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Cali_Lily84

25 / F / straight / Single

Merced, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Unemployed
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English

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I am tall, shy, and creative.

My Self-Summary

My name is Tara, I am 25 years old. I am not originally from California, but after a few years I've grown to like it here. I've traveled many roads to get to where I'm at, experiences that have made me stronger and wiser. I have an awesome 4 year old son, he's really great. I love being a mom. I am a tall gorgeous woman. I have survived a life of strife. I am strong. I am good. I am loving to a fault. I want to find a man who loves me for who I am, even though who I am is crazy as hell at times. I like cheese. I don't really care if you don't like me, cause guess what? I don't like you! I am weird, I enjoy it. I am a feisty woman, if you got something to say, so do I! I like to play. I can be morbid and sadistic at times. I shuffle through obsessions like i'm following the latest trend. It's all good. I don't fear death, I await it impatiently(that does not mean I'm suicidal). I believe in god, but not in religion. Faith saves, religion kills. I dream of being queen of the universe. Join my cause. I am unbreakable. You can drive me to the edge, but I'll just turn around and throw you down. Did I mention I like cheese? I wish to be free, one day I will fly, fly up high and fly away, far far away. :)

I’m really good at

Drawing. I love drawing, I usually like to design dresses.
(edit) Ok, so I'm not really that great at drawing anymore, I sorta lost my skill, but I'm hoping with practice and dedication I can get back to where I was or better. I was once very passionate about what I could create, I remember fondly my greatest works which I gave away as gifts, why not, when I know some others who would appreciate it more than I am capable of at times? To be honest, my two best works were not drawn, one was a mixture of oil paints and pastels, and the other was scratchboard. Its a hard pill to swallow that I am unable to do as I once did.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am very tall, and also that I have 3 piercings on my face.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books: anything by Dennis Mckiernan, I enjoy the Harry Potter series, and I love love love the twilight saga.
Movies: theres not really much that i find interesting or worth watching. I do want to go see New Moon.
Music: little bit of everything. I love to rock out. My favorite band is the distillers. I love all sorts of music really. not country. not rap, cept eminem. he's cool.
Food: Mexican and Chinese

The six things I could never do without

I notice that some people list basic neccesities (i know i didn't spell that right, someone care to correct me?), and also people. I would love to give this some deep thought, but I don't know if I would be able to answer honestly enough for public viewing. I originally put video games as one of those things, but honestly, I lived years without them, so I know i can survive, besides I don't really play that often anymore. Obviously food, clothing, water, shelter, but I don't know if those should be included in this list, because obviously, nobody can really live without those things. Ok, here's one, seriously, the ball closure to my piercings, aparently one came off at somepoint today, and I didn't even know it! Now begin the frantic search for a tiny piece of metal! Anyways, I want to put internet, because even though I can technically survive without it, life gets pretty boring, and seriously there is a plethora of entertainment possibilities! Well that's the best I can do for now.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

everything and anything, and sometimes nothing. My past tends to haunt me, as well as my future. I can't help but wonder about the what ifs. I also can be pretty absurd, random thoughts of stupidity. Some of my friends find it funny when I share, others find it irritating.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have taken a vow of abstinence. I will not take part in any sexual activities for the rest of my life, unless I get married. It is a choice I have made, I want to honor my father and creator, God.

You should message me if

If you like piercings?