I have no time or interest in one night stands. My life is rich and full and I do not "need" a man but rather, would love to enhance my life...with a dear friend, loyal confidant, giving, passionate, sexy lover and my safe person.
I am wiser, calmer and more thoughtful with age, more tolerant, except of intolerance. I am generous and giving, quirky and different, sarcastic but considerate, distractible and high energy at times but serious when need be. I miss connecting on all those wonderful levels when you meet a special person. Appreciate positive people...slight self deprecation can be endearing...but be kind to others...always and in all ways. I compliment people and I found this quote and loved it..."The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but reveal to them their own". I think it is less about "who you are" and in actuality, more about, "who I show up as, when I am with you" Being your highest self in a relationship is quite an aphrodisiac. I am a firm believer that the mind is the sexiest part in all of us....and a meeting of minds can be, well, mind blowing! I am liberal and was a licensed clinical social worker for years but am looking to do something new at this time.
Love playful banter, a quick and even wicked wit, fun flirting, emotionally intelligent conversation, talking across a table and touching under one. Vanilla at times, definitely not, at others. I like a mind that challenges me to question. Looking for a passionate man, with some calming energy, dominant at the right time and place, healthy lifestyle, goofy at times, maybe intense at others, sexy, kinky, smart as all get out, my safe person. You listen, ask questions, reciprocate, are patient, love food, drink, conversing, the elegant and the gritty, diversity, kids, our planet, people, animals, intimate, wild experiences and life...as do I... Be well.