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38 • M • Bristol, UK
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 25–46
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last Online
- Sep 19
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegan
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from space camp
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Greek (Okay), Dutch (Poorly)
Acting this way: “Be daring, be different, be impractical, be anything that will assert integrity of purpose and imaginative vision against the play-it-safers, the creatures of the commonplace, the slaves of the ordinary” - Cecil Beaton
Enjoying this knowledge: http://bit.ly/weluvsex
Applying this wisdom: "Everything and everyone that comes together must sooner or later be parted, and until you are able to accept that, you will suffer" - Buddhist saying
Savouring this experience: "Science is not only compatible with spirituality; it is a profound source of spirituality. When we recognize our place in an immensity of light years and in the passage of ages, when we grasp the intricacy, beauty, and subtlety of life, then that soaring feeling, that sense of elation and humility combined, is surely spiritual" - Carl Sagan
Delighting in this escapism: "Beauty for some provides escape, Who gain a happiness in eyeing, The gorgeous buttocks of the ape, Or Autumn sunsets exquisitely dying" -Aldous Huxley
1. the female ass
3. the web
6. asking questions like: 'Why six'?
You're a woman who knows what she wants and ACTS on it (ie. doesn't continually hide behind a computer...or social conventions).
For the not-so-observant ladies out there, please note: I am NOT looking for a monogamous relationship. I am also NOT cheating on a partner. The reason I don't show my face pic is because I'm in an ethical, non-monogamous relationship and people tend to be narrow-minded and judgmental (something OKCupid administrators appear to be naively ignorant about). I'll happily share my photo with you in my reply.
Happily my wife and I are soul mates but not sole mates :)
ARCHIVE of useful replies I've shared with ladies on here (well, I think it's useful, and I'm sure most liberated men and women would agree):
>>>> The reason many women connect / fall in love so easily after good sex / cuddling is because of the production of oxytocin ie. they can't help it.
Oh indeed, I'm aware of oxytocin and that evolution has engineered things quite cleverly. After all, with only one available egg - and having to sacrifice nine months of precious resources - it's important to begin connecting quickly with a worthy partner and helper (and induce oxytocin production in him too).
YET - once family stability has been secured - the fact remains the human female continues to possess the only know biological organ to have evolved SOLELY for pleasure.
Surely Mother Nature did not carefully forge such an astounding organ over millions of years for it to remain unexplored and used only occasionally?
>>>so I'm guessing ur just looking for sex?
Sex is rather dull without a connection / chemistry, wouldn't you say? I'm looking for meaningful sex - not 'just sex'.
I guess like 98% of modern-day women you're looking for (love+sex)?
Have you ever asked yourself why we're brought up to believe that (love + sex) must always be tightly bound together?
It hasn't always been that way with many long-lasting, successful cultures: http://bit.ly/pleasuretaboo.
Modern science has discovered fidelity is not our default condition: http://bit.ly/weluvsex
As have many couples on this website.
Don't you agree holding out for 'Prince Charming' or 'Ms Right' or 'Mr Perfect' is a big risk?
It's a risk because chances are slim such a person will ever be found (I mean, look at the millions of seekers on this website alone). Instead, chances are high we'll grow old, lonely and unfulfilled (or have to desperately 'settle' for someone inferior at the eleventh hour).
Isn't it wiser to try something different? Something with a far greater likelihood of bringing happiness and fulfilment?
>>>I spend a lot of time thinking about:
>Where are all the decent men gone
It turns out there never were many 'decent men' around. That's not how mother Nature (evolution) has designed the human species : http://bit.ly/weluvsex
Personally I'm convinced it's religion and male-dominated society that has sold us the lie of 'fidelity and monogamy' (aka 'hands off my possession').
Different cultures (like my ancestors in ancient Greece and Rome) enjoyed sex and life without getting hung up about 'fidelity and monogamy' : http://bit.ly/pleasuretaboo
This doesn't mean you can't be in a solid, emotionally secure relationship with your soul-mate (as I and many others on here are lucky to enjoy). Just don't restrict each other's perfectly natural sexual desires. Detach sex from love - they don't belong together! :-)
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