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21 Santa Clara, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 15
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I can't come up with an opening line that doesn't make me cringe so I'm just not going to bother with it right now.

I was born in Virginia, grew up mainly in North Carolina with a brief two-year stint in Pennsylvania, and moved out here to California for college. Been feeling a little homesick since then.

In my spare time I like to game and chat with my online friends or just browse the internet. Play stuff like League of Legends, Team Fortress 2, New Vegas. Occasionally I like to doodle in my sketchbook. The vast majority of my time is eaten by school assignments. My only vehicle is a bike. I wear checkered slip-ons. I don't know where I'm going with this.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a full-time student at Santa Clara University, currently majoring in Mechanical Engineering. Still not entirely sure where it will take me or what I want to do with that, but I'm halfway through now and I guess I just have to press on.

I never really had the need to drive myself anywhere growing up so I still haven't actually learned how. Maybe eventually.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I wouldn't really say I'm good at drawing, but it's something I do sometimes and very rarely I'll manage to put down something that's nice to look at. It's more something I do idly.

I was always told in high school that I write well. I'm not certain if it's true, and unfortunately I also find the writing process extremely unenjoyable. At the very least, it's a mildly useful skill.

I've managed to build 2 working PCs by buying individual parts. It's not a super impressive accomplishment and I can't honestly say I understand the significance of every spec, but it's still something I can do.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually that I'm quiet.
Otherwise, no one has ever told me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Some examples of music:
Against Me!, Black Sabbath, The Blood Brothers, Bob Dylan, The Clash, Crying, David Bowie, Dead Kennedys, Defiance Ohio, The Doors, Eighties Matchbox B-Line Disaster, Jawbreaker, The Misfits, Neon Blonde, Old Crow Medicine Show, The Presets, The Ramones, The Smiths, System of a Down, This Bike is a Pipe Bomb, Tiger Army, Wolf Parade

It's sort of an eclectic list so I couldn't give you any single defining genre.

I don't do much reading these days but I used to enjoy Agatha Christie novels, specifically the ones with Hercule Poirot.

Two of my favorite movies are Hot Fuzz and Blazing Saddles. I'm sure there must be a third one to round out the list but I can't decide at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My computer.
2. My family and friends, though I never thought I'd say it
3. Music
4. A cozy blanket
5. A sketchbook
6. Probably something else materialistic.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The past.
My motivation.
My health or lack thereof.
School work.
My friends and family.
Video games.
Why I'm so afraid of talking to people.
Getting a job.
What people think of me.
If people ever think of me.
What my internal organs look like.
How matter originated.
Getting a pilot's license.
Getting a driver's license.
Time travel and subsequent paradoxes.
What it's like to drown.
If anything I do is going to matter.
And sex, probably.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably homework, ideally gaming with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't think of much I'm not willing to tell. Go ahead and ask if you want to know anything.