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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Judaism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, Chinese (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat), Hebrew (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you're idea of a perfect day involves discovering something new, cuddling or dance lessons we might get along.

So here's what I like. If you share any of my likes, do send a message:
Deep discussions because I'm a giant nerd
Dressing up/Dressing well/Colorful shirts
Being friendly to everybody
Dancing (I want to learn how to really dance, but I seem to always enjoy it)
Learning about religion, be it my own or someone else's
Music of all sorts, but particularly hip hop, pop and some others.
Learning every language on earth
Drinking excellent tea
Frequenting the library and used bookstores like it's my job

I'm very introverted but not shy, if that makes sense.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making my way through the corporate world. Finding the best espresso drinks (I'm a coffee nerd). Wishing I could get rid of all injustice in the world. Spending some time with you, perhaps?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning new things for the sake of learning, computer stuff, foreign languages and geeking it out. I'm also great at cuddling. And humble.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to think it's either my sense of humor or kindness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pretty much any history or language book, Game of Thrones, World without end, Harry Potter (just started reading it...I know...), Century Trilogy by Ken Follett, Say You're One of Them (not because it was on Oprah) and many many more. I love to read. My two favorite authors are Isaac Bashevis Singer and Steven Erikson. However, my favorite genres are sci-fi and horror novels. I love Stephen King, Ursula LeGuin, Octavia Butler, Alastair Reynolds, Arthur C. Clarke, Isaac Asimov and Iain Banks. I'm a hard sci-fi type with a soft spot for liberal sci-fi (hence LeGuin).

I like pretty much every form of music. Current favorites: Howlin' Wolf, Phil Collins, Zion Golan, Lowkey, Sarit Hadad, 80s Metallica and some Iron Maiden. I also love Lady Gaga. Why not?

I don't watch much TV other than sports (all Boston teams), stand up comedy and HBO shows. Just not my thing. However, I'm absolutely not one of those pretentious people who doesn't own a TV and looks down on people who partake.

I love food and I'll eat basically anything; my favorites are American, Middle Eastern, Chinese and sushi. Since I lived in China I'm really picky about Chinese food. My dad grew up in Kentucky so I have soft spot for southern comfort food too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, books, interesting food, family, intimacy, friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics and social justice, which restaurant I should try next and how to make the world a better place than when I went into it. I'm very interested in what people think and why they think the way they do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually relaxing after the work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll let you know once we get to know each other.
You should message me if
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You like what you see, enjoy good company, are conscious of what's going on in the world and are a nice person. I love someone who can hold up a long and fascinating conversation.