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47 Sherman Oaks, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 38–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:02pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Now to scare off 97% of you right off the bat, I am a widow with 3 children, 6 yo son, 8 and 12 yo daughters. I do have local family and sitters and free time. Many can not handle this, if it is an issue for you, it is an issue for me. If not, please read on....

I am wiser, calmer and more thoughtful with age, more tolerant, except of intolerance. I am; giving, quirky, not run-of-the-mill, sometimes sarcastic but considerate, distractible and high energy, at times, but serious when need be. Appreciate positive people...slight self deprecation can be endearing...but be kind to others...always and in all ways. I compliment people and I found this quote and loved it..."The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but reveal to them their own". I think it is less about "who you are" and in actuality, more about, "who I show up as, when I am with you". Being your highest self in a relationship is quite an aphrodisiac. I am a firm believer that the mind is the sexiest part in all of us....and a meeting of minds, can be, well, mind blowing!

I miss connecting on all those wonderful levels when you meet a special person. I crave and want that connection, where a man is watching over me, checking in on me, caring for me, taking care of my needs and me theirs, asking me questions, wanting to know about my vanilla day to day, texts and gifts, toys, and surprises, spoiling me, possessing me, I thrive on that shared intensity of yearning for one another day in and day out. I reciprocate and am generous in return.

I am looking for one man. I have no time or interest in one night stands. I thrive on the intensity of extreme sensual sensations combined with overwhelming emotion and a strong intellectual connection and how they all can meet up together, for an unbelievable intimate connection. That feeling that there can never be enough but being near sated, is an incredible experience. Definitely Sapiosexual.

I would rather share with you an honest self-reflection, versus a list of self praising, vague adjectives. I am assertive, educated, outspoken, playful and strong willed, a touch snarky, a fast thinker, never bored and never boring. In other ways, I can be; shy, self conscious, fidgety and hard to read. I do best with a patient, kind, understanding man, who respects my speed and limits. Day to day, I am your equal, but there are times where I will want you to take over. I am looking for that balance/exchange/dynamic with a partner who understands about the play between two people and where it can take us. I believe this can heighten intimacy on many levels for a couple.

My life is rich and full and I do not "need" a man, but rather, would love to enhance my life with; a dear friend, loyal confidant, patient, open minded, giving, passionate, crazed, sexy lover and my safe person. I also do well with a persistent man, a man who pursues me....
What I’m doing with my life
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Keeping healthy in all ways and raising very amazing kids, dogs and cats!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, entertaining/throwing parties, solving problems, being a mom, helping those in crisis, resolving conflict, defusing difficult situations, being outrageous, saying what comes to my mind, quick come backs, witty repartee, asking questions, reciprocity, complimenting people, listening, being a mediator.....
The first things people usually notice about me
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my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Indian, Thai, Middle Eastern, Italian, Japanese, Healthy faire. My Life As a Dog, Terminator, American Beauty, Star Trek, Once Were Warriors. I like thrillers, and good sci-fi. House of Mirth, Confederacy of Dunces, Of Human Bondage, Gorgeous cookbooks,, Colbert, Stewart, of course Amazon Prime and Netflix!
70's and 80's music still moves me
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids, my family, my pets, healthy food, my phone and
wicked intimacy...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
that I am not doing what I need to get done...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hell no.....
You should message me if
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You love playful banter, a quick and even wicked wit, fun flirting, emotionally intelligent conversation, talking across a table and touching under one. Vanilla at times, definitely not, at others. I like a mind that challenges me to question. Looking for a passionate man, with some calming energy, even keeled, a thick skin, who can dish it like I serve it, dominant at the right time and place, healthy lifestyle, goofy at times, maybe intense at others, sexy, kinky, smart as all get out, my safe person. You; listen, ask questions, reciprocate, are patient, love food, drink, conversing, the elegant and the gritty, diversity, kids, our planet, others, animals, intimate, wild experiences and do I...Be well.