and hard, playing pool, riding my
motorcycle, having a good time, flirting, and hanging out with my
buddies over a couple of beers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm friendly, outgoing, am not afraid to crack a joke (even an
occasional corny one or pun), love to laugh and have big Celtic
knot tattoos on my arms. I'm a big girl but I've been told I carry
myself well and some even say that I'm sexy. You'll have to make up
your own mind about that one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a voracious reader of almost anything but romance novels. Some
favorites are Stephen King and historical fiction, biographies and
espionage thrillers. I'm not much for going to the movies but I
love AMC and Turner Classic Movie channel. I love anything with
Clint Eastwood or George Peppard...westerns, war movies, cop
movies. Not much for chick flicks but do love Audrey Hepburn
Katherine Hepburn and Elizabeth Taylor movies on a rainy Sunday.
The six things I could never do without
True friends (especially my best friend!)
A job I love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of random things...finding new roads to explore on my
motorcycle, music, what I want to do with my life...
On a typical Friday night I am
Out at the local bar shooting pool and laughing with my buddies or
listening to music. I'm open to anything though always looking for
the next fun thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't share many private details until I know and trust someone.
You should message me if
You are looking for friendship maybe more...but absolutely NOT
looking for a sex-only hookup, a serious girlfriend or an exclusive
romantic relationship! If you'd like to talk and eventually meet
for a couple of beers, coffee, a bucket of balls at the driving
range, or a motorcycle ride, I'm your girl. If there is mutual
physical attraction I'm definitely open to safe play!