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CalmAndCool85

29 M Brookline, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Chinese (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Hebrew (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
**Insert amusing opening line here**

If you're idea of a perfect day involves reading, snuggling in bed or prolonged makeout sessions we might get along.

So here's what I like. If you share my likes, do send a message:
Deep discussions because I'm a giant nerd
Dressing up/Dressing well/Colorful shirts
Being friendly to everybody
Dancing
Learning about religion, be it my own or someone else's
Comedy and making other people laugh
Sci-fi
Feminism
Heavy Metal, hip hop and Jewish/Mizrachi music (no these things are not contradictions :)
Speaking foreign languages.
Drinking excellent tea
Listening to foreign pop music; if you can get down to that we should get together
Frequenting the library and used bookstores like it's my job

I try to be sarcastic and cuddly at the same time, so when I make fun of you it really just means I want some love.

I've also ridden on a yak in Tibet, that must count for something.

I'm currently living with my ex unfortunately, but that will change soon. Yeah I know. We broke up very recently and haven't had the chance to sort things out yet.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it as much as possible! Making my way through the corporate world. Trying to learn every language on earth. Finding the best espresso drinks (I'm a coffee nerd). Wishing I could get rid of all injustice in the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning new things for the sake of learning, computer stuff, kissing, cracking jokes, geeking it out. I'm also great at cuddling. It's a real talent.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to think it's either my sense of humor or kindness, but probably more like my pretty eyes (hint, hint)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Pretty much any history or language book, Game of Thrones, World without end, Harry Potter (just started reading it...I know...), Century Trilogy by Ken Follett, Say You're One of Them (not because it was on Oprah) and many many more. I love to read. My two favorite authors are Isaac Bashevis Singer and Steven Erikson. However, my favorite genres are sci-fi and horror novels. I love Stephen King, Ursula LeGuin, Octavia Butler, Alastair Reynolds, Arthur C. Clarke, Isaac Asimov and Iain Banks. I'm a hard sci-fi type with a soft spot for liberal sci-fi (hence LeGuin).

I like pretty much every form of music. Current favorites: Howlin' Wolf, Phil Collins, Zion Golan, Lowkey, Sarit Hadad, 80s Metallica and some Iron Maiden. I also love Lady Gaga. Why not?

I don't watch much TV other than sports (all Boston teams), stand up comedy and HBO shows. Just not my thing. However, I'm absolutely not one of those pretentious people who doesn't own a TV and looks down on people who partake.

I love food and I'll eat basically anything; my favorites are American, Middle Eastern, Chinese and sushi. Since I lived in China I'm really picky about Chinese food. My dad grew up in Kentucky so I have soft spot for southern comfort food too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, books, interesting food, family, intimacy, friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better kisser, politics and social justice, Boston sports teams, which restaurant I should try next and how to make the world a better place than when I went into it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes at home curled up with a book, sometimes hanging out with a friend, sometimes trying new restaurants.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really sensitive (but not needy!). I get deeply moved easily, for better or for worse things.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like what you see, enjoy good company, are conscious of what's going on in the world and care and share my taste in music (I know that's a stretch). I love someone who can hold up a long and fascinating conversation.
If you love yourself and your body. Nothing's sexier!
If you send me a message in a foreign language I will melt like putty. Just saying.