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35 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 6:25pm
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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I'm from nyc, i've moved around a lot but the road always leads back here. Been living in Brooklyn for the last 7 years. i'm a professional drummer and teacher.
What I’m doing with my life
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writing songs, teaching, studying. Playing mostly in jazz clubs right now but i'm branching out. Recently went back to school after working for ten years- it's been great.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
living out of a suitcase. percussion. i used to be good at chess. I love being outdoors, and anytime i can get out of the city it's a blessing. ADK in particular. I make a great cup of coffee (is that a skill?). discussing in detail a book i've never read.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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sheakespeare, james joyce, Dostoyevsky, salinger, joseph campbell, Fante, Yeats, also biographies of people and artists i admire. recently read a great bio of charlie parker.

Js Bach, Nina Simone, Coltrane, Billie Holiday, Tom Waits, Lester Young, Wayne Shorter, Howlin Wolf, Bjork, Ray Charles, Percy Mayfield (if you love the blues, check him out), Marvin, Stevie, Sly, Bill Withers, Muddy, Hank Williams, Willie Nelson, Will Oldham, Blind Willie Mctell, Blind Willie johnson, Johnny Cash, Nick Cave, Leonard Cohen, Randy Newman, Captain Beefheart, Miles, Monk, Zakir Hussian, Segovia, Casals, Tristano, Ornette, James Brown, Tom Jenkinson, Robert Diggs, wayne krantz, Tito Puente, George Harrison, John Lennon, and my friends, who are inspiring and badass. I love music so if anyone can turn me on to anything i'm always grateful.

movies- On the waterfront. miller's crossing, caddy shack
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, music, friends, coffee, my guitar, improvisation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The art of storytelling/songwriting
Rhythm and harmony.
motion and rest.


the overtone series
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
i might be working, i might out with friends, or going to a show, although I've noticed that more and more i'm staying in on fridays.
You should message me if
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if you're cool, kind, smart
if you know any great dive bars i might not be aware of