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Cactusflowergal
43 / F / Straight / Married
Columbus, Ohio
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 3" (1.60m).
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Looking For
- New friends, Activity partners
- Smokes
- Yes
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Agnosticism
- Sign
- Leo
- Education
- —
- Job
- Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
- Income
- Rather not say
- Kids
- Doesn’t want children
- Pets
- Owns dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am Smart, Pretty, and Sometimes Shy.
My Self-Summary
I am an Army Brat that has been married for 17 years. Currently
separated and trying to figure out the next chapter in my life. I
am an animal lover and have a skunk, cat, 3 dogs, fish and a horse!
I enjoy going to the movies, horseback riding, traveling and am
always up to checking out a restaurant I have never been to. I am
told that I am a demanding person....probably because I expect so
much of myself. I am very goal driven...sarcastic....but I do have
a tender heart that few get to seen. I have been separated for 2
months...my choice. While I feel I made the right decision...I find
that I am lonely as hell. My friends are pre-occupied with family,
husbands and boyfriends. Such a mystery. Any suggestions out there
on how a newly somewhat single girl can find herself?
What I’m doing with my life
After a 24 year career, I was laid off from my profession about 2
years ago. I am now working in advertising and enjoying my new gig.
It does take me out of town almost every week. I am a morning
person....and I get things done that need doing. I don't drag my
feet...and I hate having to pester someone to do what they are
supposed to do. I have high expectations of others...but only
because I hold myself to those same expectations. As you can
imagine....I end up giving and am seldom on the receiving side of
things. I try to fix things....and really need to stop.
I’m really good at
Listening, solving problems, coming through in a crisis and I have
been told I am an ok cook. I am very driven and usually accomplish
my goals.
The first things people usually notice about me
I seem stand-offish. I really am not....but I can be a little shy
and don't seem to smile a lot. It's not that I am unhappy....it's
just the face I got! I am an open book if you approach me. Once I
am comfortable, I am very outgoing.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I love most music...but am not a big country fan...especially of
"old country" music. I enjoy many types of movies and love just
about any food out there...I am always willing to try something
new.
The six things I could never do without
My horse
My Dogs...ok, all of my animals!
My Friends
Caffeine
A Good nights sleep....but unfortunately I often go with too little sleep
Good conversation
My Dogs...ok, all of my animals!
My Friends
Caffeine
A Good nights sleep....but unfortunately I often go with too little sleep
Good conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What am I doing on this planet? What is my purpose in life? Do I
have one? Why am I not normal. Does anyone else feel like I do? Do
I fit in anywhere...does anyone even remember who the f I am?
On a typical Friday night I am
Riding my horse or out with friends....or lately doing absolutely
nothing since I have no friends any more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I seem very confident, but I have my insecurities like anyone
else....but I won't admit them....and you will think I am totally
indifferent...but I am not...I am crying inside wanting to find
what makes me whole.
You should message me if
You are interested in an activity partner....or a new friend that
is very loyal and true
