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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:32am
Sapiosexual, Straight
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Two-year college
Mostly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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July, 2015 - If I am learning my Astrology right; I need to find someone who has Aries & Taurus in their chart with Aquarius Rising. So if you have these three combinations in your astrology, contact me. Then we can connect the dots from there... la la la...

May-2015 - I think I am officially no-longer on the rebound because I am looking less and being more active in my money making adventures. So if you contact me and I don't get back to you right away, I may just be busy. I am working on updating my profile, I just haven't done that yet. Just adding to it instead of editing it right now... Thanx!

NOTE: If it looks like I might be stocking your profile, it's probably because you have answered a lot of "questions" and I am just going through and answering your questions that I have yet to answer. Cool? Don't freak out, I don't like harass anyone... In fact, you may have to contact me first because I tend not to make first contact. Please read my "You should message me if" section before making first contact? Friends first of course, but I am here because this is a "date line" not a friend-line. So if your just looking for friends, we can be friends on Face Book; Thanx!

I am sure my best matches are going to be from the west coast, because I am more of a hippie then a redneck. My second wife use to call me a Ghetto Redneck Hippie Techno Trucker and my last GF refereed to me a Metro Sexual; not sure what that last one means exactly, I hadn't Googled it yet. My friend David-Ray too for that matter; he is on here and he is much like me, looking for a woman very similar to what I am looking for. He is astrologically compatible to me and so we are very much alike, so the women we find and/or will be attracted to and vise-versa will also be astrologically compatible to both of us and each other for the most part. I just bought land outside on Stockton and we are starting an organic farm. There we will be doing most things alternative health and alternative energy.

We are looking for someone(s) close to us, but if you would be willing to relocate, that's cool too. We are not Poly, so we are not looking for someone to share. We both have been there done that, not with each other; but before we met each other. We are both open to different types of Poly, but prefer monogamy; and we are both straight.


A little about me...
Updated: 3.2015
Single again? Yeah me too…

“Relationships are like a dance, with visible energy racing back and forth between the partners. Some relationships are the slow, dark dance of death.” ― Colette Dowling ―

The beauty in the dance is flowing seamlessly with your partner. I have learned that dancing too long with the wrong partner can bring much frustration, discomfort and even pain, depending on the depth of the struggle. We are all free and responsible for choosing the partner whose energy and style flow with us best.

Hello, my name is CainO' – I have two friends that are single and looking for love in all the right places too. I have been doing real astrology since 2012; I am not the best, but I have come a long way. Astrology like us, is not perfect. My friends and I all believe in a “1 Corinthians 13 kind of Love” so I am looking for astrological compatibility for my friends and I.

Walter is an Aries, Cancer Rising, Moon in Virgo, Mercury in Aries, Venus in Taurus and Mars in Pisces. (Note: Walter just moved to northern Iowa off I35 in April, so I will be updating this soon)...

David-Ray is Virgo, Libra Rising, Moon in Libra, Mercury in Virgo, Venus in Cancer and Mars in Cancer.

I am Leo/Virgo cusp, Moon in Libra, Mercury in Virgo, Venus in Leo and Mars in Virgo.

About the one I'm looking for...
Updated: 3.2015

If you have Sun in Earth or Water, Venus in Earth or Water, Mars in Earth or Water and you do want more children; I can run your birthdays and see how compatible you are to David-Ray. Neither of them are interested in smokers or heavy drinkers. Must be healthy, fit and active; David-Ray is more flexible on the last part.

If you have Sun in Air/Fire or Earth, Venus in Air/Fire or Cancer and Mars in Earth/Water or Libra and you don’t want any more kids; I can run our astrology and see how compatible we are.

Basically, just message me your birthday and we can go from there. I will run your astrology and then direct you to their FB if applicable so you can decide if you want to contact them or not. Only David-Ray never hardly uses his, so I may direct you to his OKC. You can also find them at DatingByTheSigns where I teach people how to find astrological compatibility and more.
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking care of me for a change! Getting off the grid, focusing on my business, dreams, ideas, goals, my security, serenity and sanity. "Codependent No More"

In reading my stats, you will see that it says that I am "mostly-monogamous". I use to be Poly and I am now monogamous, I might could go back to being Polyfidelity if the situation was right for it, but more then likely It probably isn't going to happen.

Here are my Astrology Interpritations is you are interested.
Spirit Success:
Personal Path:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of things...

5 essentials to a marriage: love, trust, honesty, communication & pollination.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Astrology (duh), Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Relationship oriented, Religions of most sorts, Philosophy, Success and Motivational, Self Help, Self Awareness, Self Healing, Metaphysical, etc...

What is the common denominator? "Educational".

Sell Your Weeds:

Eat Your Weedies:

I don't watch much TV:
Movies: Anything except "Scary Movies"! I even like chick flicks :)

Shows: Pretty much the same.

Music: Most anything - Rock, Rap, Country, Classical, Pop; anything but Polka type music.

Basically I like most anything except Contemporary Christian, Polka type music and most traditional Mariachi Band Latino type music (my brother and I use to call it Circus music). I can do tradition Christian, hymnal type music, modern Christian Rap/Rock, modern Latino or other Latino music that is not Polka type sounding.

OK, I am creating a new Playlist of random favorites just for you:
I put Echosmith - Bright first because it's and astrological love song and currently my new favorite :)

My favorites are Hank Williams Sr., Taylor Swift, Jane Child, Michael Jackson, Metallica, Ramstein (German Rock), Garth Books, The Monkeys, The Bee Gees, Reba Mac Entire, Katy Perry, Dean Cook (Comedy), I don't have a favorite rapper per say but I am really getting into the new Christian Rap, Bill Cosby is my other favorite comedian despite the controversy. Dixie Chicks too for that matter; screw Bush, Clinton, Obama, Hillary and the rest of their communists comrades! Classical; I like Beethoven, Mozart and Bosch, Tori Amos, The Cranberries, Enya, Yoni, Sarah Mclachlan and Merril Bainbridge. Bananas at Large; only their 1st album, the second two stink. OK, that's all I can think of right now :-)

Food: Most anything - I try to eat as raw as possible, but that's not always easy. I am also a meat eater, but I don't eat raw meat...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides God, Food, Air, Water, Astrology and other obvious things like toilet paper...

My phone
My Computer
Essential Oils
Business Cards :)
Happy People in my Life :)
Smart People in my Life :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Business, Astrology, FREEDOM, LOVE, LIBERTY, Work, My Websites, Getting Off The Grid... "Our Land Project" & etc...

Here is another project I am working on. This site doesn't have a Scammer education section I don't think. I have been working to educate members on my own sites as well as FB and other sites about on-line romance scammers.

So go and learn what to watch for and how to protect yourself. Here are a few links to point you in the right direction: - My site - This last one is one of my favorites! If you are using FireFox Browser, you can do a TinEye Ad-On and then just right click pictures to see how many hits this picture gets. It is not only a good way to check to see if this photo is being used by scammers, but a good way to check and see if your photo is being used by scammers!

If you find that you are being scammed by someone, document EVERYTHING! then go to the FBI website to report this activity. I hope and pray this doesn't happen to you and please spread this message and help protect your friends and family. CainO'
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, Studying or working out... right now that is. If you were here, I'd be with you if possible.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You must be attractive, if I cannot be attracted to you, none of the other stuff matters. If you are slim to medium build, HWP, (you don't have to be a super modal or MPDG), just attractive and healthy looking and not healthy as in you eat too much; within the Missouri area or looking to relocate to the S.W. corner of Missouri area preferred. Sorry if that sounds cruel; I use to not care so much about looks, I looked at the personality over looks like I was told growing up, but it mattered then even though I tried to not let it bother me.

For a long term relationship, you must be at least 85% on the OKC calculations; even though their math does not make since to most of us. I will consider 75% or better if the astrology works. Friends, 60% or better... I think there is something to this OKC matching system. I would like to test and see how astrologically compatible people are to me in contrast to the OKC matching system.

So I am just going to be honest, I cannot handle obese, fat, flabby, or blubber, and too much cellulite just makes me sick... I take care of my body and I am looking for women who does the same. I love me and you should love you; take care of your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual (meaning whatever it is you believe in) "hearth". I am 170lbs and you must weigh less then me and be as skinny as or skinnier then me. I do have two target areas, my gut and my chest; everything else is awesome. I do have 5-10lbs I am working on moving from my midsection, to my pecks. Other then that, I am in very good shape!

It's not necessarily how much we eat as it is what we eat for the most part; I am not perfect either, but I do good for the most part. To understand how to be healthy in my opinion; I fallow Dave's Herb Shop and Fully Raw Christina and well as others and you can check out my site at Oils Of The Earth or fallow my YouTube's at Health & Hearth or Truckers Ed / Stay Fit

Note: I do not pay for sex, so if your looking for a sugar daddy or you use sex to get men to buy you stuff; I don't play that game no more. I also never have and more then likely will never pay for a prostitute either. Some men think all women are prostitutes because they only give it up in order to get something in return; I know not ALL women are like this, but I am not interested in the one who are. If you are one of those women who think men need to "Finance the Romance", do not message me for I am not interested!

Again; I will only get serious with the right Astrologically Compatible woman or women, till then I am just going to just take it easy and take care of CainO' for a change. "Codependent No More" So if you are or think you are Astrologically Compatible; by all means, I do want to hear from you! Ideally a long term committed Monogamous relationship is what I have always wanted. Polygynous or PolyFaithful too are admirable; but finding anything healthy and long term these days seems impossible.

So if you are attractive, non/mild smoker, mild drinker, 75% match or better, "Astrologically Compatible" and looking for something real... I would like to try that with you! Otherwise, I'd really rather just go without. How's that country song go again; Thank you, "I'm holding my own". lol