I’m a warm, smart, fit woman who delights in adventure. A friend
describes me as thoughtful, considerate and level-headed. I have a
whimsical sense of humor. I’m a good friend and an extrovert who
thrives on connection.
I'm hoping to find a bright, independent, confident, and curious
man. I am looking for a great friendship...that will develop into
intimacy. Trust and respect are the foundation of relationship. My
15 year study of Non-violent Communication has been
I'm adventurous and thrive when I spend time in nature. I hike,
camp, kayak and ski. I exercise consistently and have a healthy
What I’m doing with my life
I’ve just retired from my Pilates-based rehab practice; it truly is
mind-body medicine. The work is engaging, challenging and
rewarding. I am also a facilitator in an off-beat and life-changing
leadership program, the Ecology of Leadership: it's all about
personal growth, community building and developing leadership
I am also involved in Search for Common Ground, the largest
peace-building organization in the world. Right now I'm planning an
April fundraising event for Search---a tour of outside sculptures
at Oliver Ranch in Geyserville.
I’m really good at
I'm passionate about and skilled at networking. Had I realized that
passion when I was choosing a profession, I would have become a
headhunter. I enjoy and am skilled at arranging and organizing
events. I am also an inventive cook. Love going to the farmer's
market and preparing meals from what I collect.
I love dining well and often cook; I especially enjoy cooking for
people who enjoy eating. I love spending time with friends. I enjoy
planned and unplanned activities—relaxing, spontaneity and “hanging
More than most folks, I follow through when I say I'll do
something; only fairly obsessive students make it into medical
My ex-husband will vouch for my skills as a trip planner and
The first things people usually notice about me
Birds! I'm short. I tend to be outgoing and curious. I am also
articulate, funny and outspoken. And, you could tell me after we
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Crossing to Safety by Wallace Stegner, The Omnivore's Dilemma by
Michael Pollan, The China Study by T. Colin Campbell, Stumbling on
Happiness by Daniel Gilbert, State of Wonder by Ann Patchett. Love
to read the New York Times. Movies: Life Itself about Roger Ebert,
Her, Argo, The Help, It's a Wonderful Life, Black Orpheus, Eric
Rohmer films. Most often see plays at Marin Theatre Company, San
Francisco Playhouse and Berkeley Rep.
Music: Classical, jazz and world music.
Food: Favorite is Thai. Then Mediterranean/ Californian,
Vietnamese, and Mexican. Favorite restaurants: Insalatas and Royal
Thai. Gather in Berkeley.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, affection, adventure, fresh fruit and vegies, the sun,
spending time in nature,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Communication. When I speak, how to be clear, direct and minimize
defensiveness. Right now, I'm focused on training my independent
small dog--so I'm reading and thinking about dog training. Changing
two habits I wish I didn't have.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lectures or storytelling events at the Mill Valley Library. Perhaps
a movie or a play. Often going out for dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I have two habits I'd like to change--but I'll pause before
You should message me if
Anything that I've written appeals or clicks with you. If you think
I'd be a good friend.