"I have what might be considered a very out-of-date and chauvinist attitude about women. I like to treat women like ladies. I like to open doors for them, pay for the meal when I'm on a date, bring flowers, draw out their seat for them--all that sort of thing. I guess I could call it an attitude of chivalry, if I thought more of myself." -from Jim Butcher's Fool Moon, book 2 of The Dresden Files
Required reading: http://www.xojane.com/sex/duke-university-freshman-porn-star (an excerpt below)
"The virgin-whore dichotomy is an insidious standard that we have unfairly placed upon women. Women are supposed to be outwardly pure and modest, while at the same time being sexually alluring and available. If a woman does not have sex after a date, she will be labeled as a prude. If she does have sex, she will be referred to later as a ho or a slut.
Society thus sets up a norm in which women simply cannot win."
Someone asked me if I was racist. I said, "No, I don't like marathons."
Someone else asked me if I was racist. I said, "No, I drive a Prius."
Someone came up to me like he was a Jehova's Witness and started badgering me about racial inequality. I stopped him and said, "Woah there, man. I failed algebra."