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58 F San Mateo, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:52pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I am successful, independent, intelligent, caring, compassionate, confident, determined, friendly, giving, honest, and positive. I am very empathetic. I believe in treating people fairly and with respect. I have a fun personality, enjoy witty banter and I love to be challenged.

I am looking for someone who has an inquiring mind, believes in honesty without fear, has integrity, and is willing to be open to the possibilities. We don’t need to share every single interest, in fact I think it is healthy that we also have our own interests and time alone, but I want someone who feels comfortable enough with me to share their thoughts.
What I’m doing with my life
Living life, tasting experiences to the fullest, reaching out eagerly and without fear.

July 2014 Update: Heading to Austin TX for work...arriving a few days early to take in some sights. Further update, 7/27, In Austin, bought cowboy boots!!!!

June 2014 Update: Signed up for Country Line Dance lessons and a bought a ticket to the 2014/2015 Opera Season at Opera San Jose!
I’m really good at
whatever I set my mind to be good at.

planning, learning, being open-minded. Having fun and letting my little girl come out to play.

being extremely rigid about being flexible.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my positive personality and that I have kind eyes. I am repeatedly told that I look and act much younger than my actual age. I am told quite often that I have great energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read self-improvement or awareness books, novels when I want to not tax my brain. Love action-adventure or drama movies. Enjoy musicals (saw 'Wicked' on Broadway in Aug '13 and 'Once' in London in Mar '14)). Enjoy listening to Opera, classical, jazz, soft rock, and, yes, I will admit it, country.

Food - enjoy most anything except things that beat (think heart), hop (think bunny) or slither (yup, snake). I am not vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free or lactose-intolerant. I have been called a pretty good cook.

Red wine, dark chocolate and being close.
The six things I could never do without
Physical Touch
My dog
Quality conversation
My cameras
Having fun
Hot tubs

Bending the rules...sometimes it is easier to beg for forgiveness than ask for permission!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How awesome life is and how grateful I am for who and what I have in my life.

Where to go next to take pictures. Grand Canyon, June 2014, perhaps! Update: Spent 3 days in the Grand Canyon taking pictures. It was amazing and worth the 12 hour drive and getting up at 3:45 AM to capture sunrise. I uploaded pictures of the trip!

OK, where next? Update 6/25/14: just got my latest edition of my AAA magazine and the Pacific Coast Highway sounds like a fun road/photography long weekend!
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying a glass of wine after a long week of work. Or, off on a new adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Have been told I look wholesome and conservative...that would not be accurate. ;-)

I am actually 5'7-1/4"!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 48–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
.... you would like to meet someone who is positive, is willing to be open to new experiences and you are ready for a meaningful relationship.

.... bonus points if you enjoy photography and like to travel.

.... I am closer to your age as opposed to your mother's age.

Note - If you have taken the time to send me a message, please know that I will take the time to respond.