I also enjoy getting high. If that is an absolute deal breaker for you, then perhaps all of my charm and charisma isn't meant for you. ;)
I'm particularly cynical. Often sardonic (so please, don't confuse it with passive aggressive. Those two are easy to mix up). I've got an open mind and I'm willing to try many new things.
Also, I'm really giving and kind. I try to provide for my significant other as much as I possibly can, because I enjoy sharing life. So... If that means you think I'll be 'threatening you independence', then move on, please. I don't have the desire to get caught up in emotional roller coasters or mixed signals.