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45 F Encino, CA

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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am open to many scenarios regarding meeting a man; be it a great new friend, an amazing man to date and enjoy casually, or a long term, serious and committed love...this being the best case scenario.
I have no time or interest in one night stands. My life is rich and full and I do not "need" a man but rather, would love to enhance my life...with a dear friend, loyal confidant, giving, passionate, sexy lover and my safe person.

I am wiser, calmer and more thoughtful with age, more tolerant, except of intolerance. I am generous and giving, quirky and different, sarcastic but considerate, distractible and high energy at times but serious when need be. I miss connecting on all those wonderful levels when you meet a special person. Appreciate positive people...slight self deprecation can be endearing...but be kind to others...always and in all ways. I compliment people and I found this quote and loved it..."The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but reveal to them their own". I think it is less about "who you are" and in actuality, more about, "who I show up as, when I am with you" Being your highest self in a relationship is quite an aphrodisiac. I am a firm believer that the mind is the sexiest part in all of us....and a meeting of minds can be, well, mind blowing! I am liberal and was a licensed clinical social worker for years but am looking to do something new at this time.

Love playful banter, a quick and even wicked wit, fun flirting, emotionally intelligent conversation, talking across a table and touching under one. Vanilla at times, definitely not, at others. I like a mind that challenges me to question. Looking for a passionate man, with some calming energy, dominant at the right time and place, healthy lifestyle, goofy at times, maybe intense at others, sexy, kinky, smart as all get out, my safe person. You listen, ask questions, reciprocate, are patient, love food, drink, conversing, the elegant and the gritty, diversity, kids, our planet, people, animals, intimate, wild experiences and do I... Be well.
What I’m doing with my life
Keeping healthy in all ways and raising very amazing kids, dogs and cats!
I’m really good at
cooking, entertaining/throwing parties, solving problems, being a mom, helping those in crisis, sensual experiences, being tactful, resolving conflict, defusing difficult situations, being a mediator.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Indian, Thai, Middle Eastern, Italian, Japanese, Healthy faire. My Life As a Dog, Terminator, American Beauty, Star Trek, Once Were Warriors, The Little Mermaid, Finding Nemo, Toy Story 123. I like thrillers, and good sci-fi. House of Mirth, Confederacy of Dunces, Of Human Bondage, Gorgeous cookbooks,, Colbert, Stewart, Yes some primetime crap too!
The six things I could never do without
my kids, my family, my pets, healthy food, my phone, deep breathing...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
that I am not doing what I need to get done...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a singles ad on okcupid! shhhh!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are intelligent, funny, have a quick wit, tolerant, sexy, are persistent and like to pursue a great woman. Please be aware that I am a widow with younger very single parent....and if this is an issue for you, it is an issue for me.