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25 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:41am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have strangely cold hands. I'm not sure how is relevant information for okcupid, but a friend and I were talking about it today, and suddenly it feels like a "need to know." I mean, who isn't interested in my hand temperature?

I'm not really sure what I just did there. This self-summary is kind of terrible. I will probably delete it soon. Self- summaries are much harder to write than one would expect. And now I am thinking that my inability to write a self summary is a reflection of the fact that I lack a self awareness. But I over think things like that all the time (at least I know that about myself, right?).

I guess I'll talk about what I am looking for in a person/ relationship-

I want someone who will push me into trying new things and having new experiences. This is not to say that I can't do this on my own, but that I like someone who will try these new things with me, and in turn, I would like to be that same kind of person for my partner. (maybe I just have a dirty mind, but now I am worried about people writing to me about new sexual experiences. Does me mentioning this negate it or make it worse?)
I also want someone who will chill with me and watch a million hours of netflix in one sitting while eating from separate ice cream cartons. (or you can eat whatever you want I guess, but I just need an entire ice cream carton to myself - it's rare that I'll share).

Someone who will have entire conversations using only inside jokes and who appreciates when a person repeats a joke to the point of not being funny.

Essentially this has become really long and kind of weird. I am going to stop here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Is it a cop out to say that "I'm figuring things out"? It's a total cop out, but it's one I'm going to make. I am figuring my life out right now. I graduated in 2012 and found I missed taking classes, so I am now taking classes in improv, printmaking, and some occasional poetry. It's been interesting.

My day job is at a non-profit on the administrative side of things, we do work in health and resilience, I really love the organization but I am hoping to get into education reform in the future.

Also sleeping. I am a proponent of sleeping.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would probably be my red hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything and everything written by David Sedaris
but I'm also partial to John Steinbeck, Michelle Alexander, Joseph Campbell, Nicole Kraus, John Irving, and Sean Thomas Dougherty

Lars and The Real Girl and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.
I have a small obsession with all those instant watch documentaries on Netflix.

30 rock

The National, Beach House, Laura Marling, The Tallest Man On Earth, Blitzen Trapper, Glass Animals, Tanlines, the song Thirteen by Big Star, but as it turns out, I do not like the rest of their music. I found that out I after a bought their compilation CD.

It is one of my goals in life to learn how to cook Pad Thai
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family holiday parties
2. Friends
3. Chapstick
4. My lake (although I don't actually own it)
5. good books
6. googlemaps
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Honestly, God. Which is kind of weird to write on a dating site and I don't mean it in an existentialist kind of way nor a "what would jesus do?" kind of way, I just find theology to be fascinating, and, at times, beautiful, so I tend to think about a lot. I think James Cone is a God-send.
(get it?)

I also spend an embarrassing amount of time thinking about things like Scandal and Veronica Mars or the new Beyonce album. I try to look at these from a feminist perspective so that I feel as if I am bringing depth to the subject matter, but it's still a large amount of time I spend ruminating on the world of pop culture.
(If you can't tell, I added this part to kind of balance out the God part)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I am out hanging with friends at a local bar or doing something interesting like going to an art show

and sometimes I am doing my laundry and watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My grammar is horrendous
You should message me if
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You are into a lady who knows how to use parentheses.