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Cal_Amityville

22 F Victoria, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Apr 21
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it matters a lot
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(DISCLAIMER: I'm very shy about starting conversations, so I'm not very good at sending folks messages.)

Soooooo, firstly and very importantly, this site doesn't seem to have an option for folks who have non-binary gender identities. I've put down "female" on my profile, because that's what my parents and the law recognize me as, but I'm really more of a genderqueer, bigender, third-gender kind of person. Gender is pretty wibbly-wobbly for me, but I think "trans-masculine" is probably the easiest way for me to describe myself? Different people in my life use he, she, and they as pronouns for me, but I think I prefer he and they? At least this week... I've also put down "gay" for sexual orientation, but with how my gender and the genders of people I find myself attracted to work, that word doesn't really fit quite right. I mean, if you're someone who isn't particularly a man or a woman, what does homosexual really even mean? Gah. Sexuality is complicated. Urgh.

Now that all that's out of the way, Hi! I'm Cal.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-Avoiding doing schoolwork/taking forever to finish a Gender Studies degree.
-Working with a queer advocacy group on campus.
-Spending two hours a week behind a desk getting barked at by people who don't know how their student health plan works.
-Being a part-time photocopy-jockey on campus.
-Watching/listening to the new Beyonce album on a loop
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Speed-talking. Incessantly.
-Procrastinating.
-Getting in arguments on the internet.
-Giving hickeys.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS: "Brave New World"-Aldous Huxley; "Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West"-Gregory Maguire; "The Great Gatsby"-F. Scott Fitzgerald; The Sandman series by Neil Gaiman

MOVIES: Funny Girl; Away We Go; Persepolis; Spirited Away; Zack and Miri Make a Porno; Pacific Rim; Hello Dolly; Monty Python and the Holy Grail; The Muppet Christmas Carol; Ratatouille; Moulin Rouge

SHOWS: Adventure Time; Buffy the Vampire Slayer; Doctor Who; Orange Is the New Black; Bravest Warriors; Attack on Titan; Bewitched; Princess Jellyfish

MUSIC: The Mountain Goats; Barenaked Ladies; Mykki Blanco; Andrew Jackson Jihad; Emilie Autumn; Metric; Trans-Siberian Orchestra; MIKA; First Aid Kit; the Beatles; M.I.A.; ABBA; Nicki Minaj; Halestorm; A Tribe Called Red; Gogol Bordello; Kate Nash

FOOD: Noodle soups (udon, ramen, etc.), stir-frys (especially with baby corn), thai food, tea biscuits, deviled eggs, or anything involving cheese and potatoes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) music by the Mountain Goats (it's a serious obsession)
2) pillows
3) an internet connection
4) coffee
5) a backpack/lots of pockets/means of carrying tons of stuff on my person
6) black jeans
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm actually supposed to be doing at that moment.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're into musicals and cats. Like... not the musical "Cats", actual cats. The musical "Cats" is pretty meh.