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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:31pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly other
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Two-year college
Mostly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A little about me...
Updated: 3.2015
Single again? Yeah me too…

“Relationships are like a dance, with visible energy racing back and forth between the partners. Some relationships are the slow, dark dance of death.” ― Colette Dowling ―

The beauty in the dance is flowing seamlessly with your partner. I have learned that dancing too long with the wrong partner can bring much frustration, discomfort and even pain, depending on the depth of the struggle. We are all free and responsible for choosing the partner whose energy and style flow with us best.

Hello, my name is CainO' – I have two friends that are single and looking for love in all the right places too. I have been doing real astrology since 2012; I am not the best, but I have come a long way. Astrology like us, is not perfect. My friends and I all believe in a “1 Corinthians 13 kind of Love” so I am looking for astrological compatibility for my friends and I.

Walter is an Aries, Cancer Rising, Moon in Virgo, Mercury in Aries, Venus in Taurus and Mars in Pisces.

David-Ray is Virgo, Libra Rising, Moon in Libra, Mercury in Virgo, Venus in Cancer and Mars in Cancer.

I am Leo/Virgo cusp, Moon in Libra, Mercury in Virgo, Venus in Leo and Mars in Virgo.

About the one I'm looking for...
Updated: 3.2015

I am looking for Astrological compatibility for my friends. If you’re on a People Media site and have Sun in Fire or Air, Venus in Earth or Water, Mars in Earth or Water and don’t want any more kids; I can run your astrology to see how compatible you are with Walter.

If you have Sun in Earth or Water, Venus in Earth or Water, Mars in Earth or Water and you do want more children; I can run your birthdays and see how compatible you are to David-Ray. Neither of them are interested in smokers or heavy drinkers. Must be healthy, fit and active; David-Ray is more flexible on the last part.

If you have Sun in Air/Fire or Earth, Venus in Air/Fire or Cancer and Mars in Earth/Water or Libra and you don’t want any more kids; I can run our astrology and see how compatible we are.

Basically, just message me your birthday and we can go from there. I will run your astrology and then direct you to their FB if applicable so you can decide if you want to contact them or not. Only David-Ray never hardly uses his, so I may direct you to his OKC. You can also find them at DatingByTheSigns where I teach people how to find astrological compatibility and more.
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking care of me for a change! Getting off the grid, focusing on my business, dreams, ideas, goals, my security, serenity and sanity. "Codependent No More"

In reading my stats, you will see that it says that I am "mostly-monogamous". I use to be Poly and I am now monogamous, I might could go back to being Polyfidelity if the situation was right for it, but more then likely It probably isn't going to happen.

Here are my Astrology Interpritations is you are interested.
Spirit Success:
Personal Path:
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A lot of things
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Astrology (duh), Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Relationship oriented, Religions of most sorts, Philosophy, Success and Motivational, Self Help, Self Awareness, Self Healing, Metaphysical, etc...

What is the common denominator? "Educational".

I don't watch much TV:
Movies: Anything except "Scary Movies"!
Shows: Pretty much the same.

Music: Most anything
Food: Most anything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides God, Food, Air, Water, Astrology and other obvious things like toilet paper...

My phone
My Computer
Essential Oils
Business Cards :)
Happy People in my Life :)
Smart People in my Life :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Business, Astrology, FREEDOM, LOVE, LIBERTY, Work, My Websites, Getting Off The Grid... etc...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, Studying or working out...
You should message me if
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You must be attractive, if I cannot be attracted to you, none of the other stuff matters. If you are slim to medium build, HWP, (you don't have to be a super modal or MPDG), just attractive and healthy looking and not healthy as in you eat too much; within the Missouri area or looking to relocate to the S.W. corner of Missouri area preferred. Sorry if that sounds cruel; I use to not care so much about looks, I looked at the personality over looks like I was told growing up, but it mattered then even though I tried to not let it bother me.

For a long term relationship, you must be at least 85% on the OKC calculations; even though their math does not make since to most of us. I will consider 75% or better if the astrology works. Friends, 60% or better... I think there is something to this OKC matching system. I would like to test and see how astrologically compatible people are to me in contrast to the OKC matching system.

So I am just going to be honest, I cannot handle obese, fat, flabby, or blubber, and too much cellulite just makes me sick... I take care of my body and I am looking for women who does the same. I love me and you should love you; take care of your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual (meaning whatever it is you believe in) "hearth". I am 170lbs and you must weigh less then me and be as skinny as or skinnier then me. I do have two target areas, my gut and my chest; everything else is awesome. I do have 5-10lbs I am working on moving from my midsection, to my pecks. Other then that, I am in very good shape!

It's not necessarily how much we eat as it is what we eat for the most part; I am not perfect either, but I do good for the most part. To understand how to be healthy in my opinion; I fallow Dave's Herb Shop and Fully Raw Christina and well as others and you can check out my site at Oils Of The Earth or fallow my YouTube's at Health & Hearth or Truckers Ed / Stay Fit

Note: I do not pay for sex, so if your looking for a sugar daddy or you use sex to get men to buy you stuff; I don't play that game no more. I also never have and more then likely will never pay for a prostitute either. Some men think all women are prostitutes because they only give it up in order to get something in return; I know not ALL women are like this, but I am not interested in the one who are. If you are one of those women who think men need to "Finance the Romance", do not message me for I am not interested!

Again; I will only get serious with the right Astrologically Compatible woman or women, till then I am just going to just take it easy and take care of CainO' for a change. "Codependent No More" So if you are or think you are Astrologically Compatible; by all means, I do want to hear from you! Ideally a long term committed Monogamous relationship is what I have always wanted. Polygynous or PolyFaithful too are admirable; but finding anything healthy and long term these days seems impossible.

So if you are attractive, non/mild smoker, mild drinker, 75% match or better, "Astrologically Compatible" and looking for something real... I would like to try that with you! Otherwise, I'd really rather just go without. How's that country song go again; Thank you, "I'm holding my own". lol