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CYGoodman

34 M Los Altos, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:34am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Go ahead and move on to the next guy if:

- you think you're not creative
- you don't like the sun
- all your friends are the same ethnicity and class
- nightclubs are more interesting to you than Nature
- you're convinced you look more beautiful with makeup on than without
- "I'm hungry. Let's go to McDonald's."
- shopping is your favorite pastime
- you worship more than you cherish
- you think soil is dirty
- "OMG I lost my cellphone!!! How will I survive???," hysterical, gushing tears
- travel to less developed countries would scare you
- family is not important to you
- you have no questions

I am looking for a convincing connection to see where it might take us.
What I’m doing with my life
is following my passions, values, high ambition, and having a whole lot of fun along the way.
I’m really good at
connecting with all sorts of people and encouraging them towards goals and dreams or when they're trying to get better at something, building small communities, writing essays and poetry (when inspired), public speaking, hosting a party and selecting good music, getting into the mountains, eating most any kind of food you put in front of me, playing baseball and other ball sports (okay playing, not necessarily winning though I'm always a wannabe champion), combining flavor and texture when cooking, being creative or romantic with outings if I am inspired to do so . . .

I could easily make a longer list of what I am really bad at. The first item on the list would be ice skating.
The first things people usually notice about me
depends in which part of the world I am. If I am in sub-Saharan Africa it is that I am white. If I am in Brazil it's my light skin and blue eyes. In Asia I get tall and strong a lot. In the US it's often my confident voice and calm presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I look for music with soul in it, and enjoy sharing music with others who appreciate original and talented artists of any genre that can move a listener to some kind of emotion. Music is a big part of my life from classical piano to socially conscious hip-hop to energizing electronic tango to heartstring-pulling indie rock.

I like movies like Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Life is Beautiful, City of God or The Green Mile. I like stories of triumph or tragedy or a time and place now past. I like documentaries too, and of course a clever comedy. I want to be inspired by films and or have them give me something to reflect on. Same goes for books, though I tend to read more for information. Steinbeck, Kundera, Allende, Voltaire, Zinn, Muir, Schell. I like magazines - The Sun, Seed, Economist, New Yorker, National Geographic, Lapham's Quarterly.

Food? I am definitely live to eat. Good food and cooking is central in my family, and a reason to travel. I can't say I favor any particular cuisine. Tonight, I'll want injera and tibs, tomorrow feijoada, the next sashimi or ceviche . . . better stop. I'm getting hungry. Let's get to the market and then make dinner together. I'm into that.
The six things I could never do without
The sun
Fresh fruits and vegetables
Physical affection
Desire
Sense of purpose
My mother's unconditional love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to help humanity make the shift from unsustainable and violence-based in our power structures to sustainable and more peaceful.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–36
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you are a vibrant person with your own ideas and confidence in your beautiful self.