I've been called worse than the cat.
These are pretty accurate descriptions.
Kink friendly (sub) - Gender : Male - INFP
Ethically non-monogamous - Pants-on-head-goofball
...to label the shit outta myself, all the better to understand me my dear. (As much as I love to delve deeper into subjects I'm not a fan of repeating the minutiae, so if you need a recap it's here.)
- - Not a unicorn, sorry couples! - -
I am not into casual encounters.
Doing a reception gig... but I'm starting to get kinda bored of it, and further infatuated by the idea of running or helping run a household in addition to part time and volunteer work. I'm all about dat hospitality.
Sometimes I also do arty things.
Lately I feel like I just talk a lot, online anyhow.
Currently I have a lovely primary fella, and three other partners whom I love very much. Not actively looking to add to that. Four is a lot in whatever capacity!
Not taking everything terribly seriously, yet actually comprehending the full gravity of things.
Being easily distracted, and easily excited...
Being a space-cadet, and incredibly tactile.
Or my smile, when I actually do smile.
And that I'm kind of a weirdo.
Books: Neil Gaiman, Garth Nix, Tamora Pierce, Holly Black, Mercedes Lackey, "As Simple As Snow" etc. (and graphic novels holy cow... such as Preacher, Transmet, Birds of Prey, Locke & Key...) [Fantasy. I love fantasy, biographies, and humor writing]
Movies: Hanna, The Craft, No Country for Old Men, Death Proof, Labyrinth, The Quick and the Dead, MirrorMask, Practical Magic etc.
Shows: Bones, Bob's Burgers, Supernatural, United States of Tara, American Horror Story, Archer, Hannibal etc.
Music: Amanda Palmer, Marina & the Diamonds, Die Antwoord, Kimbra, The Animals, Rammstein, Patti Smith, Genesis, Type O Negative etc. (I like every genre of music.... just not every band within said genres)
Food: Sushi, Middle-Eastern (Lebanese), peaches & blackberries, Dim sum, churros & similar, etc.
Vidya games should also be a catagory, even though I tend to back-seat game mostly...
And how on earth do I STOP thinking?
Ideally, chilling out with some folks, having some drinks and cuddles and laughs, is always super excellent. Dancing/flailing about to some loud lovely band would be even better, followed by the aforementioned things! I have a good deal of energy after work if something piques my interest...
But also I'd like to be home by myself being a nasty hobbitses...
But on a more serious note, I'm diagnosed with PTSD, depression, and anxiety. I'm a delicate little flower, and that frustrates me to no end. But I'm hell bent on stability, well on my way to shelving these labels for good.
If you think these issues mean I'm nutters and there's no hope for me, then I've no need for you.
You are certain you can handle my shenanigans.
You don't mind sharing.
You are patient, honest, and kind, but not a pushover.
You don't mind taking things slow.