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CalmAndCool85

28 M Brookline, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:17am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Chinese (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Hebrew (Okay)

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My self-summary
**Insert amusing opening line here**

If you're idea of a perfect day involves reading, snuggling in bed or prolonged makeout sessions we might get along.

So here's what I like. If you share my likes, do send a message:
Deep discussions because I'm a giant nerd
Dressing up/Dressing well/Colorful shirts
Being friendly to everybody
Dancing
Learning about religion, be it my own or someone else's
Comedy and making other people laugh
Sci-fi
Feminism
Heavy Metal (no I don't look the part, get over it and that isn't a contradiction)
Speaking foreign languages. Right now I know standard (Mandarin) Chinese, Hebrew and Italian and I'm working on Spanish and Arabic.
Drinking excellent tea
Listening to foreign pop music; if you can get down to that we should get together
Frequenting the library and used bookstores like it's my job

I try to be sarcastic and cuddly at the same time, so when I make fun of you it really just means I want some love.

I've also ridden on a yak in Tibet, that must count for something.

I'm currently living with my ex unfortunately, but that will change soon. Yeah I know. We broke up very recently and haven't had the chance to sort things out yet.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it as much as possible! Making my way through the corporate world. Trying to learn every language on earth. Finding the best espresso drinks (I'm a coffee nerd). Wishing I could get rid of all injustice in the world.
I’m really good at
Learning new things for the sake of learning, computer stuff, kissing, cracking jokes, geeking it out. I'm also great at cuddling. It's a real talent.
The first things people usually notice about me
I like to think it's either my sense of humor or kindness, but probably more like my pretty eyes (hint, hint)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pretty much any history or language book, Game of Thrones, World without end, Harry Potter (just started reading it...I know...), Century Trilogy by Ken Follett, Say You're One of Them (not because it was on Oprah) and many many more. I love to read. My two favorite authors are Isaac Bashevis Singer and Chinua Achebe. However, my favorite genres are sci-fi and horror novels. I love Stephen King, Ursula LeGuin, Alastair Reynolds, Arthur C. Clarke, Isaac Asimov and Iain Banks. I'm a hard sci-fi type with a soft spot for liberal sci-fi (hence LeGuin). My next goal is to start reading Octavia Butler.

I like pretty much any form of music. It's not unusual for me to listen to Yemenite pop, Tupac and symphonic metal bands on the same day. Current favorites: blues like Howlin' Wolf, Phil Collins, Zion Golan, Lowkey, Sarit Hadad, 80s Metallica and some Iron Maiden. I also love Lady Gaga. Why not?

I don't watch much TV other than sports (all Boston teams), stand up comedy and HBO shows. Just not my thing. However, I'm absolutely not one of those pretentious people who doesn't own a TV and looks down on people who partake.

I love food and I'll eat basically anything; my favorites are American, Middle Eastern, Chinese and sushi. Since I lived in China I'm really picky about Chinese food. My dad grew up in Kentucky so I have soft spot for southern comfort food too.
The six things I could never do without
Music, books, interesting food, family, intimacy, friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be a better kisser, politics and social justice, Boston sports teams, which restaurant I should try next and how to make the world a better place than when I went into it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes at home curled up with a book, sometimes hanging out with a friend, sometimes trying new restaurants.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really sensitive (but not needy!). I get deeply moved easily, for better or for worse things.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You like what you see, enjoy good company, are conscious of what's going on in the world and care and share my taste in music (I know that's a stretch). I love someone who can hold up a long and fascinating conversation.
If you love yourself and your body. Nothing's sexier!
If you send me a message in a foreign language I will melt like putty. Just saying.