I have a companion. This means I am in a non-monogamous thing at the moment. This does not mean I'm looking to make threesomes happen. In my personal experience, threesomes regularly become twosomes. So, I'm not a fan.
Also, I shaved my head. For reasons. Pic will go up shortly.
*** If you hit the like button in quickmatch, know that I can't see you. I'd very much like to do, but I need A-List and I have other priorities. So, if you "like" me, please take a moment to also visit my profile and/or message me, so that I can see you and we can get the ball rolling.***
*** The fact that I'm ok with meeting and playing casually does not necessarily mean I want that from you. The fact that I want a relationship does not necessarily mean I want one from you. If I message you asking for conversation, I'm looking to honestly get to know you and see how things go. And "see how things go" is not a euphemism. I honestly want to see whether we should continue talking and what we each want from the conversation. ***
*** I'm sorry you get a 100 messages a day from guys asking to touch your butt. I really am. Those guys are being really inconsiderate. If I didn't message you asking to touch your butt, please don't take it out on me.***
While I won't say no to casual sex, I'm really looking for new friends or something short term that might develop into long term.
-My past. I can't change it. If you want to know about it, ask me, but please don't judge. And that makes it sound more edgy and mysterious than it is, I promise.
-I'm a nerd. I refuse to change it. I like video games and tabletop and movies and fantasy and sci fi and long lists where "and" is used where commas really should be.
-I'm an egalitarian. I will probably speak up if I see someone being bigoted.
-I crave attention. I need to know you care. I cannot go four weeks without a text message or a visit and be ok about it. I don't need it necessarily every day. But I will be upset after a week of not talking. Sorry, not sorry.
-I am most comfortable with polyamory. This isn't out of some need to date around. But I'll be less clingy if I have more places to spread my attention. And I'll be less insecure if I know you have someone else who makes you happy in ways I can't. I can and have done monogamy though.
-My vehicle situation. I currently don't have a car or vehicle. But I'm in the process of switching out the engine on my Vulcan 500. I'll be able to ride this motorcycle by middle of November, for sure this time. I'm tired of not having my own transportation.
If there's anything else you wannu know about, ask.
also, yes, "wannu". "want to". I won't chastise you for "wanna" but I don't understand it.
This is a bit pedantic, but... It's always interesting to me when people say "my favorite animal is a ____". Let's use dog for this exercise. So is your favorite animal a specific dog? Like, "my favorite animal is my neighbor's dog spot."