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31 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:50pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Aries, and it matters a lot
Working on Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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These things are tough, do you type a novel or a short story? Do you make a cliff notes version or an abstract? Simply put, I'm navigating my way through life trying to leave this place a little better than when I found it. I value friendship, honesty, loyalty, and family time. Also, I'm quite sarcastic which some people interpret as Bitch and for that I apologize for your inability to discern sarcasm from cunt behavior.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Plugging away and doing my best to come out on top every single day. My life consists of treble clefs and bass clefs, rehearsals, concerts, school work, teaching, and a multitude of other musical activities. Socially, I prefer close intimate get togethers and love any excuse to get together with food.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make amazing baked goods, so much so that I considered opening a home bakery. I'm also great at cooking. Additionally I'm a pro at making obscure movie quotes and references, bonus points if you can keep up.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my swagger. Kidding I don't even know what that is. I would probably say my wit and the ornery things that come out of my mouth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: You can never go wrong with horror, even those horrible B movies. Aside from that I like stand up comics, thrillers, and documentaries. Love getting sucked into Netflix original shows.

Shows: Who the hell doesn't love American Horror Story!?!?!? I also enjoy the walking dead! Sons of Anarchy, white collar, american dad, family guy, futurama, bob's burgers.

Music: Even though I'm a classical musician by trade I'm a complete top 40 whore don't judge. I also enjoy J. Hudson, Mary J Blige, Kelly Rowland, Keyshia, Alicia Keys and others! I like something with soul.

Food: I want to eat ALL the food!! Seafood makes me gag though :(
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tuning key
a fuzzy warm pull over in winter
puma sox
my caffeine fix
my monkey
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how disenchanted I am becoming with the gay culture. It's truly exhausting living in a culture that places such extreme emphasis on beauty and physique where your body is used as currency on the dating market and is the sole determining factor in your overall compatibility for any sort of relationship, romantic or otherwise. A culture that is obsessed with labels: jock, nerd, fit, curvy, athletic, jacked…the list goes on. and all that it accomplishes is giving people the information they need to pigeon-hole you and cease all learning of you as a person based on what box you checked. I'm more than a box and so are you!
It saddens me that as a whole, our demographic is discriminated against on a daily basis, and yet some of the harshest discrimination comes from within our very own community and that's just sad.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's hit or miss. I could be on the couch with netflix, I could be hitting the road for a road trip, or I could be getting a drink at a low key establishment with friends, depends on how social I'm feeling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can kill an entire box of gobstoppers in one sitting all by myself.
You should message me if
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you're a decent human being that is capable of making a connection, returning messages in a timely manner and most importantly, treating those around you as you would like to be treated.