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39 Charlotte, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:59am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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If you're anything like me, you've arrived at this place in your life where failure in relationships has become quite mundane. I am a polyamorous southern gentleman that is a native of Charlotte, North Carolina. As a single parent with my 2 kids living with me, I know and very well appreciate the plight of other single parents. Our kids come first, but we still are desirous of quality time with someone of substance, so here I am. Rolling the dice to see if I can find the "glove that fits", rather than settling for just the one that looks good on my hand but is uncomfortably tight, because eventually, I'll be looking for a new pair.

Looking at MY history of failed relationships, I can attribute the failure of each one to KNOWING that it was not the right relationship for me OR her during the dating process, so I've finally arrived at a place in my life where I'm content to not make a hasty decision just for the sake of companionship. I need and WANT the woman for whom I'm perfect, and the one who's perfect for me...and I'm no longer in a rush. If you're interviewing for the position, you are a woman of class, substance, have control over your emotions, are not the jealous type, and are looking for something REAL, please don't hesitate to drop me a line. I look forward to meeting you and seeing if we fit!
What I’m doing with my life
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Just went back into the workforce for someone other than myself and I absolutely LOVE my job. It feeds my need to interact with people and fix things on a daily basis. Nothing like coming home tired and fulfilled at the end of the day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people smile and feel comfortable in my presence.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tall guy with a really nice smile who smells great.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lord of the Rings Trilogy kind of guy. I love to play my sax and sing karaoke. Don't care too much for Mexican food because I hate beans, lol, and I don't eat red meat. Other than that, I eat whatever's clever.
My top 5 movies of all time:
1. Forrest Gump
2. The Shawshank Redemption
3. The Green Mile
4. The Usual Suspects
5. Scarface
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
Human interaction
In the absence of money, a skill with which to barter or trade
A mechanical means to get from points A to B
Female companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making sure that I do the best to provide for my kids and make sure that they grow up to be wonderful young adults.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can show ya better than I can tell ya.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In Vietnam.........and that's all I have to say about that.
- Forrest Gump
You should message me if
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You enjoy the occasional company of a true gentleman that's never pushy and all about enjoying time spent together.