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29 Pensacola, FL Gender Nonconforming, Non-binary

Gender Nonconforming, Non-binary

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  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
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Last online
Today – 3:28am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Jack of all trades
Master of none
Cry all the time
Cause I'm not having fun

Sad inside and terrified of something making me sadder.
Super creative if I'll ever get around to doing it.
Passionate when open-hearted.
Slow-paced, guarded, and unconfident.
I'm a pleaser by nature.
I often misrepresent myself in person and will probably sell myself short.
I'm manic-depressive but I try to keep it to myself.
At my worst I can be passive-aggressive and even unapologetic. I haven't been in that state-of-mind in years, and I'm always trying to be conscientious about preventing or making up for it.

Love some creepy ASMR videos.

I'm quite a genuine person, passive, but I think too much and this sometimes leads to passionate tirades. I'm a terrible liar. Unless I'm playing a boardgame that requires me to, then I'm a devious madman. People generally trust me, and I never want to betray that trust.

I'm ambidextrously left-handed.... my favorite things: cold feels, cold colors, rain, coffee, artstuff, so much music, femininity/androgyny.
One day I will reign as international massage champion, but for now I'm still pretty good. Also good at visual arts, and sometimes performing. I covet music, and daydream about creating it but NEVER LIVE MY DREAMS.

I have a strange infatuation with deep sea divers, the outfit and the concept of deep sea exploration. I am in awe at giant squids: they terrify but also mystify me.

Um, I use ellipses a lot... (<- see?) probably more than is grammatically acceptable by other people...

I know my profile is loooooong... it's probably worse to mention I've abbreviated it... a lot.

Note: I try to keep things updated, but I'm always finding errors in how I previously worded myself. Feel free to ask me about anything in my "questions" or "profile" that seems vague, contradicting, or off-putting. Also, I don't mind talking about an opposing perspective: it's a great way to broaden our empathy.

I also don't really believe the binary gender model is at all necessary. If you play by those rules, cool, but I like to have fun across the gender spectrum. I mostly have a masculine demeanor and appearance, but I do enjoy ladying up on occasion. Profit: fun.

No preferred pronouns; I mean, "he" is fine, but if someone says "she" I don't wince. Sometimes I'll smurk. I just use "they" when speaking of anyone else... neutrality is easier for everybody, I think.

I identify as polyamorous. And I'll be honest, I'm not in a place to invest my self to a whole level. I suppose what I mean is, I have a lot of automated defenses when it comes to exposing my feelings... am almost always guarded, not that I can't or don't still dearly love and care for the people close to me and want to have meaningful relationships with them.

I am NOT a possessive or jealous person, nor am I okay with unhealthy amounts of those feelings. I know those feelings happen, but everyone can manage it on their own like adults who are accountable for our own emotions.

I tend to pick up other people's senses of humor... like a squirly changeling man. I take after my dad in being an oversized child, and will be until I am one day a dead child... probably from all that wrastlin'. I wish more people were playful. And hugs. There needs to be more hugs, don't fear the hugs.
As you could guess, I do love working and watching after kids. I've been babysitting my 1 and 3 year old nephew and niece, respectively. They are my favoritest thing ever. Objectively speaking, they're better than unicorns. If you want a conversation starter with me, just ask me about them, because I can type out a whole other profile's worth.

I love to see passion and sincere expression in somebody. My passion has burned at different fluxes through life, unfortunately low most of these last years, so I want to be around those who can spark it. I want to be around minds in search for better understanding. I feel that when someone believes they have come to understand all that there is to know, they've only settled for ignorance. I wish myself and everyone to always remain open to the fluidity of humanity and our surroundings.

I'm really fucking feverish about egalitarianism. Topics include animal rights, LGBT rights, gender equality.... Just equality in general. I hate hierarchies, corporate ladders, and anything that demands one human being or animal is less than another.
At the top of meaningful topics, child development and security. Especially child safety. Which I know is true for most, but this evokes a lot of passion... and possibly anger out of me. There is nothing more desirable to the limit of my emotion than rescuing another's childhood. I've considered making a career tangent to help child victims, but I'm not entirely sure that's a healthy line of work for me to be in just yet.
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I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing too much.

Dreaming: I'm a vivid dreamer. It super-unproductive, but I'll sleep through a day if I'm having intense dreams. It is more visceral, emotional, and inspiring than anything I'll probably be doing while I'm awake. And it costs $0. :P
I log some of my dreams when I get to it:

Arts: Do painting, drawing, digital... My favorite is portraiture and figures. I've done performing arts, song/dance, once played Demetrius in Midsummer Night's Dream, I was in a showchoir in 9th grade. I'm... not bad at performing arts, but never delved deeply into it.

The HEEEAT: My other other superpower. I create a lot of body heat. I'm like a living central heating unit to any and all winter survivors who cross my path. Truth: I can keep 3 other people alive in an arctic clustercuddle.

The Hugs: Also, I have a repertoire for giving the best hugs. So, not a message from me, but the rest of the world: I give "the best hugs." Which basically makes it a scientific fact.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair. Yeah, surprise. People seem to want to own it... >_>
True story: I had someone on here persuade me into skyping to try and buy my hair. Long story short, they tried to make me cut it on camera... and yeah, kind of a bullox business practice so I had to decline.

I magically smell good (some described it as the smell of cleanness or sleep itself ??).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ex Machina, Vanilla Sky, Moulin Rouge, The Fountain, Cloud Atlas, What Dreams May Come, Eternal Sunshine, Stardust, Howl's Moving Castle, Escaflowne, Fifth Element, Serenity, Leon The Professional, V for Vendetta, Spiderman, The Avengers, Iron Man, Watchmen, The Dark Knight, Sin City, Hellraiser, Boondock Saints, Smokin' Aces, Battle Royale, Cloverfield, Cabin in the Woods, Silent Hill, Butterfly Effect, The Cell, Mirrormask, Night Watch, City of Lost Children, Hugo, Amelie, Pirate Radio, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Scott Pilgrim, Kick-Ass, Tron/Tron Legacy, Legend, Labyrinth, The Last Unicorn, Little Nemo, Neverending Story (say my name, Bastian!)... um... Kung Pow!, Austin Powers, Shaolin Soccer, any Monty Python movie, Office Space, Hitchhiker's Guide, Zombieland.

Muse, Death Cab and Postal Service, The Beatles, Nobuo Uematsu, Sigur Ros, Explosions in the Sky, This Will Destroy You, Trespassers William, Dntel, Moderat, Apparat, Boards of Canada, Blue Stone, Ulrich Schnauss, Tangerine Dream, Jamie XX, James Blake (mmm), Tycho, Little Dragon, M83, BT, Daft Punk, Royksopp, Imogen Heap/Frou Frou, Kate Havnevik, Bjork, Mum, Mike Milosh, Portishead, Telepopmusik, Caravan Palace, Basement Jaxx, Galantis, MIKA (!!!), Scissor Sisters, La Roux, Outkast... game music reorchestrated because nerrrrd, gots to have classical, ambient, celtic. Just don't make me listen to country or most pop music/rap.

Yes, I love meat. Salmon is my favorite animal to consume. I can also enjoy a bitchin spinach salad. Omnivore all the way.
Favorite cookie: no-bake cookies.
I do no enjoy tomatoes.
Coffee... in all its many forms. I drink coffee black if it's with sweet food, though.

I don't feel like I've read enough to list "favorites."

Shows: Firefly, Game of Thrones, Sherlock, Misfits, Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt Escaflowne, Gantz, Cartoon Hangover stuff, ie Adventure Time and Bravest Warriors (60% because Catbug:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Earth
2. Fire
3. Wind
4. Water
5. Heart
6. and Captain Planet.

high tolerance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I dwell on how poorly I exited that previous social event, and how I might've offended someone or made a relationship more awkward. I worry about my appearance, my personality traits, being worth anything to myself or anyone else. I think about how and why the past came to be... I think about how unfathomable it is to calculate how cause and effects pan out and if we could ever evolve to truly understand how different our life would be by tweaking a detail of our past. How many of these realities exist between other dimensions. I think about how each little thing I notice might reflect some macrocosm. How beyond comprehension it is that the cosmic matter ascended from stars to becoming us, sentient life, evolved into creative machines, inventing ideas that allow us to marvel at what we've become when we used to be nothing but hydrogen. We're riding a crescendo of astral brilliance and maybe the universe made us so it had an audience to admire the show. Narcissistic universe, pffbbtt.

I'll catch a glimpse of someone driving by, or an image in the static. And for a moment, I'll revel in fabricated concept that spawns from that external input, and maybe I'll think up a story, a character, some type of parade or bizarre event; scenes will fade through my head. I only get these when I'm totally clear headed, usually while driving or showering.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Same as any other night, Pinky...
Fulfilling social obligations.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I use tumblr for more than porn, which is a foreign concept to some friends of mine. Contrary, 90+% of my Reddit visits are to the nsfw subreddits. :|

I'm pretty sure I'm a Grade A creeper in public, between my wandering eyes and bad eyesite, I probably look like I'm squinting grimaces at people I pass. Not to mention the gestures that ensue:

-*-This next portion is pretty personal, just a heads up.-*-

For the first years of my life up through my adolescence, I was sexually molested on a daily basis by a relative. The person I looked up to during my childhood. I hardly mention this to people I meet in person, now. I don't really want this to define who I am to myself or others... but it's an aspect of my past that I cannot deny being a fundamental part of who I've become.

I hope this section at least confirms just how honest I can be. I will admit to and discuss anything, although I'd prefer to talk about it one on one in person.
You should message me if
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you're cosmic.
You want to go to Six Flags with me.
You can prove to me this place isn't only full of egocentrics and flakes.
You think we'll dig each other. I'm just exploring connections with different people, whether it be romantic, sensual, communicative, insightful, or comfy fun. I'd prefer to talk to people that view relationships on a broader scope.