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40 Stockton, MO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:20pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A little about me...
Updated: 2015
Single again? Yeah me too…

“Relationships are like a dance, with visible energy racing back and forth between the partners. Some relationships are the slow, dark dance of death.” ― Colette Dowling ―

The beauty in the dance is flowing seamlessly with your partner. I have learned that dancing too long with the wrong partner can bring much frustration, discomfort and even pain, depending on the depth of the struggle. We are all free and responsible for choosing the partner whose energy and style flow with us best.

Hello, my name is CainO' - most of my life I have bounced back and forth between serial monogamy and Polyamory, I've even tried Polyfidelity. I've explored many relationship dynamics and I think I am going to go back to and stick to Polyamory until I find the right astrological match for a long term monogamous relationship or matches for a long term PolyFidelity or Polygynous relationship. I don’t have to be Poly, I can go either way. If u think u might be the right astrological match or u would like a quality part time relationship in mean time, let me know. Thank you so much, CainO'

About the one I'm looking for...
Updated: 2015

Must be attractive, have a brain, have a heart, like deep intellectual conversations about things other than drama. Must not be a dictator, a Dom or even too submissive; I am a “switch” or moderate to medium in many things and looking for the same. - I am Not PolySexual - You must be a straight, female gender fluid or bi female, must have been born a female, no Trans Genders.

Long term: Must be into health and nutrition, Off Gridding, a constitutionalist, Freedom fighter, or at least a Volunteerist; must be no more than a MILD drinker and non-smoker. I use to be a smoker, so I can overlook smoking before I can drinking. I will not date violent drunks ever again; stupid drunks are tolerable, violent drunks are not! Bipolar or any variation thereof is also not an option.

As for Astrological compatibility: My best two and longest relationships I have ever had: "astrologically" were 12.17.1975 Leo Rising and 5.14.1977 Gemini Rising. So as for astrological compatibility, I'm looking for better than and will be comparing astrology to those date; I am 8.20.1974 Libra Rising if you know and understand astrology.

I'd just like to add...

Astrologically - Short term I allow more exceptions.

Long term: Most sites only give you the Sun Sign or the Chinese Zodiac. I am a Leo/Virgo Cusp. Moon in Libra, Venus in Leo & Mars in Virgo... If I ask your birthday; it’s because there are other signs that we need to consider like the Ascendant, Mercury is VERY important & there are many other signs in our astrology.

My Mercury is Virgo & MERCURY is COMMUNICATION, so you should understand how important Mercury is in any type of relationship. That’s why I ask for birthdays.

I am looking for Fire or Air “Sun Signs”, Earth & Cancer would be the exception to the rule for my Sun sign. I will also be looking for Fire or Air Venus signs, Cancer & Virgo are the exceptions for my Venus in Leo. I will also be looking for Mars in Earth or Water; Leo might be the only exception I will make for this sign, pending house placement or if we were Polygynous.

Mercury will also need to be Earth or Water, I will make no exception for this one for this is Communication and I know and understand the importance of proper communication in any kind of relationship; business or personal.

IF I were to try and form another Triad, I would have to be very very picky and not accept any exceptions at all; or very little. That was one of the mistakes I didn’t know I was making the last time. Venus might be the one position I would compromise to get Water which is best for forming families.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking care of me for a change! Getting off the grid, focusing on my business, dreams, ideas, goals, my security and sanity. "Codependent No More"

Here are my Astrology Interpritations is you are interested.
Spirit Success:
Personal Path:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of things
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Astrology (duh), Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Relationship oriented, Religions of most sorts, Philosophy, Success and Motivational, Self Help, Self Awareness, Self Healing, Metaphysical, etc...

What is the common denominator? "Educational".

I don't watch much TV:
Movies: Anything except "Scary Movies"!
Shows: Pretty much the same.

Music: Most anything
Food: Most anything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides God, Food, Air, Water, Astrology and other obvious things like toilet paper...

My phone
My Computer
Essential Oils
Business Cards :)
Happy People in my Life :)
Smart People in my Life :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Business, Astrology, FREEDOM, LOVE, LIBERTY, Work, My Websites, Getting Off The Grid... etc...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, Studying...
You should message me if
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You must be attractive, if I cannot be attracted to you, none of the other stuff matters. If you are slim to medium build, HWP, (you don't have to be a super modal), just attractive and healthy looking not healthy as in you eat too much; withing the Missouri area or looking to relocate to the Missouri area preferred. Sorry if that sound cruel; I use to not care so much about looks, I looked at the personality over looks like I was told growing up, but it mattered then even though I tried to not let it bother me.

For a long term relationship, you must be at least 85% on the OKC calculations; even though their math does not make since. Short term part time relationships, 75% or better. Friends, 60% or better... I think there is something to this OKC matching system. I would like to test and see how astrologically compatible people are to me in contrast to the OKC matching system.

So I am just going to be honest, I cannot handle obese, fat, flubber, blubber... I take care of my body and I am looking for women who do the same. I love me and you should love you; take care of your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual (meaning whatever it is you believe in) "hearth". I am 170lbs and you must weigh less then me and be as skinny as or skinnier then me. I do have two target areas, my gut and my chest; everything else is awesome. I do have 5-10lbs I am working on moving from my midsection, to my pecks. Other then that, I am in very good shape!

It's not necessarily how much we eat as it is what we eat for the most part; I am not perfect either, but I do good for the most part. To understand how to be healthy in my opinion; I fallow Dave's Herb Shop and Fully Raw Christina and well as others and you can check out my site at Oils Of The Earth or fallow my YouTube's at Health & Hearth or Truckers Ed / Stay Fit

Note: I do not pay for sex, so if your looking for a sugar daddy or you use sex to get men to buy you stuff; I don't play that game no more. I also never have and more then likely will never pay for a prostitute either. Some men think all women are prostitutes because they only give it up in order to get something in return; I know not ALL women are like this, but I am not interested in the one who are. If you are one of those women who think men need to "Finance the Romance", do not message me for I am not interested!

Again; I will only get serious with the right Astrologically Compatible woman or women, till then I am just going to just take it easy and take care of CainO' for a change. "Codependent No More" So if you are or think you are Astrologically Compatible; by all means, I do want to hear from you! Ideally a long term committed Monogamous relationship is what I have always wanted. Polygynous or PolyFaithful too are admirable; but finding anything healthy and long term these days seems impossible.

Astrology; if you are attractive, non smoker, mild drinker, "Astrologically Compatible" and looking for something real... I would like to try that with you! Otherwise, I'd really rather just go without.