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35 Somerville, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 31–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:38pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Briefly, I am caring, funny, thoughtful, active, and adventurous, ready for long-term commitment with the right person.

I love to dance, to sing, travel, outdoor rec (hiking, biking, cross-country skiing), yoga, film, food, drink, hardy laughs, getting away for the weekend, or schlubbing around my apartment in my pj's.

I recognize a friend by s/he who laughs generously at my jokes. Sometimes run in a new agey or hippie circle, but am often amongst the more ironic participants. I'm very close to my parents and sister, and a doting aunt to my niece and nephew who live locally.

(CambridgeKookla is a misnomer ever since I moved across the border in summer '13 to Somerville after 6 years in 02139. SomervilleKookla now)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For work, I manage obesity prevention studies for a non-profit research institute. I'm currently on the market for something new, however. Stay tuned.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh (including myself), listening and remembering, dance improvisation, honoring commitments, riding a bike in the city, taking care of myself, planning trips, cooking (good, if not *really* good), giving and receiving affection.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have several different laughs and one of them is an onomatopoeic "ha ha ha." Some recurring compliments include high emotional IQ and nice butt, genuine, compassionate, and organized.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Pina, Boyhood, Happy Go Lucky, The Wrestler, School of Rock, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (the original), Man on Wire, Frances Ha.

TV: Downton Abbey, Louie CK, Girls, etc

Music: Gillian Welch, Lauryn Hill, Ethiopian jazz and vocalists, some pop, etc (emphasis on etc). I suppose I fall healthily left of center on the folk/rock spectrum, and most other spectra for that matter.

Books (recently): Zeitoun by Dave Eggers, The Power of Now, and Nobody's Fool.

Food and drink: There are few foods that I don't like. Indian and Greek food and ice cream rank pretty high. I have vegetarian leanings but enjoy meat, too. Beer, wine, and cocktails.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, music, dance, hugs, and kisses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to engineer a satisfying career, human nature, friendship and relationships generally, men, the have and have nots, dance/movement, my niece and nephew, my many blessings.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Weekend nights often look like dinner and/or movie, dancing, drinks with friends. Friday nights in are nice, too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a vocal bus rider..."can everybody move back, please?" Or, to the driver of a full bus, "you have to stop the bus for the poor guy at this stop up here, it's freezing out there!"
You should message me if
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You're funny (silly and playful are good, too :)), kind, active, and a strong communicator;

You have the time and are in the right emotional space to integrate someone new into your life;

My profile made you smile.