Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have had writers block for months and I’m sure it will kick in
again soon – so I’ll try to write this quickly.
Over a year of new experiences in life, relationships, and getting
to know myself better has loosened quite a few of my personal
I've summed up some recent thoughts with this original quote. "A
person too cautious to climb a wall or open a gate to get to what
they want, must settle for whatever is thrown over to them."
Me in 7 lines:
1. I've embraced my love of being of service.
2. I want to be more joyous – to feel as if I am dancing all of the
3. I love talking with people and finding out what makes them
4. My time is limited and finite - my love is capable of great
5. I can flirt with men all day but become painfully shy around a
woman I find attractive.
6. The more important something is, the more I stress about it.
7. I am a career woman and love being the cook, maid, gardener, and
nanny at home. I don't see any conflict between these roles.
I was raised to believe that it's poor manners to talk about
oneself. That is still my default behavior both online and in
person. As a result, I am an excellent listener who has a very hard
time talking about myself.
A person conversing with me can tell if I like them when; 1. I ask
further questions about them. 2. Start to share information about
myself. 3. And if we're face to face, I maintain eye contact
instead of looking for the nearest distraction.
I am shy, self-critical, and sensual.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
To fix, to help, to serve; to make a process better, brighten a
mood, make treats for those I love: This is me. This is what I
I have a career. I cook and bake. I spend my limited free time
balancing home life and going out with old and new friends and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Baking desserts and cookies
Being a hostess - serving others.
Wearing vintage style dresses and stockings.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I presume it is either my blue eyes, fishnet stockings, or the
plate of homemade cookies.
These three things often occur in combination.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My book collection is large and eclectic. I do stay away from
horror or romance (shudder) novels.
My musical tastes are also fairly broad. In current rotation are:
ABBA, Apocalyptica, Djam Karet, Erasure, Fred Astaire, Lisa
Gerrard, Cyndi Lauper, Os Mutantes, Shakira, The Ink Spots, and
I prefer simple foods: sushi, steamed vegetables, soups, steak. I
usually avoid desserts unless I have made them, from scratch,
myself. The same goes for jams.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My own kitchen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex. I have a happy husband and lovers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying a family night at home, or out on a date with a
However, on a Tuesday... I love to dance to 80’s music in
nightclubs. There is freedom in bright lights, sexy clothes and pop
music. Free from cares for 3 to 5 minutes at a time for hours in an
evening. It's a romantic thing too. I met my husband PanamaDave
at a dance club.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still blush.
(Actually that's a pretty obvious trait.)
You should message me if
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All of the people in my life were encountered in person, through
dancing, work, or as friends of friends and relatives. I have never
met anyone online before meeting them in person. I think that’s
because I’m hardly ever just sitting at a computer. If I have a
chance to relax, I do something low tech or go out. This is
starting to shift more to a consistent online connection now that I
have a smarter phone.
Speaking of free time and my goals for this site - I would like to
add to my group of friends for craft and cooking activities. It
would be nice to get to know more folks who have similar interests,
similar social bents (I admit that I am quite bent), enjoy word
games of wit and whimsy, or like to have polite intellectual
conversations. (Polite means being able to agree to disagree.)
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