Despite what my outdated question answers might say, I am NOT married. I'm going through a divorce as we speak.

I'm an animal lover, I have one dog and two baby kittens. I at one point had four dogs and two cats but decided that was insane. I have tattoos, but most of them are in concealable places. I considered getting a chest piece, but decided it would be a shame to ruin my cleavage :) I like to write - I even like writing papers for school. I have been known to write papers for other people. I like to read, but I read really fast so I go through a lot of books. I'm not so into television. I was into True Blood, but I love the books and the show has deviated from the books so much that I don't really watch it with the passion I used to. Right now it's been a month since my television even picked up a signal ( no cable ).

I'm looking for someone who is romantic, communicates, isn't afraid to see me in person on a regular basis, isn't overly nervous all the time, is experienced and good in bed and likes to both have sex AND cuddle, is intelligent, is goal oriented, isn't put off by my medical issues(chat with me and I will happily tell you about them) and is generally happy with their life. Having a job is a big plus. Having your own car is a big plus. Being taller than me is a big plus :). Is that man out there? I think he is. And here's a bit of non-essential poetry:

I want to feel love
Wash over me like water
When I stand in a hot shower.
Fully envelope me
Like steam
Fogging up the bathroom windows.
I want to feel vulnerable
See myself delicate
I want that tightrope and the spotlight.
I want to see in a glance
That someone thinks I’m amazing.
And feel the temperature rise
When I’m close.
I want heady infatuation
Followed by lingering touches.
I want stutters, missteps
The whole picture.
I want to realize love
Washed over me like water
Like standing in a hot shower.
I want steam,
Fogging up the bathroom windows.

I'm going to school for advertising and marketing management, but I've been doing that for a long time. I took a break from school to have a ten year long career in advertising, and now I'm back to being a student.

Writing. Anything, really. Writing stories, papers, poetry, or anything else. If it has to do with the written word, I am good at it. And I probably enjoy it.

I have no idea. Probably the fact that my coat is covered in dog and kitten fur :)

Books:

My absolute favorite book is Fahrenheit 451. It touches my soul.
Right now I'm reading the seventh book in the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher and I love it. I'm a little behind in that series. I loved the Sookie Stackhouse novels. I used to love Laurell K Hamilton, but lately all of her books are mostly pornographic, and I have a lively enough sex life that I don't need pornographic books. I love the Anne of Green Gables books, Terry Pratchett books, Neil Gaiman, oh just about anything you hand me unless its a mathematics textbook. I love to read. I always have a book I'm working on.... usually to the detriment of other projects that I need to get finished.

Movies:

Secretary - I make all of my friends watch this movie.
I also like silly movies, kids movies, and documentaries.

Shows:

Supernatural. That's about all I watch. And I actually don't watch that often; I really don't watch TV very much. I'll download a season of a show and marathon it but that's about it.

Food:

I love sushi. LOVE. I also love Mediterranean food. I don't eat red meat anymore.

1. Water. I'm addicted to it.
2. Porter, my dog. I don't know how I'll live without him.
3. A book to read.
4. People. I have a few close friends that I'd have a hard time surviving without. I need human interaction or I get depressed.
5. Romance. Not just fucking.
6. Goals. I have to have a project or *something* I'm working on all the time and a goal for that project. Without a goal I get depressed.

I spend a lot of time thinking about God. I have a strange version of Christianity that I made up myself based on how I feel about my relationship with God and what I believe. I think its holy enough, but also in line with what I believe about life. But it doesn't fit in line with any church I've found.

Hanging out with friends.

I'm on disability. You don't get to know why until I get to know you better.

You're looking for a girl who can geek out easily, has time to invest in you and is totally open minded. (By the way, I expect the same open mindedness from my mates.)

If you have a job its a real plus.