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59 • San Mateo, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 48–63
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 8:38pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Has dogs and likes cats
I am independent, intelligent, caring, compassionate, confident, determined, friendly, giving, honest, and positive. I believe what goes around comes around and in treating people fairly and with respect. I have a fun personality (you would never know I was an accountant), enjoy witty banter and I love to be challenged.
I love an occasional indulgence of filet marsala (I have a great recipe) and decadent chocolate anything, though I usually eat white meat, seafood, fish and veggies!
I enjoy being near any body of water (including whirlpools for two), watching the sun set while holding hands, and love to laugh out loud and play. I love exploring new places, sampling the native fare (even Haggis) and I am open to trying new things. I enjoy traveling, whether it is to a foreign country, a state I haven't been to, or a day trip on the coast, and would love to find someone who also enjoys that.
My preference is to go to live sports event over watching them on TV. I love getting caught up in the excitement of the crowd and usually end up hoarse. I can, though, sit and watch golf on TV. I also love watching and participating in curling (took several trips to Scotland in the past to participate in a curling tournament).
The idea of creating a dinner together, while sharing a bottle of wine with music playing in the background, is extremely appealing to me. On cold nights I love to stay in watching a movie (love action adventure and, on occasion, a romantic chick flick), with a crackling fire, cuddled up together on the couch. Would love to find a quiet little place to listen to music and slow dancing together (do you know of any?). And since we live so close to the wine country, a romantic little weekend getaway every now and then would be fun.
I have worked in the accounting field and love sharing my vast work and life experiences to help make everyone’s job just a little easier. I now train people how to use accounting software and am fortunate enough to be able to work from home most of the time. I LOVE my job!
I am more spiritual than religious. Religious differences do not matter to me that much. I much prefer being able to agree to disagree and to recognize that our beliefs, though may be different, are our beliefs.
I am looking for someone who has an inquiring mind, believes in honesty without fear, has integrity, and is willing to be open to the possibilities. We don’t need to share every single interest, in fact I think it is healthy that we also have our own interests and time alone, but I want someone who feels comfortable enough with me to share their thoughts.
And, most importantly, they must LOVE dogs!
planning, learning, being open-minded.
having fun and letting my little girl come out to play.
being extremely rigid about being flexible.
Food - enjoy most anything except things that beat (think heart), hop (think bunny) or slither (yup, snake). I am not vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free or lactose-intolerant. I have been called a pretty good cook.
Red wine, dark chocolate and being close.
Bending the rules...sometimes it is easier to beg for forgiveness than ask for permission!
What a wonderful journey I am on!
Where to go next to take pictures.!
.... bonus points if you enjoy photography and like to travel.
.... I am closer to your age as opposed to your mother's age.
.... You read this link and it didn't scare you away (note - you can cross the one off about dog hair - my dog is 3/4 poodle and doesn't really shed). http://3milliondogs.com/inspirational/10-things-to-expect-when-you-date-a-girl-who-loves-her-dog
Note - If you message me, I will respond, as long as you say more than "Hi" and if you live in the Bay Area of California!
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