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30 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My photos may make me seem fancier than I actually am (I own many pairs of stretchy pants and t-shirts in real life), but that's typically when the cameras are out, when you're wearing a dress. I'm an environmental consultant (not a real estate agent as my main photo would suggest). I've lived in the bay area since 2002 and now live in East Oakland. I'm a big fan of DIY projects, and enjoy cooking for/hanging out with friends in my kitchen or around the BBQ.

I'm interested in meeting someone local who is handy. Not that I would expect him to fix all the things, but it would be cool to meet someone who would enjoy working on projects with me.

Oh, and I have can't find that in The Marina!
What I’m doing with my life
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Generally being a responsible adult and trustworthy friend.
I’m really good at
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Parallel parking (no really), playing devil's advocate, saving money, finding typos in environmental reports, and keeping plants and animals alive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a lady human.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Current favorites include...GOT, Outlander, House of Lies and Shameless for shows, High Fidelity and The Fifth Element for movies (although there really are too many to name), Hozier, The National and Alt-J for music, and wine/bread/cheese combo for food. Oh, and noodles...I love noodles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from the obvious stuff (friends, family, food, shelter, blah, blah, blah)...a chef's knife, floss, super glue, a bucket, big pieces of cardboard and duct tape.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to make things better, whether it be a way to improve a work process or just how to not have all the good salad toppings fall to the bottom of the bowl.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday I'm home relaxing. Saturday night I'm probably hanging out with friends. Sunday I'm having dinner with family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"Admit" implies a little shame (and I don't like that), ask me whatever you want, maybe I'll tell you and maybe I won't!
You should message me if
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I don't think this section really matters, because those that message me with "your (sic) sexy" probably didn't read this far any way. So message me if you feel so inclined! And if you floss...I don't think we can be friends if you don't floss.