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21 F Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:06pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Serbian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Gotta say I'm not really sure that human beings can encapsulate the entirety of themselves in a "self-summary." Doesn't that feel kinda icky, a tad like a meat-market? I'd rather we actually get to talk than have to 'sell' each other on how fucking fantastic we are.

Note: I'm a 'pre-op' transfeminine grrrl. PGP's are she/her.
What I’m doing with my life
[those other things written in those other sections whose one-line prompt isn't as gratingly mundane as this one]
I’m really good at

dry humor, holding a conversation, ending an overextended conversation's sad existence, tenuous self-assurance, self-awareness, articulation

petting kitties, skin care, showing appreciation, writing love letters, shopping, ill-advised shopping, doing cute shit, making profound nail polish choices, push-pinning shit and/or art to my walls as decoration

BDSM, smoking, backrubs, oral sex, sublimely mixing 'vulnerable' with 'uninhibited,' sounding like a pretentious twat
The first things people usually notice about me
Cute, often-flashed smile. Very long eyelashes. Eyes that're mostly green yet have a strong ring of brown around the pupil (central heterochromia). That I hold eye contact easily and often.

That, apparently, I'm "soft grunge" or "pastel goth" or something like that. I'm not cool enough to ~**get it**~, though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Little Prince, Catch-22, This Side of Paradise, A Clockwork Orange, King Lear, Bloodchild, The Plague, The Stranger, The Absence of Nectar, The Strange Case of the Dog in the Night Time, Death of a Salesman, Logicomix.

Movies: Wadjda, Kumaré, Kiki's Delivery Service, Spirited Away, A Separation, Bikur Ha-Tizmoret (The Band's Visit), Les Amours Imaginaires, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Moonrise Kingdom, Through a Glass Darkly, Ma vie en rose, Igby Goes Down, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, Boys Don't Cry, Omar, Monster, Brokeback Mountain, Airplane, Persepolis, Ničija Zemlja, Apocalypse Now, Life of Brian, The Incredibles, everything will be okay.

TV Shows: Breaking Bad, Futurama, Bob's Burgers, Black Mirror, Orange is the New Black, Southland, Portlandia, Grandma's House, The Office, Adventure Time, Cowboy Bebop, Attack on Titan.

Music: Kid Sister, Shystie, Mac Dre, E-40, Keak Da Sneak, Andre Nickatina, Die Antwoord, Missy Elliott, Lady Sovereign, Lupe Fiasco, The Pretty Reckless, Nico Vega, Cage the Elephant, Rise Against, Halestorm, The Pierces, The Raincoats, Purity Ring, Crystal Castles, Grimes, Air, Waxahatchee, Excision, Datsik, Savant, etc.

Food: Indian. Caribbean grill. Anything with jalapeños and/or sriracha on top. Tea (ginger+hibiscus+honey), biscuits optional. Milk chocolate. Fresh fruit. Staccato writing.
The six things I could never do without
1.) A reusable water bottle: Conserving natural resources; same reason I recycle my jokes!

2.) The 666 hat: People's (over)reactions are cute.

3.) Vulnerability: it's my lifeblood.

4.) M-theory: beautiful.

5.) Counting to six accurately.

6.) Misdirection.

7.) Irony.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why we all put, commas, where they really, just shouldn't, go.

gender, feminism, the patriarchy, class privilege, white privilege, cis privilege, polyamory, life aspirations, cats, which possessions to pin to my walls, the next ridiculous/awesome/wordless outfit I'll feel like wearing, how a polar bear's fur is transparent rather than white, where I'll get my next chocolate fix, making lists on post-it notes, whether the color of my water bottle really reflects who I am, where my third piercing should go (philtrum?), what my first tattoo should be, and not one more single thing more.

This thingy (Brene Brown's beautiful TED Talk on vulnerability).

Or this one (Julia Pott's incredible little 7-minute film, Belly).
On a typical Friday night I am
People, places, fun - always.
Sounds, lights, substances - sometimes.
Academics, solitude - often, usually by necessity.

obligatory 420 mention, joke, funny

Formatting things

Getting angry about slut-shaming, body-shaming, STD-shaming, and whore-shaming. Fuck that noise.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Whether it's petting a cat or hugging a person, contact is my ambrosia.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You feel like it. I want to hear what you have to say. :)