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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Oct 3
Sapiosexual, Straight
Black, Native American, White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Two-year college
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The question is not, how do I get what I want. It is, how do I become the kind of person that will attract the things that I want. Everyday; find your center, become centered and be the center.

I am life path #4; I am a realist, I desire responsibility and I provide strengths.

I won't contact anyone usually unless we have "mutual likes". If you are not into me, please block/hide me so I can rule you out as a prospect and I will do the same for you.

This way, we wont waste either of each others time and we will increase both our odds of finding someone who is right for us.

If you read my "You should message me if" section, you will see what it is I am looking for. If you don't fit my criteria, one of us should block/hide each other. If you do fit my criteria, and I fit your; then you should "like" me profile and/or message me.

No, seriously! "What's your signs?" This is not some cheesy pickup line for me, I actually know "real" astrology. If you don't know much about astrology, I can help.

Updated: 9.15.2015

Single Male Driver, seeking Single Female Driver:

This is my singles ad and resume. I am a truck driver; I grew up in trucking and now have been driving commercially myself since 1995, Tractor Trailer since 1998 and HazMat Tankers since 2006. "It’s a Family Tradition". My mother was a trucker/bus driver, my father was in the military, my grandfather owned a trucking company as I was growing up and a lot of my relatives are farmers/truckers. My mother taught me to driver, now she works on the railroad and my father is the trucker. I'm not a fat, unhealthy trucker and I don't subscribe to lot lizards nor to having a woman in every port.

Most truckers don’t actually fit that stereotype BS people think to we all do, just like not all women are stereotypically the same. A lot of drivers are overweight, just like a lot of people with desk jobs who don’t exercise and/or eat right. Truck stops are starting to get more health minded, the T/A, Petro’s, Pilots and Flying J’s are putting workout rooms in over 50 of their truck stop locations and the food options are somewhat getting healthier too. Lot lizards don’t even exist anymore (thank God); I hate lot lizards, they’re like cockroaches. I was looking for someone to come home to, and that option still stands; if you are within 25-50 miles from me and/or willing to relocate... But since most women want their man home all the time, I'm looking for a woman to drive with me this home on the road.

I am almost done paying child support and will soon have an extra grand a month in my pocket. I am looking to buy an over the road straight truck (Expedite) maybe in 2017 and sort of semi retire; do all the things I couldn’t afford to do the last 20 years and still make a paycheck while touring the country, actually having the time and money to stop and enjoy different locations for a change. The nice thing about the straight truck is; it is easier to get in and out of places, plus finding parking is so much easier then with a Tractor Trailer.

I am looking for a co-driver/girlfriend/business partner, activity/fitness partner and such; and future wife (not ordained under and/or sanctioned by the New World Oder). Must enjoy things like Yoga, Tie Chi, Canoeing, swimming, hiking, biking, mountain climbing, working out (in a gym) (OK, the other way too), exploring the wood, the wild, laser tag, soft air, paintball, guns, archery, martial arts and more; on our down time between loads. I also have an internet business, so I will be doing that too from time to time. If you are into that as well, that would be great but is not necessary; I have two business partners helping me with that.

Here are my Astrology Interpretation’s if you are interested.
Spirit Success:
Personal Path:

About You:

For insurance purposes; you will need two years over the road experience, a clean driving record, must be able to pass a drug test, must have no failed drug tests in the past and must be able to pass a DOT physical. For CainO' purposes; must be able to pass a FULL STD test, must be attractive, must be no thicker than me, must be fit, active and must be into alternative health. You do not have to be vegan, I am not vegan either; but as close to “raw” and “kosher” as possible is best.

Must be an assertive and defensive driver; but must NOT be an aggressive driver. Must be able to get along with others (especially in an 8x12 box), must hate fighting, must be a team player, and most of all; must NOT be an alcoholic. Non-drug user and non-gambler too, BTW. Must have good hygiene!!! Must pick up and clean up after yourself, I will not be your maid nor do I need one myself. Must be able to drive long distances in all types of terrains; rain, snow, ice, sleet, fog, hail, crazy drivers/traffic, back roads, mountains and more. Must be an intellectual and not so much into drama. If you like to do dishes, that would be a plus; that is the only thing I do not like doing (don’t know why, just one of the things I have to work on). I do them, I just don’t like to; never have.

You can live anywhere in the U.S.; if Mexican or Canadian resident, must have dual citizenship and I will work on doing the same. We can alternate home times if both homes are not close to one another. I also have an off grid, organic, survivalist, hippie farm/retreat my friends and I are working on (that is my retirement plan); so that is what I do when I am home. The only things that will be on the grid are phones, snail mail and internet. We will be producing our own food, medicine and utilities for the most part. If you are into that too, that would be great. We are less than 10 miles from Lake Stockton and there are plenty of shindigs we can be a part of there too, or we can throw our own.

Must be able to drive a standard “Eaton Fuller” transmission, must have a class B license; a class A license is preferred. TWIC, HazMat & passport are a plus; but I personally would like to get rid of mine, so I wouldn’t expect you to get that unless the company requires it. If you’re not in the U.S., then we will both need our passports of course. Astrologically compatible would be a plus, race and hair color is not an issue. I am NOT looking for a housewife; I make a better house wife/husband than 90% of my exes and past predicts future, so I am not looking for another one of those.

I am looking for someone who is equally yoked in the “ERA” and “biblical” since. I am not your standard issue textbook Christian; I subscribe to many beliefs like Judaism, Hindu, Buddhism, Unity, LDS, RLDS, FLDS, Native American, Spiritualism and more, but Christianity is my foundation. I am “Othertarian” - “Othertarianism” or Chrictian-Other... I am looking for a “Partner”, a Switch if you may; not a Sub nor a Dom. Someone I would be proud to call, “My Better Half”. If you are a good bookkeeper, that too would be a bonus.

If you are within 25-50 miles and/or willing to relocate and be the one I come home to, then all but the driving qualifications still apply. Astrologically; an Aries/Taurus cusp in the year of the Horse or a Sagittarius/Capricorn cusp in the year of the Dog would be best, but they are not the only astrological options. Any questions? Message me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
**** I'm not here for an e-relationship. ****

Work (I am a HazMat Tanker Trucker out of Coal City, IL.. so I'm in Chicago a lot), Next year I am looking at going back to Erickson out of Springfield so I can be closer to home more often.

I am also a Freedom Fighter, I own two acres in a community project and now buying another 15 acres for my own projects in Cedar County, Mo. I am working on setting up an off grid organic hippie, totally self sufficient farm/retreat.

I'm into Astrology, Psychology, Theology, Prepping, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Getting Of The Grid, Wild Eatables, Organic Farming, I.T. & etc...

I am not a "Prepper" per-say myself; but I do believe in the philology of expecting the best, but preparing for the worst.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Alternative health, Alternative energy & Alternative thinking. Like Astrology, Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy and more...

I am good at listening, learning, analyzing, I tend to pay attention to detail, I am good at TMI, being honest to a fault, I can be critical (Capricorn will appropriate me cause they tend to be more critical), I am good at being innovative, creative, inspiring. I use to be really good at writing music and poetry.

(Of course everyone will say they are really good at the private things.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Astrology (duh), Psychology, Herbology, Aromatherapy, Relationship oriented, Religions of most sorts, Philosophy, Success and Motivational, Self Help, Self Awareness, Self Healing, Metaphysical, etc...

What is the common denominator? "Educational".

Sell Your Weeds:

Eat Your Weedies:

I don't watch much TV:
Movies: Anything except "Scary Movies"! I even like chick flicks :) Oh, Spoofs; I DON'T like Spoofs! Most of them anyway, I think they are stupid.

Shows: Pretty much the same. I am really into Orphan Black right now...

I am a major YouTuber, otherwise I typically only like TV/movies if I am cuddling on the couch with special someone spending quality time together if that's her idea of quality time or she is into TV more then me.

Music: Most anything - Rock, Rap, Country, Classical, Pop; anything but Polka type music.

Basically I like most anything except Contemporary Christian, Polka type music and most traditional Mariachi Band Latino type music (my brother and I use to call it Circus music). I can do tradition Christian, hymnal type music, modern Christian Rap/Rock, modern Latino or other Latino music that is not Polka type sounding.

I am creating a new Playlist of random favorites just for you:

My favorites are Hank Williams Sr., Taylor Swift, Jane Child, Michael Jackson, Metallica, Ramstein (German Rock), Garth Books, The Monkeys, The Bee Gees, Reba Mac Entire, Katy Perry, Dean Cook (Comedy), I don't have a favorite rapper per say but I am really getting into the new Christian Rap, Bill Cosby is my other favorite comedian despite the controversy. Dixie Chicks too for that matter; screw Bush, Clinton, Obama, Hillary and the rest of their communists comrades! Classical; I like Beethoven, Mozart and Bosch, Tori Amos, The Cranberries, Enya, Yoni, Sarah Mclachlan and Merril Bainbridge. Bananas at Large; only their 1st album, the second two stink. OK, that's all I can think of right now :-)

Food: Most anything - I try to eat as raw as possible, but that's not always easy. I forage and study wild eatables. I am also a meat eater, but I don't eat raw meat... I try and eat all things as natural and organic as possible, as God intended it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Besides God, Food, Air, Water, Earth, Fire & TP?

2) You! That's why I'm here. & other loved ones like Family & Friends.

3) My phone, computer & other techno.

4) Music & YouTube.
(I have 11 YouTube windows/tabs open right now 9.9.2015)
Mostly educational stuff and music.

5) My Essential Oils, Herbs, Minerals & Vitamins

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Jesus was born in September, not December. How many other lies are they brainwashing us into???

How I really want to answer "it depends" for 50% of these questions.

Free Food & medicine:


1 Corinthians, Revelation, the missing books from the Bible, truth (I am a truth seeker), fitness, business, friends & family, Alternative health, Alternative energy & Alternative thinking...


Note: Beware the forum section, Narcissists hang out there. Unless you have Troll Armor, look but do not post.

September 2015

September 6th: Venus turns direct in Leo at 1:29 am PDT. The planet of beauty, money, relationships, resources, and values has enjoyed an extended summer detour while retrograde in the sign of Leo for the past 38 days. Today she steps forward in the regal sign of Leo at 14 deg 23 min to retrace her steps through the final 17 days of summer and grace the arrival of autumn on September 23rd.

September 12th: New Moon/Partial Solar Eclipse in Virgo at 11:41 pm PDT. The final New Moon of Summer catalyzes new beginnings in the sign of Virgo at 20 deg 10 min forming a close opposition to retrograde Chiron in Pisces at 19 deg 9 min. Health and wellness take center stage as we pass through this collective alignment.

September 17th: Mercury stations retrograde in Libra at 11:09 am PDT. The messenger planet reverses direction in the sign of Libra at 15 deg 55 min of longitude. The partnership Asteroid Juno also entered the sign of Libra at 2:57 am PDT contributing to a balancing actwith Mercury in retrograde. Mercury in retrograde will conjoin Juno in Libra on October 1st at 5 deg 34 min. The final Mercury retrograde of 2015 will station direct on October 9th at 7:58 am PDT in the 1st degree of Libra.

September 17th: Saturn enters Sagittarius at 7:47 pm PDT. Authoritarian Saturn arrives in the far-reaching sign of Sagittarius for the second time this year after completing three months in the final two degrees of Scorpio. Saturn will journey through Sagittarius for the next 2 years and 3 months with an emphasis on testing those with planets in the mutable signs of Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces, and Gemini.

September 23rd: The Autumn season officially begins as the Sun enters Libra at 1:21 am PDT. The Summer season surrenders to Autumn as the Sun departs Virgo and arrives in the sign of Libra today.

September 24th: Mars enters Virgo at 7:18 pm PDT and Pluto stations direct in Capricorn at 11:57 pm PDT. Transiting Mars in Virgo and Pluto in Capricorn join together in earth signs as they begin the Autumn in anticipation of the Winter Solstice Capricorn Solar cycle.

September 27th: Full Moon/Total Lunar Eclipse in Aries/Libra at 7:50 pm PDT. The first Full Moon of Autumn is the most powerful lunar event of 2015. Today’s Full Moon is in close perigee to the Earth amplifying emotions, seismic activity, and weather patterns. Those with planets or chart angles between zero to nine degrees of longitude in the Cardinal signs of Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn are most likely to experience the heightened effects of this Eclipse.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, working out, studying, relaxing or sleeping... sometimes hanging out with friends.

There use to be a section call: The most private thing I’m willing to admit... I think this might go best in that section:

I am Poly and GLBT friendly, only I am not GLBT myself; nor in I interested in anyone who is transitioning in either direction. I am no longer Poly and unless the right relationship dynamic presents itself, I wont be coming back into the fold. Therefore I am Monogamous. I do not do open Polyamorous relationships nor cheating, and yes I do understand that there is a difference and I understand the difference. I am still an advocate of both the Poly and GLBT communities, though I am no longer active.

Oh, I also use to belong to a Nudist Colony with one of my Ex's... I am not like supper into that, she got me into that; but I am open minded to it still. She got me into the Poly/GLBTQ stuff too for the most part. Actually, I was Poly before her, she just took me to a new level.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
OK, I just now (2015-09-23) found this on another woman's profile and she endorses this 100% and checks out every guy using that site before communicating with them, so I thought I would share this with you: Not sure if this is all real or just a place to slam people, but it is worth looking into.

At that; you should also check out TinEye, and other "Catfish" "Romance Scammer" sites and software. I have an I.T. business and I am working on putting together a team of Catfish Hunters to also help stop these romance scammers, but right now I am only a team of two. I do have one guy helping me screen people on my date line, but we aren't set up yet to do support for other sites; maybe some day in the future...


Besides my sites, OKC is one of my favorites - If you like me, "Like" my profile, if we are at least 77% match, less then 23% enemy and you have answered more then just a dozen or so questions, we have "Mutual Likes" and you are within 50 mile from me or you are willing to relocate; then we shall talk. I live closer to Springfield and next year I'm looking at going back to work for Erickson out of Springfield; but I still have family, my I.T. business and business partners are in KC where I recently moved from. So one of those two places are second best.

I'm looking for Astrological Compatibility. I am still learning, but if I am learning right... I need someone born Aquarius, Pisces, Aries or Taurus & between 1765-1773 or 1980-1985. Preferably someone on the Cusp like me, an Aries / Taurus Cusp might be best.

I am looking for someone healthy, fit, active, thin, trim & attractive. You don't need to be a super model or MPDG. OK; maybe an MPDG, lol. No but I must find you to be attractive and you must be no thicker then me. Must be into Alternative health and NOT Modern "Sick Care" medicines! Into alternative energy and alternative thinking. Oh, and race is not an issue.

Even though I am not here "looking" for friends, I am willing to connect with people for friends and/or business if you are at least 75% match, less then 25% enemy. If your looking to just be friend and/or business, FaceBook me. This is a date, lets keep it that way; thanx!

People from:

Aquarius through Taurus tend to put planets in my "love/relationship houses",

Gemini through Virgo tend to put planets in my "friend houses", where

Libra through Capricorn tend to put planets in my "business houses".

The second two groups can work for relationships, but the chemistry wont be there; with a few exceptions... very few. Now this is based on my birth time. If you are Libra Rising like me, the above would be the same for you.

I am Leo/Virgo Cusp, looking for someone with Sun in Aries or Taurus. Maybe even Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces or Gemini; but preferably an Aries/Taurus cusp.

I am Libra Rising, looking for an Aquarius or Aries Rising. Maybe Pisces Rising, but preferably Aries Rising. Because of my planetary alignment; Pisces Ascendant would be best. But because I have a Libra Ascendant, Aquarius and Aries are more compatible and next to Pisces. Make since?

I am Moon in Libra, looking for Moon in Fire or Air. Moon in Capricorn is my worst; if you have Moon in Capricorn, we will not get along.

I am Mercury in Virgo/Leo Cusp, looking for Mercury in Capricorn or Taurus. If you have Mercury in earth, you will get me and my profile a lot better then others. So this position I feel is the most important. I do not get along with Mercury in Aries and Sagittarius very well, Mercury in Scorpio can be a challenge also.

I am Venus in Leo, looking for Venus in Air or Fire. I need to avoid Venus in Taurus and Scorpio.

I am Mars in Virgo, looking for Mars in Earth or Water.

I am Jupiter in Pisces, looking for Jupiter in Earth or Water.

I am Saturn in Cancer, looking for Saturn in Earth or Water. But NOT another Cancer unless it is at at least 15 degrees or better, this is because of my Pluto in Libra.

& etc...
Any Questions?

If you are single or Poly and want to talk astrology, CLICK HERE; otherwise CLICK HERE. I also have a FREE astrology birth calculator on both site.

You should message me if your goal is to get off this site rather than just being a serial internet pretender. And you if want to meet in person! I like to cut to the chase to see if there is compatibility as well as other forms of compatibility, like astrology. I don't have the time or patience to spend my time on the computer "chatting" indefinitely with a stranger. I am a social creature.... I am not looking for pen pals!

First date....Dinner and conversation to see if there is a romantic connection. It should be understood that this date is just a get together in a non sexual way and nothing more. A second date would be based upon mutual connection, chemistry and validated interest. I will not mislead you and wish not to be misled or play games.

P.S. If you don't look like your pictures you are buying me drinks until you do! LOL; that last part was a joke, I wont let you get me that drunk.

I'd rather meet before the imaginary relationship gets too serious.