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26 Salem, MA Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22-30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Oct 28
Middle Eastern, White, Other
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've been called a walking contradiction.
I've been called worse than the cat.
These are pretty accurate descriptions.

Kink friendly (sub) - Gender : Male - INFP
Ethically non-monogamous - Pants-on-head-goofball label the shit outta myself, all the better to understand me my dear. (As much as I love to delve deeper into subjects I'm not a fan of repeating the minutiae, so if you need a recap it's here.)

- - Not a unicorn, sorry couples! - -

I am not into casual encounters.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working hard on self-actualization, as ever one does.

Doing a reception gig... but I'm starting to get kinda bored of it, and further infatuated by the idea of running or helping run a household in addition to part time and volunteer work. I'm all about dat hospitality.

Sometimes I also do arty things.
Lately I feel like I just talk a lot, online anyhow.

Currently I have a lovely primary fella, and three other partners whom I love very much. Not actively looking to add to that. Four is a lot in whatever capacity!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Eating tasty food. Like, the best.
Not taking everything terribly seriously, yet actually comprehending the full gravity of things.
Being easily distracted, and easily excited...
Being a space-cadet, and incredibly tactile.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm skinny I guess. :/
Or my smile, when I actually do smile.
And that I'm kind of a weirdo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Keeping this list incredibly brief, mostly because my recall for trivia is horrid, and I have MANY interests, in all these areas -

Books: Neil Gaiman, Garth Nix, Tamora Pierce, Holly Black, Mercedes Lackey, "As Simple As Snow" etc. (and graphic novels holy cow... such as Preacher, Transmet, Birds of Prey, Locke & Key...) [Fantasy. I love fantasy, biographies, and humor writing]

Movies: Hanna, The Craft, No Country for Old Men, Death Proof, Labyrinth, The Quick and the Dead, MirrorMask, Practical Magic etc.

Shows: Bones, Bob's Burgers, Supernatural, United States of Tara, American Horror Story, Archer, Hannibal etc.

Music: Amanda Palmer, Marina & the Diamonds, Die Antwoord, Kimbra, The Animals, Rammstein, Patti Smith, Genesis, Type O Negative etc. (I like every genre of music.... just not every band within said genres)

Food: Sushi, Middle-Eastern (Lebanese), peaches & blackberries, Dim sum, churros & similar, etc.

Vidya games should also be a catagory, even though I tend to back-seat game mostly...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Those warm days with soft breezes that just envelope you like a full-body kiss of cool... There are actually many things I couldn't do without. Experiencing all the little things life has to offer, that's important to me. The big things, too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to not be intimidated by past experience. Should I move again; am I just trying to sate an insatiable wanderlust, or am I running away? What it means to be a philosopher. And hedgehogs... and body mods... My happiest self would be much more pierced, shaved, colored and tattooed... I love utilizing my body as a canvas.
And how on earth do I STOP thinking?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typically finishing work late and starting the primary BF weekend routine. (Can't see each other during the week 'cos distance/work)

Ideally, chilling out with some folks, having some drinks and cuddles and laughs, is always super excellent. Dancing/flailing about to some loud lovely band would be even better, followed by the aforementioned things! I have a good deal of energy after work if something piques my interest...

But also I'd like to be home by myself being a nasty hobbitses...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Wolfman's got nards.

But on a more serious note, I'm diagnosed with PTSD, depression, and anxiety. I'm a delicate little flower, and that frustrates me to no end. But I'm hell bent on stability, well on my way to shelving these labels for good.

If you think these issues mean I'm nutters and there's no hope for me, then I've no need for you.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You don't mind taking the initiative.
You are certain you can handle my shenanigans.
You don't mind sharing.
You are patient, honest, and kind, but not a pushover.
You don't mind taking things slow.