I use to believe, that to be a successful couple, many activities and beliefs needed to be shared. I have come to realize, that for me, the differences we share, are often what broadens my world and possibly yours. New perspectives, new activities never even
pondered until we met.
I crave, miss and want that connection where a man is watching over me, protecting me, checking in on me, caring for me, taking care of my needs and me theirs, asking me questions, wanting to know about my vanilla day to day, texts and gifts, toys, and surprises, spoiling me, possessing me.
I am monogamous, if you truly are too and that is our decision together, that is what I ultimately would want the most. I prefer that level of intensity with a man. I thrive on the intensity of extreme sensual sensations combined with overwhelming emotion...and how they can meet up together at times for an unbelievable intimate connection. That feeling that there can never be enough but being near sated, is an incredible experience.
In ways I am shy, nervous and fidgety, so I need a patient, kind understanding man, who respects my speed and limits. At other times I am very assertive, outspoken, playful and strong willed.
Day to day, I am your equal but there are times where I will want you to take over. I am looking for that balance/exchange/dynamic with a partner who understands about the play between two people and where it can take us. I believe this can heighten intimacy on many levels for a couple.
I have no time or interest in one night stands. My life is rich and full and I do not "need" a man, but rather, would love to enhance my life with; a dear friend, loyal confidant, giving, passionate, crazed, sexy lover and my safe person.