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35 Berkeley, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-36
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 27
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Go ahead and move on to the next guy if:

- you think you're not creative
- you don't like the sun
- all your friends are the same ethnicity and class
- nightclubs are more interesting to you than Nature
- you're convinced you look more beautiful with makeup on than without
- "I'm hungry. Let's go to McDonald's."
- shopping is your favorite pastime
- you worship more than you cherish
- you think soil is dirty
- "OMG I lost my cellphone!!! How will I survive???," hysterical, gushing tears
- travel to less developed countries would scare you
- family is not important to you
- you have no questions

I am looking for a convincing connection to see where it might take us.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Is following my passions, values, high ambition, and having a whole lot of fun along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting with all sorts of people and building communities, writing for print and public speaking, hosting a party and selecting good music, getting into the mountains, urban farming (I have been using a pitchfork to bale hay since my youth, this is ain't no hippie hipster thang), enjoying most any kind of food you put in front of me, combining flavor and texture when cooking, sports that involve throwing objects or hitting them with sticks, knowing the gems of California that other natives don't know, being creative or romantic with outings . . .

I could easily make a longer list of my weaker abilities. The first item on the list would be ice skating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depends in which part of the world I am. If I am in sub-Saharan Africa it is that I am white. If I am in Brazil it's my light skin and blue eyes. In Asia I get tall and strong a lot. In the US it's often my confident voice and calm presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I look for music with soul in it, and enjoy sharing music with others who appreciate original and talented artists of any genre that can move a listener to some kind of emotion. Music is a big part of my life from classical piano to socially conscious hip-hop to energizing electronic tango to heartstring-pulling indie rock.

I like movies like Life is Beautiful, City of God or The Green Mile. I like stories of triumph or tragedy or a time and place now past. I like documentaries too, and of course a clever comedy. I want to be inspired by films and or have them give me something on which to reflect. Same goes for books, though I tend to read more for information. Steinbeck, Kundera, Allende, Voltaire, Zinn, Muir, Schell. I like magazines - The Sun, Seed, Economist, New Yorker, National Geographic, Lapham's Quarterly.

Food? I am definitely live to eat. Good food and cooking is central in my family, and a reason to travel. I can't say I favor any particular cuisine. Tonight, I'll want injera and tibs, tomorrow feijoada, the next sashimi or ceviche . . . better stop. I'm getting hungry. Let's get to the market and then make dinner together. I'm into that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The sun
Fresh fruits and vegetables
Sense of purpose
My mother's unconditional love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to help humanity make the shift from unsustainable and violence-based in our power structures to sustainable and more peaceful.
You should message me if
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You are a vibrant person with your own ideas and confidence in your beautiful self.