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CDanforth

24 Seattle, WA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:03am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
More than $1,000,000
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Speaks
English
My self-summary
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Everybody calls me Danforth. INTJ. You will never see me in a bad mood, life is too interesting to let anger get in the way. I'm a calm, curious, dynamic oddball who doesn't bother with dishonesty. I can be pretty weird, and can geek out without warning. My bad.

I truly mean it when I say that I'm drama-free. I won't judge you, creep you out, patronize you, blow your phone up, project my wants/expectations, or make my problems yours. We are all of equal value, regardless of our decisions or lifestyles.

I would welcome the opportunity to make a new friend, I need more quality individuals in my life. I love taking the time to get to know people, and developing meaningful relationships that stick. It's proven to be easier said than done around here.

Friends are few and far between in my world, my last relationship was almost two years ago, and I wouldn't have it any other way. I'll never date just for the sake of dating.. rather I prefer to save my affection for those I can identify with on a deeper level.
What I’m doing with my life
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Moved to Seattle from Boston about a year ago, where I studied Music Business & Management and psychology at Berklee. I play the trumpet, trombone, and the bass. I play as often as I can, but my focus is mostly on the business/social aspect of music.

In 2010 my (business) partner & I co-founded The Steelehaus Creative Corporation.
We're an artist development conglomerate, essentially a family of businesses working together (under the same brand) to provide the tools necessary for artists to collaborate and build a career, on their own terms. It is my life's work, something I'm truly proud of.

I also work full time with kids and teens with developmental disabilities as a home care aide. It's been a privilege to witness such unadulterated humanity, and I hope to continue working with kids in the future. Soon I will be combining these two careers, once I get a music therapy degree under my belt.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dangerous Optimism
Communicating
Being brutally, awkwardly honest
Strategy
Gardening
Music & theory
Making drinks
Listening
The first things people usually notice about me
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First comment is usually the eyes. They're blue, and apparently some people like that.

Sometimes I'm a space cadet, and can be very abstract or nonsensical, usually in a goofy or maniacal way. I have learned that this can be weird for some people, especially sensitive or sarcastic types. I tend to be very chatty, fear of rejection or failure makes for a boring life. Sometimes I try too hard, and feel silly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to cook, but I rarely like to cook alone, or just for myself. My favorite thing to do is cook food for many people while we listen to music and drink. I'm also the least picky eater I've ever met.

With a few exceptions, I don't truly love something I see on a television unless it's funny.

Music is usually not a matter of taste for me. My life has revolved around playing and listening to music since I was a child, and it will be the source of both my happiness and employment for the rest of my life. I won't listen to music and actively dislike it unless it is something else before it's music.

I grew up playing creole music (new orleans jazz), Cuban & various Latin American styles, and big band jazz on my trumpet, but got deep into funk, R&B, and hip hop in college. On the bass I grew up playing metal/hard rock, small group jazz, eventually exploring hip hop and funk as well. I listen to 'classical' music on the daily, but rarely when anybody's around.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
An Instrument
Paper & Pen
Chaos
Humor
Caffeine
Golden Grahams (tied with sriracha)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm all over the place, seriously.
I get really excited about random concepts or ideas sometimes, and catch myself explaining things to specific people in my head like they were in the room with me. I make fun of myself often.

Often, being too trusting and open with people gets me into trouble, but I refuse to change. I don't hide my flaws, you'll know the 'real' me quickly if you pay attention. I prefer to assume the best out of others and be dissapointed every once in a while, as opposed to assuming the worst out of the world and in constant search for the exceptions. I prefer the inevitable consequences of trusting openly over the dull unhappiness that comes from trusting nobody.

My work is my passion, so naturally much of my mindspace is taken up by the fear and excitement of business.

I write every day.. rather I continually develop a series of 'strategic initiatives', both for my personal life and the life of my company. Long story.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finding a nice spot for food.
Practicing, or finding guys around me to jam with.
Working from home, writing or reading.
Hanging out with like 4 people at my place drinking quality beer, smoking a spliff, and listening to awesome music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Now that I am yet again living in an unfamiliar city by myself, I'm starting to realize just how lonely I've allowed myself to become over the years. Moving around so much has had a negative impact on my ability to make quality friends, even though I'm surrounded by awesome people. I feel very alone sometimes.
You should message me if
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If you'd like a new friend, I'm pretty good at that.
If getting coffee and browsing the farmers market on a Sunday sounds like fun, if cooking a badass meal and playing board games sounds like fun, if wandering/pondering around this awesome city sounds like fun, then you should message me.