Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
At the risk of sounding harsh, I'm curious to know what some of you
women are looking for. I find myself contacting women on here
pretty regularly and getting little to no response. Honesty is
almost always constructive. I'm an in shape, non-ugly man with a
quality job who is passionate about friends and family and enjoys
doing the things that most men, and I think women, enjoy doing at
my age. It seems counter-intuitive to be looking for a
relationship/contacts online and to close yourself off from people
when they make the first "move." A first email response doesn't
mean you have to go out with a man that contacts you, nor does a
meet and greet obligate you to start a relationship with someone. I
say this on behalf not just of myself, but of I'm certain other men
on this website as well. We are all on here to meet people and
people deserve the opportunity to grow into a relationship. Maybe
there are men on here that are, in my words to a female friend, "6
' 2" muscle bound millionaire who is a former professional athlete
who is the cook at his own restaurant, plays guitar for the sick
and infirm at the local hospital and owns a house that was
appointed for his green card marriage wife who has since moved out"
and I just don't know it. But ladies, I encourage you to open
yourself up to speaking to real men on this site. We as real men
will appreciate it and your warmth will be appreciated and
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
High School Choir Director
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of things: playing the piano, cooking, spades, being awesome,
quoting movies, Jeopardy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Game of Thrones Series, Biographies of presidents, Harry
Potter, Life of Pi, Angles and Demons.
Movies: Anchorman, Wedding Crashers, Saving Private Ryan, Lord of
the Rings, Dark Knight.
Shows: Modern Family, The Office, Arrested Development, Parks and
Food: Mexican and a good cheeseburger.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Craft beer, choral music, my family, my computer, my best friend,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
School and music. Currently getting my Masters in Music Education
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a great conversation with good friends over a good
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.