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CASSROT

51 M Cambridge, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:15pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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“Funnier than a speeding bullet, smarter than a locomotive, able to leap small social niceties in a single bound. Look, here on this page! It’s CASSROTMAN! Seriously, it is inherently bizarre to be writing an ad to sell oneself as a romantic life partner!

Embarking on many new challenges and opportunities. Empty nester since 2006. Divorced since 2009. Entered academia (after years working in Washington, DC for the Feds) in 2013.

About me: politically/socially progressive (liberal and proud of it), tall, physically fit, emotionally stable, financially secure, dependable (wait, this is the same list of adjectives that every man uses, right?), environmentally conscious (Yes, I drive a Prius), intellectually curious, sense of humor (I am already laughing at myself), professionally and personally devoted to enhancing the well being of others/world.

Family: Adult daughter (27) with whom I have great relationship. I am proudest that she is a genuinely kind, compassionate human being. Also smart, inquisitive, and funny/hysterical. No other bio family in area. Friends are family of choice, and I am intensely devoted to them.

Enjoy intellectual challenge of discovering new things (and/or breaking lab equipment). Most of all I enjoy teaching; helping people grow and understand new issues (such as, “What the heck is Dr. Z trying to say?!). Believe secret to teaching is the ability and desire to communicate. Either that or merely giving lots of A’s. I get exceptional teacher evaluations (and I don't give all A's) so possibly doing something right.

Sense of humor: irreverent/whimsical/goofy more than sarcastic (though I can appreciate that in others). Few things make me as pleased as making people (and myself) laugh. My ex-wife recently sent me an email saying “I’ll never find anyone that made me laugh as much as you”.

Socially: Proud that I have reputation as an empathic and kind/compassionate man. Particularly enjoy small gathering (e.g., dinner parties) where people can engage intimately with each other. Enjoy the quiet/solitude of the countryside, the beach in the winter, national parks. Favorite vacation of all time was when I went to France for two weeks with two lifelong friends, their spouses, and kids. We rented an estate, and cooked, traveled to see the sights, and just enjoyed conversation and each others company (and wine and baguettes).

Activities: Enjoy being active (hiking, yoga, dancing, basketball ... yes, being tall helps!), and make a point of trying to be healthy (without going overboard). In the last year or so I’ve become a devotee of live music and dancing (why do I seem to often be the only man on the dance floor?). If someone knows of good places to listen (and dance to) music, please share with me! Otherwise we can figure it out together.

Arts/Entertainment: Enjoy off-beat, indie films, blues music, oldies rock, Motown. I enjoy museums in theory … but in practice my feet get tired and I become bored. Need arts that are more interactive than a painting that sits on the wall and doesn’t talk back to me. Lectures can be fascinating and when I lived in DC I would attend 1-2 per week. Live theater and live music just have so much more energy!

You: physically active, slender/fit, intelligent, compassionate, able to laugh at yourself (and me). Willing to tell me how you really feel about things, and want me to do the same. Open to sharing your life completely, but also appreciate having time to yourself. Aware that life is full of contradictions, and that duality is a plus not a minus. The list of adjectives can go on forever … and are of limited value until we have an opportunity to meet in person.
What I’m doing with my life
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Generally try to be the "best" I can be (without having to join the Army). Which means: mentally active, physically healthy, and promoting "good" in the world (humanitarian, environmental, etc). Plus, just trying to enjoy the simple pleasures of life (hiking, food, laughter).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creativity (inclusive of conceptual thinking, cooking, and writing), lighhearted and playfulness, and generally "kind" (compassion, nurturing, giving massages).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height (6'3")?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fiction: One hundred years of solitude (and many others)
Non-Fiction: Nudge, The Evolution of Desire, The Ape and the Sushi Master, The Tipping Point, Guns Germs and Steel (read about a book a week on average)
Movies: indie films usually
Music: classic rock ... U2, CSNY, etc
Food: spicy ... Indian, Thai ... I love to cook
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Love/companionship;
2) humor/playfulness;
3) books (read and writing);
4) exercise (yoga, hiking, gym - feeling healthy);
5) friends/family (daughter is 26 yrs old and has her own life ... tis good!);
6) salty snacks and chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human nature/behavior and how an understanding of intrinsic tendencies can be used to move social policy in a positive direction (yes, I'm kind of a wonk)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably spend too much time reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll admit almost anything ... I harbor no secrets ... but not on-line
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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If you think we might have things in common ... and want to