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30 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 8
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Let's see, what do you want to know? I'm interested in meeting someone local (Berkeley and Lafayette are "local," San Jose is not). I've lived in Oakland since 2006. I'm a big fan of DIY projects. I love cooking for/hanging out with friends in my kitchen or BBQ. Oh, and I have can't find that in The Marina!
What I’m doing with my life
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Generally being a responsible adult and trustworthy friend.
I’m really good at
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Playing devil's advocate, saving money, and keeping plants and animals alive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a lady human.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Current favorites include...House of Lies and Shameless for shows, High Fidelity and The Fifth Element for movies, The National and Alt-J for music, and wine/bread/cheese combo for food. Oh, and noodles...I love noodles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from the obvious stuff...a chef's knife, floss, super glue (for when I cut myself with the aforementioned chef's knife), a bucket, big pieces of cardboard and parsley.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Simple ways to make/do things better. Like how to make a salad and not have all the good stuff fall to the bottom of the bowl...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, thinking that I SHOULD be doing something, but enjoying being mellow. Saturday night I'm probably hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't have any tattoos, but I do have this mole right here. *points to beauty mark to the right of eye*
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You live within a 10-mile radius of Oakland, like women and floss regularly.