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Cade_S

39 Lakeland, FL Man

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last Online
Today – 9:10am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Construction
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am Cade...the thing that thinks thoughts.

I like to believe I am unique, but I think unusual is probably better suited to describe me. I do not endeavor relationships that fit societal and traditional norms, and as such, should admit that I am pansexual and my relationship dynamic is poly d/s to o/p in nature. You should also be aware that I am a sadist and have a predatory mentality, wolfishly so. My smile has been known to frighten as much as comfort.

If this level of honesty scares you, I'm not the person for you.
What I’m doing with my life
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I live life for every moment...so I'm not quite sure what to put here. As such, I don't have any grand scheme in place for the future except to experience death; which is scary, certainly, but exciting at the same time.

I'm currently producing several projects and can best sum up my career field as producer of sadistic performances. I work a couple conventions a year which I'm trying to increase in the next year. I have done a few informative demos in clubs, and just recently ran my first production (which ROCKED). I've got many ideas for upcoming gigs, and always have an eye out for promising venues (think "abandoned mental asylum") and individuals to fit specific roles in more extensive works. I'm currently DMing and doing some stage shows for the Fetish Divine play parties that run on the fourth Saturday of each month.

I'm at a point in my life in which happiness is a commodity and laughter has a higher exchange rate than gold. I work diligently to turn my passions into a way to sustain my way of life, and it is starting to pay off.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at just being myself. I live my life based on my intrinsic needs and desires. I enjoy intellectual discourse and I've been told I'm really good at chess (e2-e4, by the way). I'm not sure if I'm really good at Scrabble, Yatzee, or Uno, but I enjoy playing them.

Oh, and as an aside, I'm really good at being sadistic.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing people usually notice about me is my general overall darkness. I have long dark hair and dark, deep-set eyes with an olive complexion. I typically wear dark clothing, which sets this off nicely. I'm just naturally attracted to the darkness and am quite nocturnal...whatever all that might mean.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books at the moment are the Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan (and in his death, Brandon Sanderson), the Wicked series by Gregory McGuire, anything Chuck Palahniuk, Laura Antonio's 'Marketplace' series, and most of Clive Barker's and Steven King's works. I'm currently re-reading some classics of my lifestyle: 120 Days of Sodom by the Marquis de Sade. I found a long lost copy of Juliette I can't wait to read.

My favorite movie genre is horror/thriller/gore. I adore zombies and wish I could find a living-dead girl. PERVY!

My favorite music is anything but new county, Muzak, or elevator tunes...but lately, I've been mostly listening to MSI and Psyclon Nine.

My favorite foods are sushi and steak (medium-rare, you shouldn't need a steak sauce to enjoy a good cut of beef). I can cook a pretty mean steak myself, and pride myself on my salmon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things I could never do without are as follows (in this order):

1. Oxygen.
2. Hydration.
3. Nourishment.
4. Shelter from the elements.
5. Emotional support.
6. Intellectual stimulation.

I'm pretty minimalistic. For me, the pursuit of happiness does not mean the amount of stuff I can acquire, but instead, the quality of my knowledge gained from experience. Oh boy, how I enjoy to experience.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about perversions, and that's probably as honest an answer I should give here.

::innocent smile::
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a typical Friday night I am usually at home. I'm not a very social person, but mostly because I don't like dealing with large groups of people. I dislike having to speak loudly to be heard (I'm pretty soft-spoken). I'd much rather be surrounded by a small group of close friends that can interact on an honest level, than a big group of strangers trying to impress with façades.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty open person and I think I've already been pretty honest about some private aspects of my life in previous answers...so I have to wonder, what can a really top it with here?

I want a portable cotton candy shooter! How great would that be when "going south". Yep, sure can be hard finding cotton candy in Mexico.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you have a good grasp on your instinctual nature and are confident in who you are...oh, and if my profile interests you at all. Haha.

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