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30 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:14pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I just realized that my photos make me seem fancier than I actually am, but who takes pictures while working on a chicken coop or fixing the sink? OK, maybe I do that sometimes, but not of myself! I'm interested in meeting someone local who is handy. I've lived in the bay area since 2002 and have a house in East Oakland (the Middle East, not Far East). I'm a big fan of DIY projects. I love cooking for/hanging out with friends in my kitchen or around the BBQ. Oh, and I have can't find that in The Marina!
What I’m doing with my life
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Generally being a responsible adult and trustworthy friend.
I’m really good at
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Playing devil's advocate, saving money, and keeping plants and animals alive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a lady human.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Current favorites include...House of Lies and Shameless for shows, High Fidelity and The Fifth Element for movies, The National and Alt-J for music, and wine/bread/cheese combo for food. Oh, and noodles...I love noodles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from the obvious stuff...a chef's knife, floss, super glue (for when I cut myself with the aforementioned chef's knife), a bucket, big pieces of cardboard and parsley.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I would say if someone said X to me and also general nonsense. For instance, I just had this conversation with myself: Per OKC I am less independent than others my age. Whaaaaat? How do they figure that? Oh, I know...that question about asking your parents' opinions. That's dumb, why wouldn't you ask people with experience/knowledge for their advice?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday I'm home relaxing. Saturday night I'm probably hanging out with friends. Sunday I'm having dinner with family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"Admit" implies a little shame (and I don't like that), ask me whatever you want, maybe I'll tell you and maybe I won't!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a reliable mode of transportation and income, live within a 10-mile radius of Oakland, floss regularly, do not have tat-sleeves, do not refer to California as "Kali," actually read my profile, have more to say than "hey beautiful" or "your (sic) sexy," and are in my general age range. If this all seems reasonable, by all means, message me!