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47 F Belmont, MA

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Last Online
Apr 7
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Estonian (Okay), Indonesian

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My self-summary
Let's see... I have a range of social/romantic arrangements in mind to share via this. Am quite comfortable with my life and my values and progressive social space.
_Sometime soon_ I'll change back to my initial more serious and practical workaday profile. Today, you get this. *g*

I'm a forests and rivers person, mountains and swamps- only lately coming to appreciate beaches. Body surfing! Love New Orleans, San Francisco and tons of dancing. I stormchase and adore autumn most; I do and attend storytellings. I like meaningful traditions, private and group special bonding moments. Organized religion, not so much.

There is a llama named Calliope, whose description amuses and suits me: "Calliope likes treats and all sorts of mental stimulation, ie: INPUT! She also likes space to roam and hills to climb and posture from..." Posture, do yoga, cavort, dance up there.

I am audacious, licentious, sybaritic, and a bit loquacious
[that 3-word ID-er is long dead- what, you didn't notice?]
What I’m doing with my life
A lot of dance, singing, theater, and active pastimes. I have kicked up my athleticism a great deal in the last years. May start cycling/kayak racing or marathons soon.

Back to doing: Many culinary experiments, container veg and herb gardening, enjoying Boston-area theater

work: a little telecom and finance, a little business analysis - the master's degrees had little to do w/ these

travel: I get in fair a bit of travel, almost yearly. Most recently to Colorado, Peru and to see the polar bears in Churchill, Manitoba. And I miss Indonesia.

theatrically: a few recent roles- dramatic, G&S operetta, 'live radio' shows, formerly cabaret and choral performance too

Actively/Socially: blues, contra, Tech Squares and swing dance, biking and kayaking a lot, hiking, snow skiing, soccer, tennis, volleyball...
I’m really good at
tenacious curiosity, analytical vigor. Disambiguating and disentangling number, financial, and other things. Communication of experiences and about interactions

banter, gentle extroversion, nonverbal interplay. noncritical appreciation
The first things people usually notice about me
My curly bangs. A certain flair I tend to give my eyes.
Or a third feature {'it's a feature, not a bug!'} notable in the pics

an alertness, wryness, my open and plucky nature
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lit: 5 bookcases, man. Shakespeare, Barbara Kingsolver, Tom Stoppard, Edward Albee, Armistead Maupin, Vikram Seth, Milan Kundera. Sci-fi like David Brin, Lois M. Bujold, Orson Scott Card(sorry), fun humorists like Cynthia Heimel, erotica
Oh, also folktales and epics around the world. The Mahabhrata and Ramayana. Am kinda drawn to S. East Asia.

Film: new filmmakers, classics, animation, mockumentaries like the Aussie "Cane Toads" flick. Serenity, Hot Fuzz, the Marvel movies, Beasts of the Southern Wild, Me, You and Everyone We Know, Boston Underground film, ALL B/Pride and Prejudice versions. Oh, the LOTR Trilogy, Triplets of Belleville, Run Lola Run, Dark City, Sin City, Waking Ned Devine...

I never watch network tv! Yet... Dexter, Dr. Who, FireFly, Six Feet Under, Queer As Folk, Downton Abbey, the British Sherlock Holmes had their turns. Generally after their airing. Oh, and Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert, Rachel Maddow.

Music: 70's, 80's, funk, jazz, torch singers, blues, brass, harmonica(harp!). Björk, Etta James, Sarah Vaughn, NIN, Portishead, Cocteau Twins, Spearhead, Charlie Hunter Trio, Jamiroquai, Stereo MC's, The BOBS, Vampire Weekend, Flight of the Conchords... Play a little keyboards, sing incessantly.

Comestibles: Am a mad epicure, not that Thin Mints aren't wuv too- love Moroccan, Indian, Thai, dim sum, sushi, mole enchiladas. Increasingly I make these various cuisines. Also make bread, yogurt, do most of the CSA/homestead-y activities.

Alcohol: Mead, mojitos, cordials, port wine, sake. Bourbon drinks, single malts. Dark beers, Dixie "Blackened Voodoo" lager, "Trois Pistoles" dark ale 'that lingers like old port wine.' It does! Then again, I spend hardly any time drinking.

TL:DR? Hey, I can't remember this list on demand either. :-)
The six things I could never do without
Career practicality.

dance, music (most of which I soon start) singing

friends and socialness, trust and confidences

witty repartee, verbal engagement, evocative and noire-y dialog

sensuality, in colors and textures, in touch

a host of brain-feeding pursuits, my broad set of 'geekdoms'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the latest smorgasbord of news clips and clever links via social networking; just like you do, admit it.

the latest bit of lit I found at a used bookstore, creative ideas sparked by others' articles, theatrical offerings, philosophical rants

both watching and making my local and more farflung world better. Amazed at the many political changes lately, delighted by many, critically examining the lot. Worried about the polar bears, whom I really did find incredible and so gentle(yes, 'whom' works for me here).
On a typical Friday night I am
outta the work clothes and into a sarong, whatever the season
swing dancing
catching a movie, seeing a show, going to a party, dancing reading voraciously in my nest
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that I have probably punned around with your word choice in my head. *g* And possibly internally studied your accent/inflection/vocal quirks as an (amateur) 'actor' might.

that I have a strong sense of boundaries that you should assume you stand outside of until I am comfortable with you; I extend the same courtesy to others. I dislike controlling, pushy, 'Type A' people who assume all data is theirs to demand.

that sexuality and sexual fantasy are something of a hobby, yet the simplest touches and moments can overthrow me completely "the smallest twine may move me" (da Bard)

Darn right, I'm GGG. Aren't you?
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 35–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
something here intrigues you

you love dance and odd adventures

you've stumbled on a new wonder and want to share it with someone

reading to someone and being read to appeals to you

the whim of the moment moves you

So many of you make great impressions. If you chose an age range that excludes me, I passed on messaging- but you might consider it. :-)

Oh, also, an opening message that isn't even a full sentence won't actually succeed in getting my attention. You do need to put in a bit more effort to start out.