I'm a compassionate, friendly person who enjoys trying new things, whether that be activities, food, or places. I do not drink though a partner who drinks once in a while is fine. Recreational drug users need not bother messaging me. I'm also not looking for one night stands. There are other sites for that. I can laugh at myself (and frequently do!) but I also take things seriously.
Speaking of deal-breakers... Here are mine (to avoid wasting anyone's time):
Smoking/drugs - Current users or Recovering users are not going to be good matches. I respect and admire recovery but know myself well enough to know that I personally do not do well with active or recovering users. Occasionally drinking alcohol is fine.
Bad personal hygiene - coming home from work dirty is fine. Not showering/bathing routinely as needed/daily is not fine.
Deodorant is necessary. I prefer not to use showering as foreplay every single time out of necessity.
Pets - I'm allergic and will never own pets. If you must have them, move on.
Children - I've raised mine and can not physically have more. If you want more children than you already have, I'm not for you. If you already have children, that's fine.
Sex - Yes. Frequently. Adventurous but not group sex or pain. I am monogamous and have no interest in exploring polyamory.
Also, if you believe homosexuality is a sin, I'm not for you. This is non-negotiable.