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24 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:51am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Mid-20's man seeks secrets of universe.
What I’m doing with my life
I teach a practice called Orgasmic Meditation (OM for short.) It's a partnered meditation for men and women that builds connection by getting us out of our thoughts and in to Limbic resonance with the people around us. (The Limbic system (or Paleomammalian brain) is the part of the brain that gives humans the power of empathy and non-verbal, emotional communication.)

And I'm a singer/songwriter. My music is online on my bandcamp page:
I’m really good at
I thrive in high intensity situations, but I can also be quite affable. I'm also really funny, too. I swear.

Not good at throwing frisbee.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is where I pretentiously list off all the music I listen to because I've found that that is the easiest way to tell if I'm going to get along with someone:

First of all I mostly only listen to David Bowie and Kanye West.

Then there's:
Bob Dylan, Kendrick Lamar, Townes Van Zandt, Leonard Cohen, Lady Gaga, Bruce Springsteen, J. Cole, John Prine, Jay Z, Paul Simon, Neil Young, Judee Sill, Neutral Milk Hotel, The Beatles (and all they solo ish), The Rolling Stones, Wu-Tang Clan (and all they solo ish), Queen, Guy Clark, Butch Hancock, Pusha T/Clipse/Re-Up Gang, Jimmie Dale Gilmore, Jonathan Richman, Sam Cooke, The Band, The Velvet Underground, PIXIES, The Breeders, Miles Davis, T. Rex, Elton John, Johnny Cash, Cat Stevens, Warren Zevon, Regina Spektor, Joanna Newsom, Adam Green, John Fahey, Dave Brubek, Nas, Beach House, Lana Del Rey, Interpol, Mountain Goats, Joni Mitchell, Frank Ocean, Crosby, Stills, and Nash, Janis Joplin, Tom Waits, The Kinks, Otis Redding, Sly and the Family Stone, Van Morrison, Donovan, Ludacris, Cream, Led Zeppelin, Elvis Costello, Talking Heads, Chuck Berry, The Who, Jimi Hendrix, Woody Guthrie, Gillian Welch, Hank Williams, Gram Parsons, Cat Power, Karen Dalton, Doc Watson, Feist, The Knife, CocoRosie, Bill Monroe, Louis Armstrong, Nina Simone, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Neko Case, Patti Smith, Fiona Apple, Television, Procol Harum, Old Crow Medicine Show, The Magnetic Fields, Charles Mingus, Prince, Michael Jackson, Violent Femmes, Nick Drake, Elliott Smith, Eric B. and Rakim, Public Enemy, NWA, Cake, The Carter Family, The Beach Boys, M. Ward, The Unicorns, Bee Gees, Outkast, Gogol Bordello, Merle Travis, Roger Miller, and I also like musicals, classical piano, obscure 60's garage rock, and bad hip-hop from the early 2000's.

I watch books and read movies sometimes too.
The six things I could never do without
Food; and
Water; and
Sex is
Drugs like
Rock; and
I spend a lot of time thinking about
It's not the side effects of the maté, I'm thinking that it must be love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing my best to be connectable. I'm an introvert who can spend long periods of time totally by myself. But I know more is possible in the discomfort of connection.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an alien. I'm still learning the rules here.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to hang out, make out, play music, or want to learn more about OM.