By no means am I a saint, but there is something seriously flawed in the way people approach dating today. Just take one of the questions for example: is it more exciting to explore someone's body or their interests? I can firmly say that the man who approaches dating as a physical conquest is desperately searching for approval and self-esteem and the woman who allows it is an even more pathetic creature. Of course, a woman's body is incredibly exciting!
Dating, just like most everything else today has evolved into a race to instant gratification. We buy using credit, we diet using the latest detox fad and we date trying to get the instant gratification of sex because sex is the expression of love, and if you have yet to actually discover values and earn love, you will seek out it's expression.
To the "kinky" women who think I'm a prude for discouraging sex, or the feminists who still believe they are winning the "war on sexism" by opening their legs, please feel free to message me because there is nothing more fascinating than discovering when/why people decided to throw common sense out the window.