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CThomas30

33 Pittsburgh, PA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:00am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English, German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a musicologist and music professor, teaching being the biggest passion in my life. (What's a musicologist, you say? Sounds like a question to be answered over a drink). I've recently finished my PhD, and I teach at a couple universities among other random, unspeakable things musicians have to do to not starve to death.

I consider myself a pretty laid back guy (like probably everyone else on here), and I like to spend social time enjoying good food and especially good beer, whiskey, and wine. (Emphasis on good; I'm definitely a quality over quantity drinker) I've taken a big interest in photography in the past few years, though it's more of an escape for me, so it stays fun. I also like to stay active, and enjoy getting exercise, be it tennis, racquetball, baseball, biking, or simply walking, which I do quite a bit. Luckily for me, Pittsburgh is pretty much the best place ever for a photographer that also likes to stay active. A day spent walking around the city and exploring new neighborhoods with the camera is pretty much the best day ever, especially when punctuated with time to relax with a book in a local cafe or pub.

So, who am I looking for? You, probably! I've yet to find any magic criteria of mutual interests that's crucial to me. One true key to my heart though is through intelligent conversation: discussing a good book, a piece of music, or just thoughtful observations are things I treasure in a relationship. Oh, and liking good beer is a plus too- double plus for liking good whiskey. I can't say it's a deal breaker, but I'd have to overcome my natural distrust of people who don't drink beer... Another plus if you know the difference between an en dash and a hyphen :| (Taking a break from paper grading, felt I had to add that).

I do, however, like people who sing- even if you think you can't. So sing, and drink beer. It's a pretty easy combination when done in the right order!
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching, mostly. Learning when I can. Photographing more and more. Performing less and less.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening (it's what a musicologist does, after all!)

Seeing things from more than one perspective.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read, and do so as often as possible. It's hard to say if I have any favorite books, though Thomas Hardy is probably my favorite author. Discussing books is great conversation, so I'm always reading from recommendations by friends. I think we're in a kind of golden age for television series, between HBO, AMC, etc. Breaking Bad, Mad Men, and Justified are my current dates with the TV. As for films, I love The Third Man (I mean, all-zither score, who wouldn't love it?), old film musicals, old westerns, old film noir, Hot Fuzz, Amadeus, Gettysburg.

As for music, I love classical, jazz, bluegrass, folk, and 90s rock (the good ol' days). I'm fairly out of touch with what's happening now in the pop scene, but my 8-year-old piano students keep me informed.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Teaching
Learning
Singing in the car
A camera bag with a camera and a book in it (I'm calling that one thing)
Classical music
Saisons
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The relationship of perceived "high" art and popular culture, the effect of pre-Freudian psychological theories on German music in the mid-nineteenth century, and how to justify research trips to Europe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having low-key drinks with friends, wacky adventures with friends, going to a concert or recital or movie, or staying in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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All in good time, all in good time.
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