40 Charlotte, NC
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My self-summary
If you're anything like me, you've arrived at this place in your life where failure in relationships has become quite mundane. I am a polyamorous southern gentleman that is a native of Charlotte, North Carolina. As a single parent with my 2 kids living with me, I know and very well appreciate the plight of other single parents. Our kids come first, but we still are desirous of quality time with someone of substance, so here I am. Rolling the dice to see if I can find the friendship first, and if we make it to that point, we'll see what else we have room for. I'm definitely an acquired taste, and by that, I mean I'm a guy that you will admire MUCH more in a social setting than you will after reading this profile. It will all make sense then and only then.

I have discovered in the last 3 years that I'm happiest in open relationships and surround myself with folks who are in or at least open for discussion of non-traditional relationships. Polyamory, or the love of more than one, is where I have landed. The honesty and openness that it affords me has led me to be at the most stress free time in my life. I keep things in proper perspective, and as such am looking to add new friends to my circle just to see where things go. Hopefully I will cross paths with only those free from judgment (no I'm not bisexual) and whose quest for enlightenment and ability TO enlighten will help us to become friends and better individuals. I hope this introduction finds you in peace and good health. Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from ya soon!
What I’m doing with my life
Just went back into the workforce for someone other than myself and I absolutely LOVE my job. It feeds my need to interact with people and fix things on a daily basis. Nothing like coming home tired and fulfilled at the end of the day.
I’m really good at
Making people smile and feel comfortable in my presence.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall guy with a really nice smile who smells great.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
2015 is starting off like a beast with American Sniper and Selma. I'm mainly a Lord of the Rings Trilogy kind of guy. I love to play my sax and sing karaoke. Don't care too much for Mexican food because I hate beans, lol, and I don't eat red meat. Other than that, I eat whatever's clever.
My top 5 movies of all time:
1. Forrest Gump
2. The Shawshank Redemption
3. The Green Mile
4. The Usual Suspects
5. Scarface
The six things I could never do without
My kids
Human interaction
In the absence of money, a skill with which to barter or trade
A mechanical means to get from points A to B
Female companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making sure that I do the best to provide for my kids and make sure that they grow up to be wonderful young adults.
On a typical Friday night I am
I can show ya better than I can tell ya.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In Vietnam.........and that's all I have to say about that.
- Forrest Gump
You should message me if
You enjoy the occasional company of a true gentleman that's never pushy and all about enjoying time spent together.