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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 47-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 18
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I have had the good fortune of living, working, studying, playing and traveling outside of the United States for nearly 10 years of my adult life: 6 in Paris and -- most recently-- London, England. Very much a Harlemite (by way of New Haven, Ann Arbor and Boston) my life abroad has pretty much shaped who I am, my manners, style of living and my views of the world. Most would say that I am kind, good-natured, smart, hopelessly romantic, warm, nurturing, thoughtful, loyal and enigmatic.
What I’m doing with my life
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Resettling in New York and working incredibly hard (resisting it all the way). Focused on finding balance between long hours in the office and play.
I’m really good at
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Photography, cooking, entertaining, traveling, swimming, listening, writing, cycling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my smile and easy- going manner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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An English Lit and Philosophy major, Francophile- turned lawyer--I've read more than I can list -- Today, I read an average of 500 pages a week-- less for pleasure and more for work, sadly. Pleasure reading is around the Times, New Yorker and non-fiction, mostly. There are over 3,000 songs in my I-tunes catalogue. I-Tunes Genius has identified the following categories: classical soul; jazz vocals; downtempo-lounge;classical instrumental; techno-house; neo-soul; world: Latin/Brazilian/Africando and others. I love the theatre and dance (but don't often find the time to go (working on changing that) . Friends and family say that I am an excellent chef. I am open to eating and drinking (and cooking) almost anything-- anywhere-- as long as its quality.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Close friends
The beach
The pool
My passport
My Canon 7d
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Food and wine. Work, travel, family, friends and ways to have fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working out with my trainer and at home decompressing from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Will tell you later....
You should message me if
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You are sincere, smart, kind, educated, reasonably accomplished, caring, fun, stable, grounded, athletic, masculine, adventurous and interested....