I am Intense, Passionate, and Reserved.
My Self-Summary
OK - had this thing for a while, so I guess now (7-JUNE-08) IS a
good time to add to it & work on some introspection.
I'm a regular guy. Been through a lot, a lot I could have done
without. I like to do lots of stuff - I believe the company one
keeps determines the extremity & the extent of "fun,"
regardless of activity. I love my children dearly, I live for them.
Life is a strange, wonderful journey through peaks & valleys of
unusual & unpredictable circumstance; 10% of which is "what
happens to us" - the 90% remaining ... "how we deal with it!"
What I’m doing with my life
MOVING FORWARD is the best descriptive ... realistically, I'm truly
unsure exactly what I "might be" doing outside of parenthood - it
takes up so very much of my time. My profession is demanding, quite
extensive, & very rewarding. Also working on finishing a
Master's Degree - why, I have no idea? Obtaining such was never a
goal or desire of mine. Ultimately, I guess the 10% of life that's
been dealt to me in recent years provided the motivation to pursue
such. The attempt itself is rooted deeply within being able to
better accomodate my responsibilities (children) in the long run.
I’m really good at
"Children." They're the coolest people in the universe. Not really
sure how to explain it ... I've always been around them &
associated with them. It's certainly made it easier to relate to
& raise my own. Lets see - what else? Well, I know a lot of
stuff - been told that I possess above average intelligence; but, I
also know of folks who might disagree & say that I'm a total
buffoon. My kids think I'm intelligent, my best friends (of which,
there are few) also believe the same. I'm definitely more into the
quality of friendships, rather than the quantity. One of my
(probably "the") best friend I've got has always termed me as a
"jock-nerd." I'll say this - I'm really good at being different. I
tend to not go with the "status-quo." My general beliefs are
slightly beyond the "average conservative." I am however, VERY
respectful & appreciative of those who possess differring
opinion. I'm probably best at being truthful & giving respect -
especially to those who afford like tendency.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am somewhat shy, quiet, & reserved. I have been accused of
being arrogant, although I believe such to be founded in a
mis-identification of confidence. I don't require approval of
others via socialization for my own personal villification. I am
who I am. Many find out (the hard way) that IF (or when) you ask me
for my opinion, what I might be thinking, &/or feeling -
preparation for my response is not necessarily possessed. I don't
"sugar-coat" things very well. I can do "politically correct," but
the better anyone knows me - the less likely I tend to be such.
(Un)Fortunately - depending upon your perspective - I am honest to
a flaw.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
My favorite book is the Bible, I read it daily - keeps me grounded.
It is the BEST Book ever written. I consider myself very
"well-read." I will not bother listing all of my favorite books -
but a few are: Without Remorse (Clancy), Shibumi (Travanian), The
New Answers Book (Ham, et.al.), Heart of Darkness (Conrad), Culture
Warrior (O'Reilly), & All 3 books by the "NFL Assassin" (Jack
Tatum).
Movies? Forrest Gump, We Were Soldiers, Secondhand Lions, The Great
Santini, Open Range, Animal House, The Blues Brothers, 300, We Are
Marshall.
Music? Mostly Classic Rock & Roll, or artists who incorporate
"Classic Styles." For example: Stevie-Ray Vaughan, or, Kenny Wayne
Sheppard. I love Zeppelin, Floyd, Rush, Doobie Brothers,
SuperUnknown, Alman Brothers, Molly Hatchet, Blackfoot, CCR,
Evanescence, Dark New Day, Swampdawamp.
Food? God I love to eat!!!! You pick it, there's a better than 97%
chance I LOVE IT.
The six things I could never do without
God & Jesus - for ALL the blessings I have been bestowed; the
greatest being my children.
The smiles on the faces of my children, the feel of their arms
around me when we hug, the look in their eyes when they know I am
proud of them - for their effort (regardless of performance), their
attitude, & their character.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I don't know ... lot's of stuff I guess. Everything I've just
written above, life, sports, music. All the other things that (I
think) kinda need to happen to make this world a better, safer
place for my kids.
On a typical Friday night I am
Totally dependent upon the "season" of the year. If you wanna know
more - well, we'll see.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
UH ... I don't know.
You should message me if
... you want to; & only if you're NOT psychotic or
sociopathically misleading! I have neither the time nor the
patience for any drama. Thanks for taking the time to read this
either way.