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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Sapiosexual, Straight
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Two-year college
Mostly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's start with answering each others questions and go from there...

I have decided to browse "incognito" since many woman these days are paranoid and from my experience; freak out when you spend too much time on their profile, not just checking out their pix, but actually reading their profile and profile questions. If you have a lot of questions, people may be on your profile for a good amount of time... If you're that paranoid, go ahead and block/hide me, help me weed out the crazy people... If you block people because they are reading your profile, then you're probably not smart enough to be their girlfriend. If you don't want people to answer your questions, make them private or something.

I am not the stoker type, most the time anyway. I won't contact anyone usually unless we have "mutual likes". I have a solution to help narrow things down; if you are not into me, please block/hide me so I can rule you out as a prospect and I will do the same for you. I thought about this long and hard, I think that would be a win win for everyone. Also; if you're into OPD (other peoples drama), please block/hide me!? I hate that crap!

If you read my "You should message me if" section, you will see what it is I am looking for. If you don't fit my criteria, one of us should block/hide each other. If you do fit my criteria, and I fit your; then you should "like" me profile and/or message me.

I am Poly and GLBT friendly, only I am not GLBT myself; nor in I interested in anyone who is transitioning in either direction. I am no longer Poly and unless the right relationship dynamic presents itself, I wont be coming back into the fold. Therefore I am Monogamous or "Closed V Polyfidelity Triad" whichever configuration comes first. Those are my only two options. I do not do open Polyamorous relationships nor cheating, and yes I do understand that there is a difference. I am still an advocate of both the Poly and GLBT communities, though I am no longer active.

No, seriously, "What's your sign?" This is not some cheesy pickup line for me, I actually know astrology. So if you are Aquarius, Pisces, Aries or Taurus; let's start with answering each others questions and go from there...

Thank you so much, CainO'
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work (I am a HazMat Tanker Trucker out of Coal City, IL.. so I'm in Chicago a lot), I am also a Freedom Fighter, I own two acres in a community project and now buying another 15 acres for my own projects in Cedar County, Mo. I'm into Astrology, Psychology, Theology, Prepping, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Getting Of The Grid, Organic Farming, I.T. & etc...

I am not a "Prepper" per-say myself; but I do believe in the philology of expecting the best, but preparing for the worst.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Alternative health, Alternative energy & Alternative thinking. Like Astrology, Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy and more...

I am good at listening, learning, analyzing, I tend to pay attention to detail, I am good at TMI, being honest to a fault, I can be critical (Capricorn will appropriate me cause they tend to be more critical), I am good at being innovative, creative, inspiring. I use to be really good at writing music and poetry.

I am good at other things that I wont list here... (private)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Astrology (duh), Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Relationship oriented, Religions of most sorts, Philosophy, Success and Motivational, Self Help, Self Awareness, Self Healing, Metaphysical, etc...

What is the common denominator? "Educational".

Sell Your Weeds:

Eat Your Weedies:

I don't watch much TV:
Movies: Anything except "Scary Movies"! I even like chick flicks :) Oh, Spoofs; I DON'T like Spoofs! Most of them anyway, I think they are stupid.

Shows: Pretty much the same. I am really into Orphan Black right now...

I am a major YouTuber, otherwise I typically only like TV/movies if I am cuddling on the couch with special someone spending quality time together if that's her idea of quality time or she is into TV more then me.

Music: Most anything - Rock, Rap, Country, Classical, Pop; anything but Polka type music.

Basically I like most anything except Contemporary Christian, Polka type music and most traditional Mariachi Band Latino type music (my brother and I use to call it Circus music). I can do tradition Christian, hymnal type music, modern Christian Rap/Rock, modern Latino or other Latino music that is not Polka type sounding.

OK, I am creating a new Playlist of random favorites just for you:
I put Echosmith - Bright first because it's an astrological love song and currently my new favorite :)

My favorites are Hank Williams Sr., Taylor Swift, Jane Child, Michael Jackson, Metallica, Ramstein (German Rock), Garth Books, The Monkeys, The Bee Gees, Reba Mac Entire, Katy Perry, Dean Cook (Comedy), I don't have a favorite rapper per say but I am really getting into the new Christian Rap, Bill Cosby is my other favorite comedian despite the controversy. Dixie Chicks too for that matter; screw Bush, Clinton, Obama, Hillary and the rest of their communists comrades! Classical; I like Beethoven, Mozart and Bosch, Tori Amos, The Cranberries, Enya, Yoni, Sarah Mclachlan and Merril Bainbridge. Bananas at Large; only their 1st album, the second two stink. OK, that's all I can think of right now :-)

Food: Most anything - I try to eat as raw as possible, but that's not always easy. I am also a meat eater, but I don't eat raw meat... I try and eat all things as natural and organic as possible, as God intended it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1 Corinthians, Revelation, the missing books from the Bible, truth, Astrology, fitness, business, friends & family, Alternative health, Alternative energy & Alternative thinking...

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, working out, studying, relaxing or sleeping... sometimes hanging out with friends.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like me, "Like" my profile, if we are at least 76% match, less then 22% enemy and you have answered more then just a dozen or so questions, we have "Mutual Likes" and you are within 25 mile from me or you are willing to relocate; then we shall talk.

I'm looking for Astrological Compatibility. I am still learning, but if I am learning right... I need someone born Aquarius, Pisces, Aries or Taurus & between 1765-1773 or 1980-1985. Preferably someone on the Cusp like me, an Aries / Taurus Cusp might be best.

I am looking for someone healthy, fit, active, thin, trim & attractive. You don't need to be a super model or MPDG. OK; maybe an MPDG, lol. No but I must find you to be attractive and you must be no thicker then me. Must be into Alternative health and NOT Modern "Sick Care" medicines! Into alternative energy and alternative thinking. Oh, and race is not an issue.

Even though I am not here "looking" for friends, I am willing to connect with people for friends and/or business if you are at least 75% match, less then 25% enemy. If your looking to just be friend and/or business, FaceBook me. This is a date, lets keep it that way; thanx!

People from:

Aquarius through Taurus will put planets in my "love houses",

Gemini through Virgo will put planets in my "friend houses", where

Libra through Capricorn will put planets in by "business houses".

With a few exceptions... very few.

I am Leo/Virgo Cusp, looking for someone with Sun in Aries or Taurus. Maybe even Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces or Gemini; but preferably an Aries/Taurus cusp.

I am Libra Rising, looking for an Aquarius or Aries Rising. Maybe Pisces or Taurus Rising, but preferably Aries Rising.

I am Moon in Libra, looking for Moon in Fire or Air.

I am Mercury in Virgo/Leo Cusp, looking for Mercury in Capricorn or Taurus.

I am Venus in Leo, looking for Venus in Air or Fire.

I am Mars in Virgo, looking for Mars in Earth or Water.

I am Jupiter in Pisces, looking for Jupiter in Earth or Water.

I am Saturn in Cancer, looking for Saturn in Earth or Water.

& etc...
Any Questions?

If you are single or Poly and want to talk astrology, CLICK HERE; otherwise CLICK HERE.

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