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Updated Dec. 2013

Hello; my name is CainO' and as you may know, I was looking for astrological compatibility. Now that I have had success in finding her, I am looking to find someone astrologically compatible to/for my friend. Actually, two friends now. I met a guy with my girlfriends birthday only his time of birth is different, he is cool and he too is looking for someone special. So someone with my birthday might be good for him.

I bought into some land in south central Missouri in order to get off the grid and produce our own healthy unprocessed chemical free food and etc, my friend and I are running this together. I have been studying REAL astrology for over a year, I got deep into the astrology trying to save my last relationship; but I then used it looking for astrological compatibility and to help others in their relationships both personal and business.

My friend study's Reiki and Numerology; he is a believe in GOD, Jesus and all of the above; but now has a broader understanding then that of the way he was raised to believe. My new friend is a Christian and a single father. He works hard and is very athletic.

My friend David-Ray is a Virgo, Libra Rising. We have over 40 signs in our astrology; his main influences in his chart besides the above is Aquarius and Cancer, real astrology is more complicated them most people realize. I study eastern astrology for psychology and compatibility. My new friend Walter is an Aries, Cancer Rising. Water sign Ascendants tend to be very healthy.

David-Ray is also into Yoga, aromatherapy, alternative health, alternative energy, technology, Nature, Natural living, & Liberty. We are also Freedom Fighters, like Ron Paul.

About the one's they're looking for...

As you know, I was looking for astrological compatibility. But, now that I was successful; I am now looking for my friend David-Ray. You need to be more hippy/cowgirl and want to live off the grid and be off the system. Kind of like the Amish but with technology more like the Mennonites but in a more hippy kind of way. Walter is more upper class type and of the engineer, business and management mindset.

My friend who is astrologically compatible to me is looking for a woman similar to what I was looking for with some variations, he approves of the one I found for myself and they get along like good friends; he and I are very much alike. We are not Polyandry; so we are not looking for the same woman, we are looking for similar women. He is understanding of Poly, but he is NOT open to a Poly relationship.

He is a Virgo, Libra Rising with influence of Cancer and Aquarius. The differences between us besides age is that I am more uninhibited where he is very straight laced. We are both very conservative, him more so then I and we have very similar loves and values. He is a hard worker, he loves to research everything and know as much data as possible. He is very down to earth, family oriented and focused. We both have been all over the world; we met in Kansas City and we're both working the new land to get off the grid. He is a tree hugger, naturalist and he loves and study alternatives. We both think and communicate in detail and we both love to analyze everything. We both know and understand astrology, me more then he; but he is into the metaphysical more then I.
He has a huge hearts and is a lover of humanity, he is honest to a fault. He will rarely compromise his values, we are both very ethical; he more then I. He loves to talk, he will talk and control the conversation if allowed; but he knows how to listen. If I didn't know better, I would think we were twins. Neither of us really believe in reincarnation; but if it is true, we may have been connected in a past life. If he was a woman, I would be interested in him myself. Fortunately or unfortunately, neither of us are gay :) but we are happy people :)

If you have a smart phone, lookup the app called LoveLator and compare your birthday to his 9.7.64 and you can go from there. The app is not 100% accurate but the best smart phone app I have found to compare birthdays; if you find a better one, let me know. You can also find more info at, the app only does the birth "day", there are other factors like time and location of birth; but we will start with the birthday info.

Otherwise, he is looking for the normal stuff too. Mutual attraction and mutual interests. He also believes in mental, emotional, spiritual and physical compatibility; but surprisingly astrology can help with all of this. For him, age is not an issue as long as you are able and willing to give him more children and you are of age yourself of course.

Race is NOT an issue with him, he is more concerned about REAL compatibility issues. Even though he prefers dark hair and skin, skin and hair color have little to do with compatibility. He is looking for someone who is stable, disease, drug and drama free. Kids are not an issue, as long as you want more. He is great with babies and he loves all/most kids; he is way more of a kid person then I am but we are both good with children. He is looking for a long term relationship. Casual relationships or NSA are NOT his slice of Pi. If you are over 50% compatible, you would make good friends or associates; but ideally he is looking for an 85% match or better (: like I found :).

I'd just like to add...

He is Virgo with Moon in Libra, so besides Water and Earth signs; Libra with Moon in Virgo might work too. My astrologist gives reading at Caplinger Mills, Mo. periodically throughout the summers, you can also go see him there to learn more if you live in the area. Basically the only things really different about David-Ray and I is our Mars and Jupiter's. There are other aspects deeper in our charts, but these are the primaries. Basically we are almost twins; so if you have my birthday 8.20.74, you may like him!

I am a Leo/Virgo cusp in the house of Aquarius, he is Virgo in the house of Aquarius.

We are both Libra Rising, Moon in Libra in the house of Pisces.

We are both Mercury in Virgo in the house of Aquarius.

I am Venus in Leo in the house of Capricorn, he is Venus in Cancer/Leo cusp in the house of Capricorn.

I am Mars in Virgo in the house of Aquarius, he is Mars in Cancer in the house of Capricorn.

I am Jupiter in Pisces in the house of Leo, he is Jupiter in Taurus in the house of Scorpio

You may also find home here: - He is an 80% match to me on this site; so if you match me, you should match him. He and my girlfriend are a lot alike as well, because she matches me :)

I trust David-Ray so much, that I made him representative of my estate. If I can trust him, so can you.
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Books: Astrology (duh), Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Relationship oriented, Religions of all sorts, Philosophy, Success and Motivational, Self Help, Self Awareness, Self Healing, etc...

What is the common denominator? "Educational".

Movies: Most anything!
Shows: Pretty much the same.

Music: Most anything
Food: Most anything as long as it is "Kosher"

Books: Astrology (duh), Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Relationship oriented, Religions of all sorts, Philosophy, Success and Motivational, Self Help, Self Awareness, Self Healing, etc...

What is the common denominator? "Educational".

Movies: Anything except "Scary Movies"!
Shows: Pretty much the same.

Music: Most anything
Food: Most anything
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Besides God, Food, Air, Water, Astrology and other obvious things like toilet paper...

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Alternative Health
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Smart People in my Life :)

Besides God, Food, Air, Water, Astrology and other obvious things like toilet paper...

My phone
My Computer
Essential Oils
Business Cards :)
Happy People in my Life :)
Smart People in my Life :)
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Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
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David-Rays Astrology Reading:


This Spirit Success Report from Halloran Software's AstrolDeluxe ReportWriter program draws upon 576 paragraphs which interpret the places of the planets at the time of your birth, describing your personal houses, sign placements, and planetary aspects.

These astrological delineations depict your potential and how to make the most of it, or the challenges you will continue to face and how to confront and benefit from them. Though you may change through experience, your inherent characteristics will still motivate how you act and react to circumstances. How you handle yourself is really a clue to your success, and it is up to you to make the "right" choices.

Here are the parts which make up your chart:

HOUSES: Govern sections of your life, e.g., your money, your health, your partners, etc. They are also meaningful as to where your early interests lie and if they are worth pursuing.

SIGNS: Contribute feelings or vibrations to "color" planets, e.g., MERCURY rules GEMINI and VIRGO and emphasizes their qualities of thought, travel, health, and work. JUPITER rules SAGITTARIUS and higher education, spiritual growth, and law.

ASPECTS: Are angles combining the planets in the SIGNS/HOUSES that trigger the manner in which you will be influenced or can handle your qualities to advantage, e.g., MERCURY (thought) TRINE (in good aspect to) JUPITER (education and law) may indicate that you can succeed as a counselor in legal matters.

A "Strength" number precedes each ASPECT interpretation towards the end of the reading. This number synthesizes how exact is the aspect, whether the aspect is major or minor, and whether an aspecting planet is close to one of the four chart angles. The higher the Strength, the more you are likely to feel the aspect and to live it out in your life.

You are most likely to feel and act out the Spirit Success Report's sign and house placement interpretations when the planets involved are strong in your chart. This is true especially of the outer planets, Jupiter through Pluto. The Astrodynes program, also available from Halloran Software, calculates the respective power and harmony of all the planets in your chart.

Planets in Signs and Houses

Libra Ascendant

(The Gracious)

If your mouth is not a Cupid's bow and your teeth need capping, never mind! Your smile can put sunshine into a cloudy day, anyway. You are cordial and courteous under the most trying circumstances and seldom lose your poise. You're a good listener; also a scintillating and intelligent conversationalist. Your weakness is your indecisiveness, but your first choice is usually right, if only you could decide to accept it. Oh well! Nobody's perfect!

Sun in Virgo

(Keynote: I ANALYZE)

You are practical, modest, thoughtful and discriminating. You can be critical, withdrawn, narrow, and tend to worry too much, particularly about your health. You are hard to know because you are cool and reserved, but are a fine teacher, with an aptitude for figures, an ability to evaluate accurately, and an abundance of knowledge. Your sense of responsibility assures the most tedious task will be finished promptly and precisely. Your dry wit is often unexpected and appreciated, but when it turns to biting sarcasm can make even your best friends wish you'd stayed at home!

Sun in the Eleventh House

(The People-pleaser)

You are everybody's friend, but not always a friend to everybody. You often value friendship above love and may choose to keep your friends for a lifetime. Quick to bond, you may be equally quick to separate from a relationship when it appears you have nothing in common. You will doubtless find a place in a variety of social and service clubs, and hold more than one office. You adapt easily and fit into almost any group because you know how to get the most out of a situation, refuse to compromise your ideals, and maintain harmony by finding values to which all can relate.

Moon in Libra

(The Dependent)

You have a burning desire to please and will go to great lengths to do so. You cultivate an image of glamour and success, are probably a compulsive buyer and enjoy wearing distinctive and expensive clothes. You attract easily, and are popular, but fickle. You may be over-critical of your partners until you realize that, because you are easily-led, you need someone to help you make decisions. You are either too lazy or insecure to try to develop much self-reliance. A strong instinct that a special relationship is "fated" may lead you to the proper person to be your life-mate.

Moon in the Twelfth House

(The Isolationist)

You may be plagued by psychological problems originating with a mother-figure. You are hard on yourself and assume an oppressive responsibility for self-analysis because it is difficult for others to draw you out. Your friends will not understand your moods nor the fact that you need to call upon restorative powers provided only by seclusion. Depend on spiritual trust and your strong intuition to reveal what is demanded of you and how best to make payment.

Mercury in Virgo

(The Interpreter)

You read people well and have an insight that is valuable in all types of relationships. Your interest in health can lead towards promoting natural ways of improvement in diet and disciplined exercise. If your efforts go unappreciated, you may become hypercritical and distance people with a superior attitude. You are a tireless worker and once committed, will spend a lifetime at a task requiring painstaking application, which others would consider monotonous.

Mercury in the Eleventh House

(The Mingler)

You are at your best when your hopes and wishes mesh with those of others. Your friends are like you, so you are convivially compatible. Together, you solve dilemmas, further ideas, organize and socialize -- but you may see things too much alike to expand in another direction. You exemplify a fraternity; your parties are delightful, but with only the same guests invited, may in time become static and leave you longing for the variety missing from your fun.

Venus in Cancer

(The Protector)

You must be careful of "smothering" instead of "mothering" loved ones or, with the best of intentions, you may alienate them from you. You attract those who need your help, but your own sense of security needs bolstering. Emotional demands may draw you into studies of mysticism. You can depend on your parents, and may be involved in a family business. Your love of kin is paramount and will give you strength to do whatever is necessary to keep them together.

Venus in the Tenth House

(The Ambassador)

Your talents fit you for a life in the public eye. You do well in front of an audience of one or one-thousand, because you're always aware that you are really selling "yourself," even if it's to the advantage of a client or a friend. You're the perfect person to guide a career to the top and then advance it to something even better. You're not an optimist -- just someone who appreciates self-worth and is determined to make the most of it.

Mars in Cancer

(The Pressure Cooker)

You will harbor resentments from childhood, and many of them stem from a rebellion against a mother-figure. You may try to run away from imposed values with which you may not agree, but find you still have a need for the security of a home and family. Discover early that you must earn the right to be your "own" person. A certain amount of parental help is necessary as a fledgling discovers its wings. Professional counseling may be advisable before you "blow your top!"

Mars in the Tenth House

(The Climber)

You are determined to reach the top through your own efforts, and are probably capable of doing so. Almost nothing can stop you, once you set your course, and you will attract admirers to assist your efforts. Because of your strong ego-drive, you may also invite power plays with authority figures. A careful look at who you are dealing with and an examination of different views can resolve conflicts and forestall what may be irreparable damage to your dreams of glory.

Jupiter in Taurus

(The Show-off)

You can be too extravagant because of your love of luxury, but if you choose to spend your hard-earned money, who's to say it's not your privilege? You can be too aggressive in getting what you want and too stubborn to change your mind after you get it. Again, since you are a super-achiever, who can criticize you for doing things your way?

Jupiter in the Eighth House

(The Negotiator)

Because you have an understanding of how the world views you and act accordingly, you have numerous chances for beneficial growth. People respect your opinion, trust your judgment, and will offer the financial or spiritual support you need. You welcome self-improvement, so accept change with the grace and ease it often takes to be truly successful.

Saturn in Pisces

(The Stabilizer)

Although it is in your disposition to look to others for support, you can search for your independence and find it. You may turn moodiness into meditation and benefit from time spent with yourself by listening to "small voices" within that you have not had the courage to hear. You may cling to destructive emotional patterns, but can develop a will to win. This has little to do with rewards, other than to at last glimpse who you are and delight in the knowledge.

Saturn in the Fifth House

(The Kill-joy)

The influence of an overly-strict father or lack of a sense-of-humor may feed your reputation as a "wet blanket," or you may find others spoiling YOUR fun! Instead of enjoying pleasures of the moment, you may regard them as distractions that keep you from shouldering your burdens. Your ambitions may be beyond the reach of your children. Don't become the dull boy in the proverb: ("All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy!") Lighten up! Live a little!

Uranus in Virgo

(The Quirky)

You have talent for discovering unusual types of diet and herbal remedies, but must present an authoritative platform before encouraging others to try them. Otherwise, you may be taken as a "quack" instead of a mechanist who qualifies as a valuable teacher. A government position may introduce you to other countries and the fundamentals in ancient science as your foundation. Employ a critical eye as a useful tool when discerning suitable applications in the healing arts.

Uranus in the Eleventh House

(The Fireball)

Everyone you meet is a potential friend. You get along well with groups, but set your own standards and seldom give in to peer pressure, so it is up to others to march to your special beat. You attract beggars as well as kings, and see the value in both. Others may not share your unconventional views, so though you have a constant flow of people traveling through your life, you have few who are close to you. Those YOU consider as friends, are "choice!"

Neptune in Scorpio

(The Initiator)

You take great delight in other people's secrets and may use them to advantage. If you have information that needs disclosure for the benefit of others, you may expose it in a subtle, but effective way. You may also use your knowledge to promote a principle or public figures while working behind the scenes. A leaning towards self-indulgence needs careful monitoring so that your strength is not used in abusive ways, but as a benefactor who prefers to remain anonymous.

Neptune in the First House

(The Dreamer)

Your wonderful imagination can take you far in a career or work against you, personally. Idealistic by nature, you are easily led into situations that have little or no value, or you may guide others erroneously. You are self-effacing and often self-sacrificing since it is hard to turn away those who ask your help. Unusual childhood experiences should convince you to take a second look at life before plunging headlong into spaces that even angels may avoid.

Pluto in Virgo

(The Restorers)

You have a rare opportunity of renovating the world in carefully-structured channels when the environment seems at its lowest ebb. Drugs, disease, addictions and crime will no longer be tolerated. You will have a major part in seeing that justice is done. Law-makers, and those who execute the law will be among your peers, as well as some who are willing to educate those who truly desire self-improvement as their contribution to elevate mankind.

Pluto in the Eleventh House

(The Searcher)

You may want something with all your heart, but when you get it, decide it's not what you want at all. This is also true of people traveling in a sort of perpetual motion through your life. Examine your relationships closely to determine whether their influence is positive or negative. In time, meaningless friendships will end and when you sort out your values and are sure of your goals, you'll take your rightful place in the universe and find it fits like a glove.

Cancer Midheaven

You will be attracted to a career which allows you to maintain strong family ties. A career which allows you to be nurturing or productive will give you emotional and creative satisfaction. You are good at sensing and supplying the needs of the public. Security is important to you. It can cause you to value money for its own sake rather than for what it will buy. Recognize that security also comes from loyalty and honesty in your business relationships. You are capable of making personal sacrifices in order to nurture the growth of those with whom you work.

Although you are good at switching careers because of your good sense of timing, avoid an indiscriminate, profligate lifestyle which would leave you with no permanent home base or relationship bonds. You need to have a home of your own and a settled existence. If you were the proprietor of a little shop, this could be a second home for you.

Occupations consistent with your nurturing style of work include home- or family-oriented businesses, restaurant owner or manager, real-estate broker, jobs connected with fluids or the public, politician, teacher, counselor, manufacturer, musician, entertainer, dancer, art dealer, advertiser, marketer, nurse or doctor. For the most personal career guide, also consider the nature of any planets which fall in the 10th house or conjoin the Midheaven, the sign and house placements of the moon, ruler of the Midheaven, and any aspects which other planets make to the Midheaven.

North Node in Gemini

(The Whirlwind)

You try to stay so busy that personal commitment is impossible. If you take on more than you can handle, you cannot blame yourself for "failures." You feel your education is inadequate. True communication is never one-sided. Allow others to voice their questions and opinions while you prepare answers gleaned from the worthwhile knowledge you possess.

North Node in the Ninth House

(The Striver)

You feel you must work harder than others and may make false starts because you have so many choices. Channel your thirst for knowledge towards your highest aims. Nothing in your experience is wasted, no matter how scattered chances seem. Your diplomatic talents allow you to please nearly everyone. Use your gifts to achieve your goals.

Planets in Aspect

Mars conjunct Midheaven (Strength: 6.40)

(The Lofty)

You are a mover and a shaker. Your positive energy is like no other in intensity, but your negative qualities are equally strong. You accomplish things quickly, but are not always free of error. Life is a challenge you wish to handle alone. You are a poor loser and demand individual credit for your achievements. You will be upset if you do not get it. Since you give each project all you've got, it does seem little enough to ask for recognition you probably deserve.

Sun conjunct Pluto (Strength: 5.96)

(The Delver)

You will leave no stone unturned to understand the source of energies that press you to continually transform your life into "something better." Facets of yourself that need revision will undergo radical changes as you eliminate anything impeding your progress. Keep your eye "single" as to how you may improve in spite of others who try to force you to their ways. Believe in yourself. Little can deter you, once you find a practical way to express your power.

Mars sextile Jupiter (Strength: 5.20)

(The Self-assured)

You have the ability to work with unflagging energy. A desire to accomplish goals quickly inspires others to follow you willingly, since you have the courage of your convictions and are confident of winning. You are not a team player, but will accept and learn from the views of those you respect. You have excellent timing and will initiate action at the appropriate moment. Your fascination with law expands your knowledge and reinforces your conviction of "justice for all."

Sun sextile Neptune (Strength: 4.53)

(The Spiritualist)

Because your inherent beliefs tell you that mind and body are one, you will strive for perfect balance. Your low energy levels suit you for periods of meditation. As you turn inward, you may open mediumistic qualities which make you sensitive to the feelings of others and you will respond to their needs. Material blessings will never satisfy you. Follow inner urges that prompt you to reach for understanding born of your search for higher self in divine spirit.

Venus conjunct Mars (Strength: 2.73)

(The Vivacious)

Your desire for affection is ongoing and you don't mind being aggressive if you see someone you want as a friend or lover. You express your creativity in dress, look and manner and know how to approach others without seeming "pushy." You make yourself the center of attention so you will attract those who are impressed with your enthusiasm. Relationships may be over as quickly as they begin, since you crave variety and are always on the lookout for new worlds to conquer.

Uranus conjunct Pluto (Strength: 2.71)

(The Unrestrained)

You are convinced that new ways are the best ways because they are your ways. Since you don't take discipline readily, you may be in conflict with authority figures. Older people with "old-fashioned ways" seem particular adversaries. Your life is one of evolvement, without "encumbrances" to hold you back, including relationships. You may be wise beyond your years, but must have the patience to wait until you know what the universe is about before trying to change it.

Sun conjunct Uranus (Strength: 2.67)

(The Precarious)

You are constantly trying to express as an individual, sometimes before you are entitled to an opinion. Others may regard you as "disruptive" rather than "unique," and a "rebel" rather than an "innovator." But, some admire your liveliness, which serves to keep your life and the lives of others from the ruts of boredom. Like Ben Franklin, you must harness the electricity you generate without allowing it to destroy you in the process.

Neptune sextile Pluto (Strength: 2.49)

(The Self-aware)

It is important that you have the support of your family and friends. You are extremely sensitive and subject yourself to self-criticism that can be destructive and depressing. It may be that you need professional help to build your self-esteem. Later, you may transfer your intense feelings into knowledge you share with others. You may pursue a career in psychiatry or psychology, but will continue to investigate your own psyche for answers as to what "makes you tick."

Venus inconjunct Saturn (Strength: 2.22)

(The Concerned)

You are plagued by mixed feelings. Though you yearn for romance, an age difference in your partner can cause conflicts. There will always be a choice to make between work and pleasure. Unfortunately, in your case, the two just don't blend. You may have erotic ideas or a gambling instinct, but will hold them down as being impractical. You can turn this to your advantage by exercising self-control which will prove that "slow, but steady" wins your race!

Jupiter square Saturn (Strength: 1.42)

(The Wary)

You are much like the old song that complains: "You have a feeling that you wanna go -- then, you wanna stay -- but you gotta go!" You have an urge to expand or break away from restrictions, but may be overly careful -- as if you never feel you have what it takes to succeed, so are a perpetual student instead of a graduate in the school of life. You may set modest goals, unworthy of your higher potential. Faith in yourself will prepare you for the success you can achieve.

Mercury opposite Saturn (Strength: 1.16)

(The Despondent)

You are hard on yourself, and easily discouraged if you fail to live up to or are not rewarded by your high standards. Use your critical abilities constructively. You have an unsurpassed eye for detail, accept responsibility and if you are not confident of your abilities will take steps to gain whatever is necessary to fulfill your obligations. Avoid negative thoughts that lead to depression. Your many fine attributes will receive the notice you deserve in time.

Mercury conjunct Uranus (Strength: 0.74)

(The Restless)

Your mind is seldom inactive, but may be too inconsistent to be productive. Fields that may interest you enough to study and follow up are science, astrology, or communications. You can open new doors through innovative, if sometimes radical ideas. You may travel by unusual modes, such as in an air balloon, or be involved in space technology as a hobby or a profession. You need structure and concentration to exploit your creative gifts, or may squander them, uselessly.

Venus sextile Jupiter (Strength: 0.65)

(The Charitable)

You gladly share your fortune with those who need advice, money or just a lift in spirits. Because you make yourself available to the downtrodden does not mean that you are in a position to be "used," since you are astute in business and aware of flaws in human nature, which can be indulged through too much "humanity." You believe in a law of the universe which provides that you must replenish that which you have taken and are therefore never in short supply, yourself.

Moon inconjunct Saturn (Strength: 0.47)

(The Guilt-stricken)

A victim of self-restrictions, you must learn early-on to open your mind to positive ways of expression. "New thought" philosophies may be helpful in overcoming youthful programming or a need to accept too many responsibilities too soon. Try to develop a sense of humor. Self-limitations are as likely as burdens forced on you by others. "Lighten up" or you may suffer severe emotional suppression with a variety of physical impairments as undesirable demonstrations.

Venus conjunct Midheaven (Strength: 0.44)

(The Altruistic)

You may be "in love with love" but express it as a desire for universal love in the world. You radiate inner beauty and extend friendship, which is returned. You enjoy entertaining and entertainment. You may carve a career in the arts, but have to gather the energy to exercise the resolve necessary to achieve the fortune you pursue, instead of daydreaming. You are extremely social and dislike being alone. With the charm you possess, that's not likely to happen.

Moon sextile Venus (Strength: 0.36)

(The Nurturer)

Love for your fellow man makes it difficult for you to dislike anyone you meet. You give others the benefit of the doubt and are disappointed only in your lack of judgment if they do not measure up to your expectations. You may prefer to entertain at home and your friends welcome your invitations to visit. Self-indulgence can include the satisfaction you derive from caring for others. But, you must be careful not to resent t

hose who do not return your generosity in kind.

Balance of Elements and Modalities

Abundant Earth

You are in touch with the real world. More than others, you know where the rubber meets the road; persistent study has shown you how to make things happen in a practical sort of way. Your nature is well-suited to the adult world of responsibilities, which you master at a young age. Not impulsive with your resources, you would only start a business after careful study, but you would manage it well. You enjoy the satisfaction that comes not just from starting projects, but from finishing them. Your steady, organized approach is actually more productive in the long-run than is that of the quick, flashy types. You know how to establish a pace and keep it.

Do not let your awareness of the material world make you unappreciative of the spiritual plane that underpins our life here -- to which others may be more sensitive than you. Practicality is fine, but try to understand that dreams, feelings, and enthusiasms are also important and should not be squelched. Others might surprise you with what their optimistic risk-taking is able to achieve. You can be so cautious and reserved that some people find you conservative and dull. If you yourself become bored or depressed, admit that security isn't everything and try to be more spontaneous. Open up to the new and follow your bliss (in a careful sort of way).

Lack of Fire

You are willing to let flashier individuals take center-stage and lead the way. You are probably unenthusiastic about change and are passive when it comes to creating change through leadership. You may be aggressive in a defensive way, but lack the self-confidence to take the offensive. Lacking the impulsiveness of Fire, you are more likely to be a careful worker and a reliable mate, though you could stand to be less detached and more personally involved with your spouse and family.

A lack of planets in Fire signs can be offset by a Fire sign ascendant or by abundant planets in the houses of Life.

Abundant Relationships

With abundant planets in these houses, relationships and communications with others are likely to be central to your life. You can help others by exchanging ideas and making connections between people. You will probably maintain active contact with a wide circle of relatives, friends and acquaintances. You keep abreast of new information via various media and your friends.

Lack of Substance

You are not the most grounded or practical person. The rules of this material world are not well known to you. Others may admire your dreams, but they could be impossible dreams. You may find it difficult to choose, plan, and work towards a career or vocation.

A lack of planets in the houses of Substance can be offset by abundant planets in Earth signs.

Lack of Life

You could have difficulty envisioning or planning for the future. You are likely to accept the status quo, living in the past and present, but not actively striving to create the future. Lacking your own passionate goals, you are more likely to be a follower than a leader.

A lack of planets in the houses of Life can be offset by abundant planets in Fire signs.

Abundant Mutable

With an abundance of planets in Mutable signs, you adapt easily to changing circumstances. Mentally quick, you adapt like a chameleon to give each what they want, until you are on to the next friend or interest. Life offers a succession of roles to play. Skilled at diplomacy and compromise, you make a good negotiator and appear to be everyone's friend. You actually are other-oriented, rather than self-oriented, and can be so busy meeting others' needs that you lack direction in your own life. Concentrate on finding friends of true worth and value. Be discriminating in your associations, in whom you choose to help. The endless flow from your mind, tongue, and hands will then work to return real value to you, which is what you deserve. You can probably only follow this advice just so far, though, because more than others the Universe sends you people in need, people for whom you are able to make a real difference. The assistance that you provide to the powerless may actually be remembered long after your facile mental output is forgotten. Your activities can also bring an end to institutions that have outlived their usefulness.

Lack of Fixed

With a lack of planets in Fixed signs, you probably find it difficult to settle down or concentrate on one thing for a long time. You tend to be all over the place. The advantage is that you are able to do many things at once and can move forward with change and growth when desirable. You are a free spirit, not overly weighed down by attachments. You may be daring, brave, and filled with ideas, but you need individuals in your life who can provide the structure and stability that you lack. If necessary, you can force yourself to finish projects through mental discipline and willpower.

A lack of planets in the Fixed signs can be offset by a Fixed sign ascendant or by abundant planets in the Succedent houses.

Abundant Succedent

An abundance of planets in the succedent houses increases your ability to enjoy life. In turn, you can give others pleasure. You are a basically stable person with strong values, feelings, and attachments. You enoy working to build the structure of your life. As you gain confidence in your self, you bind others to you with love. You have a strong physical presence.

Lack of Cadent

A lack of planets in the cadent houses tends to reduce the time that you have to yourself. You may feel that you are always in the limelight or somehow involved with others. This leaves you little time for solitary reflection. The life of a spiritual recluse is not for you. You don't change quickly, but must gradually grow into changes.

A lack of planets in the Cadent houses can be offset by abundant planets in the Mutable signs.
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If you are a single Capricorn, Taurus, Pisces, Scorpio or Cancer female, David-Ray is looking for you! If not, go to to find your best astrological match.

For example: My best matches:

Sagittarius - Dec 21st, 1969
Moon in Gemini, Mercury in Capricorn, Venus in Sagittarius, Mars in Pisces

Aries - April 9th, 1971
Aries - April 10th, 1971
Aries - April 11, 1971

Moon in Libra, Mercury in Taurus, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Capricorn

Aries - April 13th, 1976
Aries - April 14th, 1976

Moon in Libra, Mercury in Taurus, Venus in Aries, Mars in Cancer

Aries - April 3rd, 1977
Aries - April 4th, 1977

Moon in Libra, Mercury in Taurus, Venus in Aries, Mars in Pisces

Aries - April 11th, 1977
Aries - April 12th, 1977
Aries - April 13th, 1977

Moon in Aquarius, Mercury in Taurus, Venus in Aries, Mars in Pisces

Sagittarius - November 24th, 1979
Sagittarius - November 25th, 1979
Sagittarius - November 26th, 1979

Moon in Aquarius, Mercury in Scorpio, Venus in Sagittarius, Mars in Virgo

Aries - April 14th, 1984
Aries - April 15th, 1984

Moon in Libra, Mercury in Taurus, Venus in Aries, Mars in Scorpio

My Astrology:
Leo - August 20th, 1974
Moon in Libra, Mercury in Virgo, Venus in Leo, Mars in Virgo
"Libra Rising"

My girlfriend is Aries - March 26, 1964
Moon in Virgo (next to Libra), Mercury in Aries (not a match but our house placements match), Venus in Taurus (she matches David here but we do well even though it is a square), Mars in Pisces (a very good position). My Ascendent is Libra and hers is Virgo which is also a match.

You want "Fire and Air" together or "Earth and Water" together. After that, signs that are next to each other will work. House placements help a lot and of course there are other aspects. Our Venus's look like they don't match, but they are well aspected :)


Note: These birthdays are simply the best of the best of the best. Like a 92% or better, time of birth can through the whole chart off. My time of birth makes my Ascendent "Libra" - that's how I appear. If yours is not Air, it wont work. Fire, maybe; but in this position I prefer only air. Well, Water is best; but not for my chart. My girlfriend and I are like an 86% match or so...

There are other birth-dates that will work; so when you contact me, send me your birthday ( and I will respond.