Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am Cade...the thing that thinks thoughts.
I like to believe I am unique, but I think unusual is probably
better suited to describe me. I do not endeavor relationships that
fit societal and traditional norms, and as such, should admit that
I am pansexual and my relationship dynamic is poly d/s to o/p in
nature. You should also be aware that I am a sadist and have a
predatory mentality, wolfishly so. My smile has been known to
frighten as much as comfort.
If this level of honesty scares you, I'm not the person for you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live life for every moment...so I'm not quite sure what to put
here. As such, I don't have any grand scheme in place for the
future except to experience death; which is scary, certainly, but
exciting at the same time.
I'm currently producing several projects and can best sum up my
career field as producer of sadistic performances. I work a couple
conventions a year which I'm trying to increase in the next year. I
have done a few informative demos in clubs, and just recently ran
my first production (which ROCKED). I've got many ideas for
upcoming gigs, and always have an eye out for promising venues
(think "abandoned mental asylum") and individuals to fit specific
roles in more extensive works. I'm currently DMing and doing some
stage shows for the Fetish Divine play parties that run on the
fourth Saturday of each month.
I'm at a point in my life in which happiness is a commodity and
laughter has a higher exchange rate than gold. I work diligently to
turn my passions into a way to sustain my way of life, and it is
starting to pay off.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at just being myself. I live my life based on my
and desires. I enjoy intellectual discourse
and I've been told I'm really good at chess
(e2-e4, by the way). I'm not sure if
I'm really good at Scrabble
, or Uno
, but I enjoy playing them.
Oh, and as an aside, I'm really good at being sadistic
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing people usually notice about me is my general
I have long dark hair and dark, deep-set eyes with an olive
complexion. I typically wear dark clothing, which sets this off
nicely. I'm just naturally attracted to the darkness and am quite
...whatever all that might
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite books at the moment are the Wheel of Time
series by Robert Jordan
his death, Brandon Sanderson), the Wicked
series by Gregory McGuire
, Laura Antonio
series, and most of Clive Barker
's and Steven King
's works. I'm
currently re-reading some classics of my lifestyle: 120 Days of Sodom
by the Marquis
. I found a long lost copy of Juliette
I can't wait to read.
My favorite movie genre is horror
. I adore zombies
and wish I could find a
My favorite music is anything but new county, Muzak, or elevator
tunes...but lately, I've been mostly listening to MSI
and Psyclon Nine
My favorite foods are sushi
(medium-rare, you shouldn't need a
steak sauce to enjoy a good cut of beef). I can cook a pretty mean
steak myself, and pride myself on my salmon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things I could never do without are as follows (in this
4. Shelter from the elements.
5. Emotional support.
6. Intellectual stimulation.
I'm pretty minimalistic. For me, the pursuit of happiness does not
mean the amount of stuff I can acquire, but instead, the quality of
my knowledge gained from experience. Oh boy, how I enjoy to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about perversions
, and that's probably as
honest an answer I should give here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a typical Friday night I am usually at home. I'm not a very
social person, but mostly because I don't like dealing with large
groups of people. I dislike having to speak loudly to be heard (I'm
pretty soft-spoken). I'd much rather be surrounded by a small group
of close friends that can interact on an honest level, than a big
group of strangers trying to impress with façades.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty open person and I think I've already been pretty
honest about some private aspects of my life in previous
answers...so I have to wonder, what can a really top it with
I want a portable cotton candy shooter! How great would that be
when "going south". Yep, sure can be hard finding cotton candy in
You should message me if
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You should message me if you have a good grasp on your instinctual
nature and are confident in who you are...oh, and if my profile
interests you at all. Haha.
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