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  • Ages 30-50
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Sapiosexual, Straight
Black, Native American, White, Other
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5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Other and it’s important
Two-year college
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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This is my singles ad and resume. I am a truck driver; I grew up in trucking and now have been driving commercially myself since 1995, Tractor Trailer since 1998 and HazMat Tankers since 2006. "It’s a Family Tradition". My mother was a trucker/bus driver, my father was in the military, my grandfather owned a trucking company as I was growing up and a lot of my relatives are farmers/truckers. My mother taught me to driver, now she works on the railroad and my father is the trucker. I am a fit, active and healthy trucker and I don't subscribe to lot lizards nor to having a woman in every port.

Most truckers don’t actually fit that stereotype BS people think to we all do, just like not all women are stereotypically the same. A lot of drivers are overweight, just like a lot of people with desk jobs who don’t exercise and/or eat right. Truck stops are starting to get more health minded, the T/A, Petro’s, Pilots and Flying J’s are putting workout rooms in over 50 of their truck stop locations and the food options are somewhat getting healthier too. Lot lizards don’t even exist anymore (thank God); I hate lot lizards, they’re like cockroaches. I was looking for someone to come home to, and that option still stands; if you are within 25-50 miles from me and/or willing to relocate... But since most women want their man home all the time, I'm looking for a woman to drive with me this home on the road.

I am almost done paying child support and will soon have an extra grand a month in my pocket. I am looking to buy an over the road straight truck (Expedite) maybe in 2017 and sort of semi retire; do all the things I couldn’t afford to do the last 20 years and still make a paycheck while touring the country, actually having the time and money to stop and enjoy different locations for a change. The nice thing about the straight truck is; it is easier to get in and out of places, plus finding parking is so much easier then with a Tractor Trailer.

I am looking for a co-driver/girlfriend/business partner, activity/fitness partner and such; and future wife (not ordained under and/or sanctioned by the New World Oder). Must enjoy things like Yoga, Tie Chi, Canoeing, swimming, hiking, biking, mountain climbing, working out (in a gym) (OK, the other way too), exploring the wood, the wild, laser tag, soft air, paintball, guns, archery, martial arts and more; on our down time between loads. I also have an internet business, so I will be doing that too from time to time. If you are into that as well, that would be great but is not necessary; I have two business partners helping me with that.

About You:
For insurance purposes; you will need two years over the road experience, a clean driving record, must be able to pass a drug test, must have no failed drug tests in the past and must be able to pass a DOT physical. For CainO' purposes; must be able to pass a FULL STD test, must be attractive, must be no thicker than me, must be fit, active and must be into alternative health. You do not have to be vegan, I am not vegan either; but as close to “raw” and “kosher” as possible is best.

Must be an assertive and defensive driver; but must NOT be an aggressive driver. Must be able to get along with others (especially in an 8x12 box), must hate fighting, must be a team player, and most of all; must NOT be an alcoholic. Non-drug user and non-gambler too, BTW. Must have good hygiene!!! Must pick up and clean up after yourself, I will not be your maid nor do I need one myself. Must be able to drive long distances in all types of terrains; rain, snow, ice, sleet, fog, hail, crazy drivers/traffic, back roads, mountains and more. Must be an intellectual and not so much into drama. If you like to do dishes, that would be a plus; that is the only thing I do not like doing (don’t know why, just one of the things I have to work on). I do them, I just don’t like to; never have.

You can live anywhere in the U.S.; if Mexican or Canadian resident, must have dual citizenship and I will work on doing the same. We can alternate home times if both homes are not close to one another. I also have an off grid, organic, survivalist, hippie farm/retreat my friends and I are working on (that is my retirement plan); so that is what I do when I am home. The only things that will be on the grid are phones, snail mail and internet. We will be producing our own food, medicine and utilities for the most part. If you are into that too, that would be great. We are less than 10 miles from Lake Stockton and there are plenty of shindigs we can be a part of there too, or we can throw our own.

Must be able to drive a standard “Eaton Fuller” transmission, must have a class B license; a class A license is preferred. TWIC, HazMat & passport are a plus; but I personally would like to get rid of mine, so I wouldn’t expect you to get that unless the company requires it. If you’re not in the U.S., then we will both need our passports of course. Astrologically compatible would be a plus, race and hair color is not an issue. I am NOT looking for a housewife; I make a better house wife/husband than 90% of my exes and past predicts future, so I am not looking for another one of those.

I am looking for someone who is equally yoked in the “ERA” and “biblical” since. I am not your standard issue textbook Christian; I subscribe to many beliefs like Judaism, Hindu, Buddhism, Unity, LDS, RLDS, FLDS, Native American, Spiritualism and more, but Christianity is my foundation. I am “Othertarian” - “Othertarianism” or Chrictian-Other... I am looking for a “Partner”, a Switch if you may; not a Sub nor a Dom. Someone I would be proud to call, “My Better Half”. If you are a good bookkeeper, that too would be a bonus.

If you are within 25-50 miles and/or willing to relocate and be the one I come home to, then all but the driving qualifications still apply. Astrologically; an Aries/Taurus cusp in the year of the Horse or a Sagittarius/Capricorn cusp in the year of the Dog would be best, but they are not the only astrological options. Any questions? Message me! -

I'm not the nice guy you "say" you're looking for, nor am I the bad boy you are actually looking for; I am somewhere in between.

I'm looking for my life partner. Someone to care for; someone to love and share with my hopes, my dreams & my sorrows. Someone who knows a relationship is a work of art, something that you strive together in building and molding it into place.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
**** I'm not here for an e-relationship. ****

Work (I am a HazMat Tanker Trucker out of Coal City, IL.. so I'm in Chicago a lot), Next year I am looking at going back to Erickson out of Springfield so I can be closer to home more often.

I am also a Freedom Fighter, I own two acres in a community project and now buying another 15 acres for my own projects in Cedar County, Mo. I am working on setting up an off grid organic hippie, totally self sufficient farm/retreat.

I'm into Astrology, Psychology, Theology, Prepping, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Getting Of The Grid, Wild Eatables, Organic Farming, I.T. & etc...

I am not a "Prepper" per-say myself; but I do believe in the philology of expecting the best, but preparing for the worst.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
TMI, I have a love hate relationship with OKC because it allows me to TMI and I TMI too much. So I am working to condense things down and making any questions I TMI'd on private. Also some things that are "private and/or person" I marked private too, but mostly things I felt compelled to write a novel on in the explanation section.

If you're looking for someone who is transparent and honest to a fault, you found him. Otherwise, I am also good at the fallowing:

Alternative health, Alternative energy & Alternative thinking. Like Astrology, Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy and more...

I am good at listening, learning, analyzing, I tend to pay attention to detail, I am good at TMI, being honest to a fault, I can be critical (Capricorn will appropriate me cause they tend to be more critical), I am good at being innovative, creative, inspiring. I use to be really good at writing music and poetry.

(Of course everyone will say they are really good at the private things; that's for me to know, and for you to maybe find out.)

I am also good at spotting fake profiles and scammers on the internet; unfortunately, I am not as good at doing this in the non virtual world. I am however getting better at it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Astrology (duh), Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Relationship oriented, Religions of most sorts, Philosophy, Success and Motivational, Self Help, Self Awareness, Self Healing, Metaphysical, etc...

What is the common denominator? "Educational".

Sell Your Weeds:

Eat Your Weedies:

I don't watch much TV:
Movies: Anything except "Scary Movies"! I even like chick flicks :) Oh, Spoofs; I DON'T like Spoofs! Most of them anyway, I think they are stupid.

Shows: Pretty much the same. I am really into Orphan Black right now...

I am a major YouTuber, otherwise I typically only like TV/movies if I am cuddling on the couch with special someone spending quality time together if that's her idea of quality time or she is into TV more then me.

Music: Most anything - Rock, Rap, Country, Classical, Pop; anything but Polka type music.

Basically I like most anything except Contemporary Christian, Polka type music and most traditional Mariachi Band Latino type music. I can do tradition Christian, hymnal type music, modern Christian Rap/Rock, modern Latino or other Latino music that is not Polka type sounding.

I am creating a new Playlist of random favorites just for you:

Food: Most anything - I try to eat as raw as possible, but that's not always easy. I forage and study wild eatables. I am also a meat eater, but I don't eat raw meat... I try and eat all things as natural and organic as possible, as God intended it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Besides God, Food, Air, Water, Earth, Fire & TP?

2) You! That's why I'm here. & other loved ones like Family & Friends.

3) Mother earth, Essential Oils, Herbs, Minerals & Vitamins

4) My phone, computer & other techno.

5) Music & YouTube.
(I typically have 6-12 YouTube windows/tabs open at a time)
Mostly educational stuff and music (playlists usually).

6) Advertising material, I am an obsessive compulsive advertiser.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Jesus was born in September, not December. How many other lies are they brainwashing us into???

How I really want to answer "it depends" for 50% of these questions.

Free Food & medicine:


1 Corinthians, Revelation, the missing books from the Bible, truth (I am a truth seeker), fitness, business, friends & family, Alternative health, Alternative energy & Alternative thinking...



Note: Beware the forum section, Narcissists hang out there. Unless you have Troll Armor, look but do not post.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, working out, studying, relaxing or sleeping... sometimes hanging out with friends.

***Something Private I am willing to admit***

I never really could get into BDSM. I try and keep an open mind; but to honest, most if it kind of weirds me out. I just took a BDMS/Kink test and here was my results:

== Results from ==
86% Switch
76% Rigger
73% Vanilla
68% Dominant
67% Primal (Hunter)
65% Rope Bunny
60% Voyeur
59% Submissive
58% Experimentalist
52% Primal (Prey)
44% Exhibitionist
42% Master/Mistress
38% Non-monogamist
36% Brat Tamer
33% Daddy/Mommy
23% Owner
22% Ageplayer
20% Brat
13% Girl/Boy
12% Sadist
11% Slave
9% Masochist
6% Pet
2% Degrader
1% Degradee
See my results online at

I'd say it's about 80% accurate. I sort of like to be hunted more then I like the hunt. When a woman I am attracted to comes after me, that gets my attention way more then most anything. I love strong and assertive women!

I use to be Poly, so I am sure the "non-monogamous" percentage would have been higher in the past. I am more monogamist now. The only way I would go back to being Poly is that "IF" my partner was bi and wanted both male and females mates for life partners (Closed V Polyfidelity Triad). Otherwise, I am pretty much not interested in any other Poly dynamic for my personal life. Though I am still an advocate for the Poly Community, I feel no real need to be "active" in the community anymore.

I went from like 88% Poly to 38% over the last few years; mostly because I had a bad experience I guess, just like a lot of you have had I am sure. I would come back into the fold sort of speak under the right conditions; but otherwise, I am content with being "mono" for the rest of my life.
You should message me if
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OK, I just now (2015-09-23) found this on another woman's profile and she endorses this 100% and checks out every guy using that site before communicating with them, so I thought I would share this with you: Not sure if this is all real or just a place to slam people, but it is worth looking into.

At that; you should also check out TinEye, and other "Catfish" "Romance Scammer" sites and software. I have an I.T. business and I am working on putting together a team of Catfish Hunters to also help stop these romance scammers, but right now I am only a team of two. I do have one guy helping me screen people on my date line, but we aren't set up yet to do support for other sites; maybe some day in the future...


Besides my sites, OKC is one of my favorites - If you like me, "Like" my profile, if we are at least 77% match, less then 23% enemy and you have answered more then just a dozen or so questions, we have "Mutual Likes" and you are within 50 mile from me or you are willing to relocate; then we shall talk. I live closer to Springfield and next year I'm looking at going back to work for Erickson out of Springfield; but I still have family, my I.T. business and business partners are in KC where I recently moved from. So one of those two places are second best.

I'm looking for Astrological Compatibility. I am still learning, but if I am learning right... I need someone born Aquarius, Pisces, Aries or Taurus & between 1765-1773 or 1980-1985. Preferably someone on the Cusp like me, an Aries / Taurus Cusp might be best.

I am looking for someone healthy, fit, active, thin, trim & attractive. You don't need to be a super model or MPDG. OK; maybe an MPDG, lol. No but I must find you to be attractive and you must be no thicker then me. Must be into Alternative health and NOT Modern "Sick Care" medicines! Into alternative energy and alternative thinking. Oh, and race is not an issue.

Even though I am not here "looking" for friends, I am willing to connect with people for friends and/or business if you are at least 75% match, less then 25% enemy. If your looking to just be friend and/or business, FaceBook me. This is a date, lets keep it that way; thanx!

If you are single or Poly and want to talk astrology, CLICK HERE; otherwise CLICK HERE. I also have a FREE astrology birth calculator on both site.

You should message me if your goal is to get off this site rather than just being a serial internet pretender. And you if want to meet in person! I like to cut to the chase to see if there is compatibility as well as other forms of compatibility, like astrology. I don't have the time or patience to spend my time on the computer "chatting" indefinitely with a stranger. I am a social creature.... I am not looking for pen pals!

First date....Dinner and conversation to see if there is a romantic connection. It should be understood that this date is just a get together in a non sexual way and nothing more. A second date would be based upon mutual connection, chemistry and validated interest. I will not mislead you and wish not to be misled or play games.

P.S. If you don't look like your pictures you are buying me drinks until you do! LOL; that last part was a joke, I wont let you get me that drunk.

I'd rather meet before the imaginary relationship gets too serious.