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38 Bristol, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:35pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Greek (Okay), Dutch (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you're inquisitive enough to have looked up the word 'callipygean', you'll know which part of your body I'll worship unreservedly; and I'll know you have a streak of curiosity, that I find a real turn-on. Need another clue? : if I lived in ancient Greece, I'd be a devout worshiper at the temple of Aphrodite Kallipygos.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Avoiding this tragedy: "While you are dreaming of the future or regretting the past, the present, which is all you have, slips from you and is gone" - Hilaire Belloc

Acting this way: “Be daring, be different, be impractical, be anything that will assert integrity of purpose and imaginative vision against the play-it-safers, the creatures of the commonplace, the slaves of the ordinary” - Cecil Beaton

Enjoying this knowledge:

Applying this wisdom: "Everything and everyone that comes together must sooner or later be parted, and until you are able to accept that, you will suffer" - Buddhist saying

Savouring this experience: "Science is not only compatible with spirituality; it is a profound source of spirituality. When we recognize our place in an immensity of light years and in the passage of ages, when we grasp the intricacy, beauty, and subtlety of life, then that soaring feeling, that sense of elation and humility combined, is surely spiritual" - Carl Sagan

Delighting in this escapism: "Beauty for some provides escape, Who gain a happiness in eyeing, The gorgeous buttocks of the ape, Or Autumn sunsets exquisitely dying" -Aldous Huxley
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well, many things. All my life I've aspired to be a modern-day equivalent of the Renaissance Universal Man. Yet in the context of this site, I'm really good at connecting with self-assured ladies who know what they're after. I derive my satisfaction from thoroughly pleasing the woman I'm with - physically, intellectually and emotionally. I'm told I'm a gentleman in and out of bed (perhaps not so much in bed) and a good understanding of the female body. A Universal Man has standards to live up to!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Mad hair and possibly big brown eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
OK I realise this section reveals a lot about a person, but crikey is it DULL. I'd rather share this information face to face, in stimulating discussion. Suffice to say I love intelligent books, elevating movies, a wide variety of music and vegan food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well, if you really want to know:
1. the female ass
2. smartphones
3. the web
4. science
5. music
6. asking questions like: 'Why six'?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Callipygean ladies
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Indeed, I am; the same as on all the others.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have kids and I've been sterilised (by choice!)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a woman between 18-49 who likes guys, lives in or near Bristol and is looking for stimulating friendship WITH unforgettable sex. If you have a problem with the latter, this expert lady may be able to help:

You're a woman who knows what she wants and ACTS on it (ie. doesn't continually hide behind a computer...or social conventions).

For the not-so-observant ladies out there, please note: I am NOT looking for a monogamous relationship. I am also NOT cheating on a partner. The reason I don't show my face pic is because I'm in an ethical, non-monogamous relationship and people tend to be narrow-minded and judgmental (something OKCupid administrators appear to be naively ignorant about). I'll happily share my photo with you in my reply.

Happily my wife and I are soul mates but not sole mates :)

Roberto xx


ARCHIVE of useful replies I've shared with ladies on here (well, I think it's useful, and I'm sure most liberated men and women would agree):

>>>> The reason many women connect / fall in love so easily after good sex / cuddling is because of the production of oxytocin ie. they can't help it.

Oh indeed, I'm aware of oxytocin and that evolution has engineered things quite cleverly. After all, with only one available egg - and having to sacrifice nine months of precious resources - it's important to begin connecting quickly with a worthy partner and helper (and induce oxytocin production in him too).

YET - once family stability has been secured - the fact remains the human female continues to possess the only know biological organ to have evolved SOLELY for pleasure.

Surely Mother Nature did not carefully forge such an astounding organ over millions of years for it to remain unexplored and used only occasionally?


>>>so I'm guessing ur just looking for sex?

Sex is rather dull without a connection / chemistry, wouldn't you say? I'm looking for meaningful sex - not 'just sex'.

I guess like 98% of modern-day women you're looking for (love+sex)?

Have you ever asked yourself why we're brought up to believe that (love + sex) must always be tightly bound together?

It hasn't always been that way with many long-lasting, successful cultures:

Modern science has discovered fidelity is not our default condition:

As have many couples on this website.

Don't you agree holding out for 'Prince Charming' or 'Ms Right' or 'Mr Perfect' is a big risk?

It's a risk because chances are slim such a person will ever be found (I mean, look at the millions of seekers on this website alone). Instead, chances are high we'll grow old, lonely and unfulfilled (or have to desperately 'settle' for someone inferior at the eleventh hour).

Isn't it wiser to try something different? Something with a far greater likelihood of bringing happiness and fulfilment?


>>>I spend a lot of time thinking about:
>Where are all the decent men gone

It turns out there never were many 'decent men' around. That's not how mother Nature (evolution) has designed the human species :

Personally I'm convinced it's religion and male-dominated society that has sold us the lie of 'fidelity and monogamy' (aka 'hands off my possession').

Different cultures (like my ancestors in ancient Greece and Rome) enjoyed sex and life without getting hung up about 'fidelity and monogamy' :

This doesn't mean you can't be in a solid, emotionally secure relationship with your soul-mate (as I and many others on here are lucky to enjoy). Just don't restrict each other's perfectly natural sexual desires. Detach sex from love - they don't belong together! :-)