Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Go ahead and move on to the next guy if:
- you think you're not creative
- you don't like the sun
- all your friends are the same ethnicity and class
- nightclubs are more interesting to you than Nature
- you're convinced you look more beautiful with makeup on than
- "I'm hungry. Let's go to McDonald's."
- shopping is your favorite pastime
- you worship more than you cherish
- you think soil is dirty
- "OMG I lost my cellphone!!! How will I survive???," hysterical,
- travel to less developed countries would scare you
- family is not important to you
- you have no questions
I am looking for a convincing connection to see where it might take
What I’m doing with my life
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is following my passions, values, high ambition, and having a whole
lot of fun along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
connecting with all sorts of people and encouraging them towards
goals and dreams, building small communities, writing essays and
poetry (when inspired), public speaking, hosting a party and
selecting good music, getting into the mountains, eating most any
kind of food you put in front of me, playing baseball and throwing
a frisbee, combining flavor and texture when cooking, being
creative or romantic with outings . . .
I could easily make a longer list of what I am really bad at. The
first item on the list would be ice skating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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depends in which part of the world I am. If I am in sub-Saharan
Africa it is that I am white. If I am in Brazil it's my light skin
and blue eyes. In Asia I get tall and strong a lot. In the US it's
often my confident voice and calm presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I look for music with soul in it, and enjoy sharing music with
others who appreciate original and talented artists of any genre
that can move a listener to some kind of emotion. Music is a big
part of my life from classical piano to socially conscious hip-hop
to energizing electronic tango to heartstring-pulling indie
I like movies like Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Life is Beautiful,
City of God or The Green Mile. I like stories of triumph or tragedy
or a time and place now past. I like documentaries too, and of
course a clever comedy. I want to be inspired by films and or have
them give me something to reflect on. Same goes for books, though I
tend to read more for information. Steinbeck, Kundera, Allende,
Voltaire, Zinn, Muir, Schell. I like magazines - The Sun, Seed,
Economist, New Yorker, National Geographic, Lapham's
Food? I am definitely live to eat. Good food and cooking is central
in my family, and a reason to travel. I can't say I favor any
particular cuisine. Tonight, I'll want injera and tibs, tomorrow
feijoada, the next sashimi or ceviche . . . better stop. I'm
getting hungry. Let's get to the market and then make dinner
together. I'm into that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fresh fruits and vegetables
Sense of purpose
My mother's unconditional love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to help humanity make the shift from unsustainable and
violence-based in our power structures to sustainable and more
You should message me if
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