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53 • Monterey, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–53
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs
In terms of life goals, my primary aspiration is to someday be widely recognized a "curmudgeon" (irresistible, I know, lol).
... generating long wandering rants about anything, everything, and nothing, and when truly inspired, on all three at the same time.
... erring on the side of "too much information" or making the random inappropriate comment or observation.
I love movies but am horrible at remembering specific ones and have a hard time categorizing favorites, because I have so many for so many different reasons. For example I love my Nextflix On Demand because I have the queue loaded with mostly foreign, independent, and documentary films that I otherwise would have missed. And there are frequently ones in all of those genres that blow me away, but I never seem to be able to recall any of the titles after the fact. Instead the flicks that come to mind as favorites are the more well known ones like The Usual Suspects, Fargo, Sideways, Glengary Glen Ross, The Princess Bride, The Commitments, Blazing Saddles, Dead Men Don’t Wear Plaid, and O Brother Where Art Thou to name a few.
My musical tastes are literally all over the board and near impossible to categorize. Music (along with visual and performance art) is a very powerful thing for me so my ipod is loaded with just about every genre represented in some form, allowing me to have access to whatever style suits my current mood. Rock, Alternative, and 70s-80s are probably the most widely represented genres in my collection, while country and techno are probably the least represented.
Also wondering why on this site in particular I seem to be getting more "I'm seeing somebody" or even "I'm dating several people and not looking" responses, especially since I only run searches for the last day. If that really is the case, why are you logging in here every day? Why keep your profile visible if you aren't available? Maybe that's just the new popular brush-off, but for me at least, a simple "thanks, but no thanks" would suffice.
That said, I maintain that the only way to get to something worthwhile is to be completely open and honest with each other from the get-go (anything less would just be wasting each others time), so once we're interacting I'm basically an open book.
I'm seeking quality rather than quantity. I don't have a singularly defined "type", as I can find many different types of women desirable, and truly believe its about the physical, intellectual, and emotional mix rather than any smaller set of attributes in isolation. As to where it goes, only time, and the opportunity taken will tell!
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